PACE 2021 Social Toxicity Rain Clouds by Farima Pour-Khorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3 Think about a time you either witnessed, perpetuated or were impacted by a toxic rain cloud/form of oppression at school [elementary/middle/high school and/or college]. What happened? How did you feel? Does it still impact you today? How? en-us 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC 2025-09-28 19:49:12 UTC hello@padlet.com fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371604 I hated when white ppl would say "ghetto" it was always racialized and code for meaning Black]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371604 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371609 Sex education was ALWAYS hetero, never queer and never liberatory]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371609 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371613 being afraid to bring my delicious cultural foods to lunch because I always noticed a group of kids bullying any kids that were different from the norm]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371613 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371616 I wanted to try out to be a cheerleader but when I was in line to sign up another student said I was too fat and I was going to get rejected ]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371616 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371619 My boyfriend at school would always try to fight any guy who tried to talk to me or be my friend. ]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371619 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371625 not being able to go to field trips because the costs were always too high for my single mom to afford so I missed out on a lot.]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371625 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371632 There was no LGBTQ clubs or support groups or resources at all at my high school and the admin would not allow students to start their own on campus]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371632 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371634 I struggled so much with anxiety in school, especially because of standardized tests and my anxiety was never taken seriously. I would literally have panic attacks and teachers thought I was trying to get over on them.]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371634 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371637 never learning about indigenous people outside of their colonization]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371637 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371640 always bombarded with European standards of beauty, religion, and ways of being]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371640 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371642 I did a study abroad trip and at the border in a foreign country, I clearly noticed my white peers being privileged as white travelers, vs. me and one other darker-skinned peer as we were sent to a special room for further questioning and searching]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371642 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371646 teachers/students not making an effort to ask students what their pronouns are and consistently misgendering my trans friend.]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371646 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371648 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371648 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371654 I was always picked last to play on a team during PE because I was a girl and girls were/are perceived as weaker than boys-this started really young.]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371654 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371659 being treated like I was too old for resources or to receive help at community college because at a certain age I guess we are supposed to have it all together or figured out?]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371659 English Only Movement in California fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371662 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371662 fpourkhorshid https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371668 being told that I am too sensitive or overreacting by male colleagues because I didn't like being interrupted and talked over. ]]> 2021-12-07 12:37:59 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933371668 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933868608 When job applications say must be able to lift 40lbs ]]> 2021-12-07 15:43:23 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933868608 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933870299 Everywhere ]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933870299 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933870743 In The US ]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:12 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933870743 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871012 When someone wasn’t hired because of their age even though they were a good fit]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:18 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871012 I was impacted at a job I worked at. I quit for self preservation and mental health https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871536 2021-12-07 15:44:30 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871536 Told I was too old for a job based on the work environment. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871594 2021-12-07 15:44:31 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871594 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871617 School, Magazines,TV ]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871617 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871706 Out of college I received a job as an assistant director at a community center for youth. Some parents and colleagues often attempted to treat me as a child based on my age and how young I looked. I constantly had to redirect and prove myself. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:35 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933871706 As a mother I am expected to do everything for my child and their father is rewarded for much less work https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872111 2021-12-07 15:44:43 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872111 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872400  feeling disconnected with myself and my blackness in my young adolescent years.  ]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:48 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872400 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872874 Beginning at a new school and male coworkers obviously intimidated by a woman in power, much aggressive and disrespect from day 1]]> 2021-12-07 15:44:58 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933872874 teachers using biology as an arguement agains non-binary gender identities https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873245 2021-12-07 15:45:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873245 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873406 The system teaches us half the story the story they deem vital to the uprising of this country which couldn’t be anymore misleading. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:10 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873406 Not To me but People I care about https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873432 2021-12-07 15:45:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873432 I work with HS students in a university with an incredibly privileged population so I witness it all the time with the ways my students experience the professors and their classmates gomezj25 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873540 2021-12-07 15:45:13 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873540 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873823 School ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:19 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933873823 Schools not understanding that not all families can afford expensive uniform https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874023 2021-12-07 15:45:24 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874023 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874130 During undergrad at a SUNY school, an RA was hosting a spa night and used hand stencils as her promotion for the event. Someone vandalized the stencils and wrote “Lynch Niggers Night” and crossed out Spa Night. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:26 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874130 not able to have a flexible schedule to accomodate chronic illness https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874167 2021-12-07 15:45:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874167 The use of AAVE by non-AA people in an abusive way. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874201 2021-12-07 15:45:28 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874201 Being talked over because I am a woman. My ideas are not always taken seriously though I have more knowledge than the male in the group. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874325 2021-12-07 15:45:31 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874325 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874329 Being too old for the job that they are hiring younger staff]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874329 A realization https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874353 In kindergarten I had a friend who was white. She was my first friend. And there was another white girl in our class who was also her friend. I had an interaction where the second white girls mother expressed some displeasure about me hanging out with her daughter and that was the first time I realized that I wasn't like them and it felt pretty sucky.

