https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk Sarina Singh en-us 2018-10-30 04:46:17 UTC 2025-11-30 02:48:35 UTC hello@padlet.com 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298773773 Openness- HIGH
I find that when put with others I am very comfortable with my openness. For example when put in any class unlike getting sad about having no friends I always know I can make more easily because I am not afraid to be open with my personality.
Conscientiousness- MID
Conscientiousness does not apply as much to my outgoing trait because when I am being outgoing I am not thinking as much about organization, or goals but competence does apply a bit.
Extroversion- HIGH
Extroversion is a big part og being outgoing. It is basically the same thing. For example while talking to my friends about my biggest 5 traits I asked if outgoing was one and they all agreed and gave examples of times where I was extroverted as well as outgoing because when being outgoing you must be social and assertive which are both traits of extroverts as well.
Agreeableness- MID
Agreeableness to an extent does apply in the ways of needing to be trustworthy and good-natured while being outgoing but it is not the biggest factor.
Neuroticism- LOW
Outgoing people are usually not anxious, negative and unhappy therefor this would not impact the trait.]]> 2018-10-30 22:21:16 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298773773 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298791483 In reality I am very loud and social For example, When I was on dance team I was always told I was the heart of the team because I would get everyone excited and social by talking to everyone and becoming friends with everyone. My Ideal self is to be very friendly, social and extroverted. I believe my ideal and real self are very equivalent to each other.]]> 2018-10-31 00:03:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298791483 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298798115 Love & Belonging-
The Outgoing trait correlates immensely to love and belonging. I believe that the reason I am so outgoing is because I have a desire to belong and usually people in society who belong are the more extroverted and outgoing people. For example throughout my childhood I have always had many friends I would never struggle with loneliness because my personality would allow me to simply attract friends.
Self-Esteem -
Esteem is another level which correlates to the trait of being outgoing. One of the reasons I am so outgoing is not just to find belonging but to satisfy my own insecurities and anxieties. For example I have always had internal social anxiety, I am always afraid that I may be excluded or looked badly upon by society so my outgoing-ness covers that up and boosts my self esteem.

]]> 2018-10-31 00:40:25 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298798115 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298800967 My ego most closely controls this trait within my personality because it balances out being annoying and loud with being too quiet unapproachable. If the Id controlled this then instead of outgoing I would be annoying and obnoxious, on the other hand if my Superego controlled this I would be too quiet and not be able to be out there enough to make friends and be social.]]> 2018-10-31 00:55:07 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298800967 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298803195 Compensation-
When I was younger anytime I didn't make the team I wanted I made time for socializing with friends instead.]]> 2018-10-31 01:05:29 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298803195 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298997948 Openness- HIGH
In order to be someone who is funny and makes people laugh, I feel like being open is a given. You must be open and comfortable with yourself which I am. For example, a lot of the time when I make a joke it is about myself or sometimes I can make fun of myself to make a joke because I am very open.
Conscientiousness- MID
In order to make people laugh you do have to be conscious about what you are joking about and saying but you do not need to be organized or dependable, in fact funnier people are usually more impulsive.
Extroversion- HIGH
Funny people are almost always extroverted. You must be able to be outgoing, and social in order to successfully be funny.
Agreeableness-
I do not think agreeableness really applies to be funny. People do have to agree with you humor to think you are funny but for one to be funny himself agreeableness is not needed.
Neuroticism-
Funny people do not really show if they have unstable or stable emotions. I do not think my funniness relates very closely to neuroticism because even if I am very anxious or sad one day I can still be funny because it is apart of my personality.]]> 2018-10-31 14:30:43 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/298997948 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299023735 In reality I am very sarcastic and funny and make jokes about everything. This is because everyone in my family is very funny and so it has made me like this. MY ideal self is to be the type of person who can be funny but not annoying and who can make people smile.
I feel as though my two self's are pretty similar.]]> 2018-10-31 15:14:46 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299023735 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299026924 Love & Belonging-
Again, my funniness has a lot to do with my desire and need for a belonging and for love. When I am funny and make someone laugh I feel more accepted and it creates a place of belonging for me.

