https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv Parenting readiness means that adults have thoughtfully and purposefully chosen to become parents. It is sometimes possible for mature adults to have an unplanned pregnancy and still raise a happy, healthy and much–loved child. Most of the time, however, it is best when parenting is a choice, not an accident. Why do some people want to have a child? List a good reason and a poor reason. en-us 2020-09-14 20:47:40 UTC 2025-12-22 16:57:43 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/752991983 Poor-- To save a relationship or prevent divorce 

Good--To share love and support and are financially read  ]]> 2020-09-16 19:15:11 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/752991983 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016726 good- want to support kids and grow altogether 
poor- because your parents want grandchildren and your not finacially ready ]]> 2020-09-16 19:23:50 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016726 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016812 good reason brings family closer together

bad reason is financially, maybe not being able to afford things needed for the baby (health, toys, clothes)]]> 2020-09-16 19:23:51 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016812 emma_ulch https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016867 good- bring another person into your family
poor- not financially ready or emotionally ready for a baby]]> 2020-09-16 19:23:53 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016867 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016871 Good: To share your love with your child. 
Poor: Because babies are cute]]> 2020-09-16 19:23:53 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753016871 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017052 Good - The couple wanted to share their love with a child

Poor - The couple's parents want grandchildren]]> 2020-09-16 19:23:57 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017052 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017245 Good reasons
-have a caring heart 
-have more in your home to share 
-want to share some love 
-actually want a child 
Poor reasons 
-to make others happy 
-to save a poor relationship  
- to have something to make you proud]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:01 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017245 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017286 good-it could bring the 2 parents closer together, and they share their love for someone. It also can improve their mental and physical health.
bad-it could tear parents apart. if you aren't financially stable you could end up not raising the child properly and safely. ]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:02 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017286 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017437 good reason-
To share your love with your children
poor reason- Because youre parents want grandchildren]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:05 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017437 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017584 good: you are financially ready and responsible
bad: you want a younger sibling for your older child]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:08 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017584 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017747 Poor- Because your parents want a grandchild, because you want a "cute little baby"
Good- You want to share your love with a child, you are financially stable ]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:12 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017747 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017788 good: they are ready to take the next in their life. 
bad- parents are not emotionally or financially ready ]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:13 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753017788 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018158 2020-09-16 19:24:21 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018158 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018167 good
to share the love with the family
Bad 
their parents want grandchildren]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:21 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018167 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018396 2020-09-16 19:24:26 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018396 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018454 Good: want to share love with a child
Bad: the grandparents want more grandchildren]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018454 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018539 Good: They are financially and emotionally ready
Bad: Becaus they believe it will tie them together]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:30 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018539 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018641 Good: to offer your love to a chil
Bad: to hope a child could save your marriage]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:32 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018641 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018697 Good reasons to give a will to live and a source of happiness. In addition to that it can make a person more compassionate in life. 

Bad reasons- so much money, might distract them from their career, stressful sometimes.]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:33 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018697 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018790 Good: To bond with and love, financially stable, prepared
Bad: The grandparents want grandkids

]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:35 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753018790 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019038 Want a little one running around to love

]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:40 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019038 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019153 good
-financially and emotionally stable
-parents want to be able to love a child
bad
-parents want grandkids
-older child wants a sibling]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:43 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019153 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019400 bring the familly closer and someone to take your lastname

]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:48 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019400 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019623 good reasons: to give someone all your love
poor reasons: because someone told you to]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:52 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019623 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019889 good: they are ready to have a child together, they want to share their unconditional love with a child 
Bad: you want to fit in and have a child like everyone else, someone expects you to have a child, to keep marriage together
 ]]> 2020-09-16 19:24:58 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753019889 kaylin_munro https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753022399 good- to grow your family 
bad- because someone told you to 