]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874353 Telling negative stories about indigenous and black people. Glorifying actions of europeans. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874407 2021-12-07 15:45:33 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874407 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874802 When as an afroLatina, I was told yes I needed permission to feel as a person from our Black race. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:42 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874802 School was very homophobic https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874804 2021-12-07 15:45:42 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874804 "This isn't English" https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874871 My friend's roommate is in a grad program at NYU, and she got a comment on a paper which said, "This isn't English." This was from a grad professor, who's probably taught several 2nd language English speakers in the past, which makes me really afraid that he's really put down so many other students because of their writing. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:44 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933874871 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933875432 Kids not being able to drink from the water fountains. Years ago, pre covid. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:45:57 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933875432 boys and girls lines, teams, clubs, classses, etc. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933875986 2021-12-07 15:46:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933875986 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876134 My school didn’t have an elevator so when my paraplegic dad came to back to school night he couldn’t go to my classroom ]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876134 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876156 Correcting someone’s pronunciation rather than focusing on the content of what they are communicating ]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876156 gomezj25 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876218 Any time I have to work with HS students college app essay and supplemental writing]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876218 using religion to say homophobia is a sin https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876461 2021-12-07 15:46:22 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876461 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876507 seeing my home country being a living colony of the US. My people have been & still go through so much.]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:23 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876507 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876664 I’m every Hispanic household ]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933876664 different and more restrctive and sexualized dress codes for girls v boys https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933877436 2021-12-07 15:46:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933877436 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933877749 The father of my kids is extremely verbally abusive and just doesn’t know how to speak to me or his children]]> 2021-12-07 15:46:53 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933877749 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878066 I grew up playing sports and the boys teams always had the better uniforms, equipment, and fields. The coaches would actually take the time to make plays while for the girls they would just sit and not coach. We would make our own plays and game strategies. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878066 not having adequate seating for larger bodied people https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878124 2021-12-07 15:47:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878124 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878154 I went to a mostly white school, I was constantly bombarded with slick comments about my hair, my culture, etc. Girls would come up to me and change their entire way of speaking to “relate” to me; neck popping and using slang. I never spoke that way at school ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:03 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878154 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878442 i have tons of trans friends but sometimes when i interact with a trans person i dislike, i find myself rationalizing their behavior or justifying my dislike for them in transphobic ways. working to improve this

]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:09 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878442 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878467 Being told i am to young to know what struggle is when I’ve gone through a lot. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:10 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878467 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878487 People, Schools, Church’s are Homophobic ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878487 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878499 Only teaching about slavery but never teaching about the rich cultures and ways of being that existed before slavery ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878499 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878605 People making a jokes about a Pan sexual marrying a cis gendered person. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:13 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878605 Treated different in different spaces. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878960 2021-12-07 15:47:22 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933878960 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879109 Kids sometimes cannot participate in trips or in school events due to lack of funds. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879109 Transphobia https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879504 Being "outted" at work by folks who constantly showed contempt for those outside the gender binary. 