]]> 2018-10-31 15:19:56 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299026924 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299124228 2018-10-31 18:11:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299124228 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299666750 My ego mostly controls this trait because it balances out being too obnoxious with jokes and being too shy with them. If my Id controlled it I would make stupid jokes all the time and probably offend people and If it were my superego I would probably never make any sarcastic jokes and they would all seem like dad jokes.]]> 2018-11-02 04:13:09 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299666750 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299668397 1) Regression- When I am sick I have to have my mom by me
2) Reaction formation- I hate one of my coaches but I always act nice to them and say hi when i see them
3) Projection- When I get in trouble for something with my parents I always project it onto my sister
4)Rationalization- When I am doing bad in a class but my other friends are doing bad in the class too it makes me feel better
5)Displacement- When my parents get mad at me for my grade in a class I take it out on my teachers
6)Denial-When someone tells me something about one of my friends I always deny it.]]> 2018-11-02 04:31:34 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299668397 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299668499 My Ideal self is to be the right amount of extroversion as well as aproachable. I want to be the type of person others want to be around. I want to bring laughter to others and make others feel the same optimism and thrills when they are around me. I want to be honest but not rude and out there but not annoying. My real self is very extroverted and funny due to my background of being on multiple teams and figuring out my own ways to make friends, but at times I can loose my optimism due to my anxiety and insecurities and at times I can be too honest because of my fear of being fake but then that can take me to the point of being offensive. However, to an extent my real and Ideal self are congruent]]> 2018-11-02 04:33:03 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299668499 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299669564 Openness- HIGH
Being curious, and independent is a big part of being optimistic. To be optimistic is to be hopefulness and open about what could happen. For example, at the begging of the year when my friends were stressing about if we would have any classes together I just stayed calm and said that everything would work out.
Conscientiousness- MID
Being conscious is not the biggest factor in being Optimistic. You do not really have to be organized or dependable but you do have to be hardworking in order to be optimistic about an outcome. 
Extroversion- MID/HIGH
To be optimisitic it is not necessary to be extroverted but you cannot exactly be optimistic and be super reserved or withdrawn. A good example of this is when my very introverted friend and I were talking about our project and she just did not think we would do good at all but I kept telling her to be optimistic and see what would happen and she just couldn´t. 
Agreeableness- MID
Not being agreeable does not mean I couldn´t be optimistic. However, usually optimists are very empathetic and trusting which agreeable people also are.
Neuroticism- HIGH
Neuroticist people are very negative and anxious which is the exact opposite of  an optimist. If I were neurotic I could not be an Optimist.

]]> 2018-11-02 04:45:24 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299669564 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299671375 Self-esteem-
I feel I am optimistic because it helps me to be more confident and unique. For example, once when I was talking to a friend and giving advice I told her to be positive and wait to see what happens and she told me she wished she could be as confident as me even though I do not feel like a confident person, this trait helps me seem like one.
Safety-
Optimism helps me feel safer in my decisions and helps me feel more stable. If I were not Optimistic I would always feel emotionally unstable due to anxiety about outcomes and such.]]> 2018-11-02 05:12:43 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299671375 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672038 2018-11-02 05:25:37 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672038 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672185 2018-11-02 05:27:18 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672185 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672204 My superego I feel like controls this trait the most. I think this because my superego is always trying to do the best and safest option which optimism is both safe and good. My superego would want me to always be happy and never sad or stressed there,for the Id cannot control this trait. The ego is a close second but I still feel as though the ego would not look ahead as much.]]> 2018-11-02 05:27:40 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299672204 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299673212 Openness- HIGH
Openness is very important in this trait. In order to be honest at all, one must be open which I am. For example, if one of my friends asks me my opinion on their hair or outfit and I think it is ugly then I will say it instead of sugar coating or lying.
Conscientiousness- LOW
When I am being honest I am not very conscious. I do not use my filter as much if I am being honest.
Extroversion- Not applied
Agreeableness-MID
When I am honest I can either be very agreeable or very non agreeable. Since honesty is usually a matter of perception and opinion it depends on other people´s view towards me or my honesty to see if I am agreeable or not.
Neuroticism- MID/LOW
Usually I am not neurotic if I am being honest but other people could think I am due to their opinion. ]]> 2018-11-02 05:34:18 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299673212 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299673752 Self-Actualization-
I believe my honest trait is a trait due to self-actualization. I do not think everyone can just be that honest and secure with telling people the truth all the time.
Safety-
I believe honesty also comes from my need to feel safe and secure. For example, If i were to lie to someone I would always feel insecure and scared that they will find out the truth but If i am honest I have that security and safety already.]]> 2018-11-02 05:43:51 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299673752 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674056 I believe my Superego mostly controls this trait. I think this because honesty is one of the mos golden rules and in general the superego always wants you to do the right thing. M Id cannot control it because if it did I would always be honest about things I do not need to say anything about and my Ego would always try to balance the two out however I just want to be honest which is why the Superego controls this trait.]]> 2018-11-02 05:49:09 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674056 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674257 2018-11-02 05:52:30 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674257 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674296 Openness- HIGH
In order to be a thrill seeker you must have a wide range of curiosity and interests. For example, I am always interested in doing anything for a good time. I will go to any sports event or amusement park or anything if it means me and my friends can have a good time.
Conscientiousness- LOW
Thrill seekers are usually not very organized planners. If i am seeking out a thrill I am not thinking about every angle of it I am only thinking about how it will be thrilling.
Extroversion- HIGH
In order to be a thrill seeker, to some extent one must be social but mainly extroverts seek adventure and are very assertive which are things I see in myself.
Agreeableness-MID
Being agreeable is not the most important trait when it comes to thrill seeking.
Neuroticism- LOW
When I am seeking a thrill I am not sad or thinking negatively. I am thinking optimistically about the nect thrill.]]> 2018-11-02 05:53:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299674296 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299675129 My Id mostly controls this trait because It is always thinking about the most fun thing to do and not the outcomes or consequences. My ego would think of a way to balance out the thrill with something grounded and my superego would not have my have any thrills. Therefor it is my ID.]]> 2018-11-02 06:04:16 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299675129 8013135 https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299675363 2018-11-02 06:06:32 UTC https://padlet.com/8013135/zwzerc9dgmlk/wish/299675363