]]> 2020-09-16 19:25:54 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753022399 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753024740 good reasons is they want to share their love with something they made, bad reason is to have someone to throw your problems on and someone to save your relationship or life. ]]> 2020-09-16 19:26:46 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753024740 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753027230 good-to grow your family when you know you will be there for the kid
bad-to keep somebody from breaking up with you]]> 2020-09-16 19:27:40 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/753027230 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756594935 good- share love with a child, brings happiness into your life
poor- they want someone to take care when they are ill, they want grandchildren]]> 2020-09-17 18:31:48 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756594935 briannalazarski https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756595535 Good: To share your love with the child, and are ready to have a child together
Poor: To save your marriage/relationship]]> 2020-09-17 18:31:58 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756595535 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756595997 Good: To love someone unconditionally
Bad: Can hold back parents from their careers/goals in life]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:05 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756595997 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596609 good- they are ready financially and emotionally to have a kid, meaning they can love and support the kid.

poor- because someone else tells you to have one]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:12 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596609 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596702 Good reason - to be in stable spot in your relationship and be able to share your love in a child

Bad reason - to have a cute baby or child when you aren't prepared for all aspects of a child and their needs
 ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:13 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596702 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596816 A good reason to have a child would be if you want to share your love with someone else or if you and you spouse want to extend your family. A bad reason would be if your parents wanted you to have one or if you were doing it to save your relationship.]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:15 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596816 kendallkahl1 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596863 good:
-to share the love of their relationship with their own child
-have wanted kids for a long time/ always wanted to start a family
-financially ready
bad:
-to hold a bad relationship together
-to feel proud of something]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:16 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756596863 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597027 good - wanting to share and

bad - ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:18 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597027 kaitlynluedtke https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597109 good: to share their love with a child 
bad: to look more put togehter or try and fix a realtionhip]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:20 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597109 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597172 good to to bring you and your husband closer together poor because you could not support your child financially]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:21 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597172 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597194 Good -  So you can love them.
Poor -  someone told you to have kids ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:21 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597194 davidpitcher https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597267 Good reason- the couple wants to share their love with a child
Bad- they want someone to make them proud]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:22 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597267 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597365 Good: share your unconditional love
Bad: your moms wants grandchildren]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:23 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597365 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597685 good- share your love
poor- another family member wants you to have a kid]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:29 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597685 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597686 good- parents want to expand their family to spread their love and grow as individuals. They also know that they are ready to take that next step.

bad- their parents want grandchildren. , they think babies are cute. ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:29 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597686 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597720 Bad: To try and fix your marriage/relationship with something (will more than likely make it worse)
Good: Share your love through a child and be able to grow a family together. ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:29 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597720 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597779 good: share love with child
bad: lots of money 

]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:30 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597779 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597982 good reason is to have someone to love that is your own and poor reason is parents needing to spend a lot of money ]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:33 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756597982 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756598228 Bad: Not financially stable. 
Good: Bring more happiness into your life by having a child of your own. 

]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:36 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756598228 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756598919 good: You want to grow your family and to share your love. You also may want to bring your family closer with a child.

Bad: The couple's parents want grandchildren]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:46 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756598919 annemarie_graham https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756599207 Good Reason: You are ready, and want to start a family and raise a child.
Bad Reason: To please others, to keep you significant other with you,  you just want to have the title of a parent.]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:50 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756599207 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756599549 bad: our parents want a grandchild
good: our child wants a sibling]]> 2020-09-17 18:32:55 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756599549 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756600890 good- to share their love with 
bad- to fix a bad relashinship/ because their parents want them to have kids

]]> 2020-09-17 18:33:14 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756600890 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756610844 Good Reason: To be the parent you may have not had gotten.

Bad reason: To think you can live through them.]]> 2020-09-17 18:35:36 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756610844 https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756631799 good - wanting to share and give love 
bad - wanting to save love (relationship / marriage)]]> 2020-09-17 18:40:34 UTC https://padlet.com/linda_krause/z79fuxrayr5yfeqv/wish/756631799