Getting misgendered by family members who refuse to support my transition.

Being denied letter from mental health professionals for gender-affirming surgeries ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:33 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879504 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879585 I’ve noticed that most people don’t care about certain pronouns ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:35 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933879585 Being told by classmates that I received certain benefits because I was either "lighter" or "darker" than they were. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880054 2021-12-07 15:47:42 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880054 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880067 the idea that women and honestly anyone that’s not cis male shouldn’t be taken seriously on a skate board has been passed down to some of the younger generation. It’s honestly been difficult to navigate when it’s a kid, and not an adult. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:42 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880067 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880170 Uncle could not eat food with the lighter family at the table. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880170 High school https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880216 My black friends who would present for our class and would then be commented by the teacher (who is white) and say micro aggressions like " you're so articulate" Also students would state things like " she/he is black but they sound white".]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:46 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880216 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880374 Teachers Always assuming I had a boyfriend but I was clearly queer ]]> 2021-12-07 15:47:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880374 Some of my classmates voted for another candidate to be president of the class because they said he's a boy just like our US president when I was in middle school. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880909 2021-12-07 15:48:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933880909 Not being understood because of my accent. Making me feel stupid or less. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933881232 2021-12-07 15:48:10 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933881232 Because I look young, many do not take me seriously at first or trust when I say things. People place limitations on expectations of you based on age/stays/ where you are in life. (Ie. do you have kids yet?/ I don’t want to hear from you unless etc. how old are you, do you even know what you are doing etc). https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933881603 2021-12-07 15:48:18 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933881603 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933882047 Teachers treating my accent like a disability ]]> 2021-12-07 15:48:28 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933882047 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933882570 No deep learning about races in school. Learned many while working, and associating with many people of different races, educational levels and researching which is still what I continue to do. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:48:40 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933882570 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883003 Kids getting in trouble for speaking Spanish on the playground and in class ]]> 2021-12-07 15:48:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883003 Not sure where this should go: gomezj25 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883420 we know covid hit the most vulnarble populations the hardest. the way everyone wants to and things we are "going back to normal"  and we are "at the end of the pandemic" completely ignores how our young people may have experienced the last year and a half. are we just going to continue to completely ignore the ongoing trauma that the young people and their families and communities have experienced due to covid? it feels like it

]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:01 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883420 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883671 being told to not get with a man with darker complexion, etc. because "vas a danar la raza" ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:06 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883671 Not learning about Africa or Asia throughout elementary & secondary schooling....except Egypt, and teachers tended to forget Egypt is in Africa. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883777 2021-12-07 15:49:09 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883777 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883805 there's not a day in my life where i'm not impacted by white supremacy as a black person. internalized it looks like body dysmorphia. when i was a kid i tried using laundry bleach to lighten my skin and ended up burning it instead ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:09 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933883805 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884072 I too experienced this ^^^

It’s crazy how the law doesn’t protect people under the age of 40 when it comes to ageism. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884072 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884084 i dislike the term "white supremacy" because i feel it gives even more power to the "supreme" element. "white hegemony" and "white dominance" and "white social rule" and "white racial imaginary" are some terms that help me reframe this concept]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884084 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884204 AP US History ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:19 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884204 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884272 Using the word “gay” to describe something negatively ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:20 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884272 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884305 I experienced heavy colorism in my family’s home country of Dominican Republic. Still to this day, folx with darker skinned are associated with being of Haitain lineage and therefore seen as less than. While folx of lighter hue receive more privileges. In restaurants, the airport, resorts, government offices, etc ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:21 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884305 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884564 Forcing kids to wear PE uniforms but not having sizes for ALL body types ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:27 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884564 white saviorism https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884661 still a work in progress, but being a white person working exclusively with kids of color i am figuring out how to incorporate liberatory practices into our afterschool-day without being a know it all about conditions i haven't experienced. