In the community we are striving to create... by https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity If another staff member has a question, a disagreement, or an uncomfortable situation that you are involved in, how would you like them to handle it? How can we navigate hard conversations with each other in a way that leaves everyone involved feeling honored, respected, and valued after the fact? en-us 2022-08-25 19:15:36 UTC 2022-08-29 16:44:39 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f499.png Inclusion looks like every child having a voice and feeling comfortable in the classroom and around their classmates. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275003563 2022-08-29 16:33:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275003563 Inclusion means that the entire classroom is aware of the needs of their fellow students. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275006699 2022-08-29 16:35:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275006699 Inclusion is a no make any exceptions of persons, regardless of race, gender and other differences https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275007358 2022-08-29 16:36:28 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275007358 Come to me and let's talk about it https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012051 2022-08-29 16:40:18 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012051 I would want them to come to me directly and have the conversation face to face and to be OPEN to hearing my side. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012310 2022-08-29 16:40:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012310 I would like them to find a mutually agreeable time to talk with me in person https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012371 2022-08-29 16:40:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012371 Talk to me https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012522 2022-08-29 16:40:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012522 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012568 We can have hard conversations by trying to see from their perspective. ]]> 2022-08-29 16:40:42 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012568 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012754 I would like them to feel comfortable enough to talk about the issue with me. ]]> 2022-08-29 16:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012754 Talk to me first, let me know how they feel, what happened. Be open to have a conversation that is collaborative and on going. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012768 2022-08-29 16:40:51 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012768 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012901 Open, honest, and empathic communication where we listen to understand and resolve.]]> 2022-08-29 16:40:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012901 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012930 I think it's important to understand that we can respectfully disagree and have difficult conversations because there is so much to be learned from doing so.  Having the conversation is what is important!

]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:00 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275012930 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013055 Avoid triangulation- go to the person ]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013055 Talk to me https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013072 2022-08-29 16:41:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013072 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013107 Talk about it in an open, respectful way. ]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:09 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013107 Conversation https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013118 I would like the person to come talk to me when they are calm and I am calm so that we can learn from each other’s perspectives]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013118 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013143 Address concern directly and privately and always assume positive intent.]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:11 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013143 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013204 Come to me to have a conversation with an open mind. Try to see from each others perspective ]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013204 Keeping the student at the center, using I statements and being honest. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013222 2022-08-29 16:41:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013222 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013225 Please come talk to me. Let’s have a discussion about what went well, what didn’t and set expectations for how the move forward in a positive, respectful way so we can both thrive in our roles so our students also thrive.]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013225 ask to talk privately if needed https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013252 2022-08-29 16:41:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013252 Talk to me https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013276 2022-08-29 16:41:18 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013276 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013335 Find a time to talk about it when we’re both in calm mindsets ]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:20 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013335 I would like discretion in terms of people outside of the situation if applicable. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013476 2022-08-29 16:41:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013476 Assume the best intent! https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013486 2022-08-29 16:41:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013486 Knowing decisions are made with students best interest in mind even if we have different ideas of what we think a student might need https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013511 2022-08-29 16:41:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013511 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013720 If someone has a concern, I'd like them to tell me about it as soon as they can in a 1-1 situation. They can send an email asking to talk, or stop by my room. Please assume good intentions and be honest about your feelings.]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013720 I prefer that people come and talk to me directly at an agreed upon time. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013748 2022-08-29 16:41:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013748 Having a professional conversation with one another, respecting others opinions and being willing to work through differences. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013894 2022-08-29 16:41:44 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013894 Start by finding common ground-- what do we BOTH care about in this situation? Then move on to problem solving together. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013986 2022-08-29 16:41:49 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013986 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013998 Talking it out in a tactful way and considering the other person's lived experiences and trauma just like we do with the children.]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013998 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013999 Discreetly acknowledge the discomfort in the moment: "this feels bad, can we talk later?" and then talk later]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275013999 Talk to me https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014001 2022-08-29 16:41:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014001 Communication is key. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014004 Time needs to be taken to have opportunity to discuss topics that have presented themselves.]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:50 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014004 I would want them to come to me and speak from the heart, be honest, direct, and trust that they will be heard. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014012 2022-08-29 16:41:51 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014012 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014050 Come to be directly and be open to collaborating together to problem solve. ]]> 2022-08-29 16:41:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014050 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014496 - having an open conversation 
- come opened mind into the conversation 
- meet before or after school 
- being honest ]]> 2022-08-29 16:42:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014496 Let’s talk and listen to each other and have empathy towards each other. Every opinion matters. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014577 2022-08-29 16:42:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014577 Direct communication https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014676 is essential.]]> 2022-08-29 16:42:18 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014676 Circle back after a discussion is had an agreement is made to see how it's going for all parties. Follow up! :) https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014865 2022-08-29 16:42:28 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014865 Be transparent about your own thoughts while being open minded about others https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014894 2022-08-29 16:42:30 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275014894 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015091 I would like to have an in-person conversation about it after both parties have had time to think about the problem and solution. ]]> 2022-08-29 16:42:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015091 First tell them “I’m not trying to disregard your feelings, and hope you do the same. Please hear me out and let’s talk like adults” https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015505 2022-08-29 16:42:57 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015505 https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015916 I would like them to come talk to me one on one. It would best to start with reminding each other of our shared values if applicable---we are a team, even in difficulty!

]]> 2022-08-29 16:43:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275015916 acknowledging that it is going to feel uncomfortable https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275017076 2022-08-29 16:44:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275017076 Talk, think and resolve together. Write a letter or get a mediator if needed. https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275017517 2022-08-29 16:44:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jswindle/ourcommunity/wish/2275017517