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:29 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933884661 black coworkers being offered less $ for jobs https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933885716 2021-12-07 15:49:49 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933885716 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933885944 Wow I was told that too. “No daña la razz”]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:55 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933885944 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886032 Back when I was a freshman, I was chatting with a group of peers and I was telling a story when one of them stops me to point out that I was saying a certain word "incorrectly" because of my accent. Everyone starts laughing and then I was pretty much forced to repeat the word over and over again until a friend finally told the person to stop pointing it out. It impacts the way I speak today.]]> 2021-12-07 15:49:57 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886032 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886220 ignorant comments such as "i identify as a toaster" that diminish the importance of pronouns and gender]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:01 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886220 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886311 I had a male mentor who would always tell me to man up and deal with things without crying about it ]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:04 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886311 Arreglar la raza... Meaning that you had to be with a white person to being in proximity to white. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886522 2021-12-07 15:50:08 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886522 People thinking scholarships equate to poverty or economic hardship. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886790 2021-12-07 15:50:15 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933886790 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887450 all white high school, so many testing moments. I always think about how privileged those kids were and how they’d probably go on to take over a well off company of some sort. I don’t know that thought really sucks, they’re probably the worst people to run any company. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:31 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887450 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887690 Within family how lighter members were treated better, needed always to stand my ground of the unfairness of this behavior even as young as I was…]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:36 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887690 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887741 The belief that to prove my manhood, I must dominate others ]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:38 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933887741 High school https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933888456 Sadly at one point I thought I was really ugly for not fitting the "beauty standards" of American pop culture, straight hair, light skin and etc. I remember saying I wish I was white....but now I love the skin of my color and love myself more than ever.]]> 2021-12-07 15:50:51 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933888456 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889045 Restaurant in Vegas that displays obese people at a restaurant ]]> 2021-12-07 15:51:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889045 Feeling constantly judged as adult over 40 returning to college. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889129 2021-12-07 15:51:04 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889129 Growing up in a culture where men/boys were served food at meals by females first. Females could only eat after all of the men were satisfied. Made no sense at all. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889131 2021-12-07 15:51:04 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889131 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889260 getting catcalls like "hey beautiful", ignoring them to protect my energy time and safety, only to be called a "bitch" "ugly" and verbally berated for not entertaining a random guy's advances]]> 2021-12-07 15:51:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889260 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889672  bringing food from home and kids said ewww is disgusting, smell bad yucky. 😞]]> 2021-12-07 15:51:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889672 Feeling bad for taking longer time when doing test or project. https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889700 2021-12-07 15:51:17 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933889700 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933890077 Instead of fundraising, parents have to pay for things they can’t afford just so their child can participate ]]> 2021-12-07 15:51:26 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933890077 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933891238 colorism. thinking i'm better than darker skinned folks. trying hard to be accepted by white folks by distancing myself from my own culture]]> 2021-12-07 15:51:53 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933891238 Hearing other men say don’t cry like a girl https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933891512 2021-12-07 15:52:00 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933891512 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933893403 Judging by the way you look and then that causes you to doubt your self because of your weight ]]> 2021-12-07 15:52:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933893403 Too young https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933894769 I was told by someone when I was doing therapy that if I was their therapist they would tell me that I know more than you. How could you help me? - Because I looked/was too young in their opinion. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:53:17 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933894769 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933895628 Father asking my son if he’s a girl when crying or whining ]]> 2021-12-07 15:53:37 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933895628 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933896575 Real men don't cry! Stop crying. ]]> 2021-12-07 15:53:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933896575 Girls don't know who to play, because soccer is for boys https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933903533 2021-12-07 15:55:20 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933903533 When I hear some of my friends say that Spanish isn't American and telling Latine people to only speak English...which is a Germanic language. 🙍🏾 https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933904823 2021-12-07 15:55:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fpourkhorshid/zeehnu9p5uqjc6f3/wish/1933904823