PEER DISCUSSION by James Quilty https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion A place for a discussion en-us 2018-04-19 04:21:10 UTC 2022-09-06 09:35:00 UTC hello@padlet.com Biggest concern - social comparison and the impact to their own wellbeing when looking at people's highlight reels https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284342560 2022-09-06 09:25:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284342560 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343033 Not in huge detail, but yes a brief conversation ]]> 2022-09-06 09:26:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343033 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343337 Open dialogue around the dangers of some of the information on social media/internet.

Telling them it is okay to come to us if they receive anything that they have questions about even if they think they might get in trouble.

Rules around tech time and agreed days/hours (to try and stop the constant nagging).]]> 2022-09-06 09:26:36 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343337 technology and new apps changing all the time so hard to keep up and worrying about what they can find online - once they see something they cant un see it https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343377 2022-09-06 09:26:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343377 Yes we have talked about it because gr 1 found hard core 🤬 via you tube links and were watching it. He found it quite distressing. It meant I had to talk to them way before I was ready too. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343896 2022-09-06 09:27:11 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343896 I love the idea of encouraging children to understand their own moral compass - what are their responsibilities? And that it's ok - and normal - to talk about this stuff. "being comfortable with being uncomfortable" https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343945 2022-09-06 09:27:14 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284343945 Yes I have spoken quite a few times about what he could see online and the dangers https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344101 2022-09-06 09:27:24 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344101 Family apps and dealing with time use. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344230 2022-09-06 09:27:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344230 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344245 Hard to escape from any online bullying that may be happen which in 'our day' would at least stop at the school gate.]]> 2022-09-06 09:27:33 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344245 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344378 - What's real & what's edited
- Friends sharing inappropriate content
- Addiction to devices


]]> 2022-09-06 09:27:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284344378 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345058 Visibility around who they are friends with and what they are viewing.
What their friends are viewing and the exposure to content they may be having and sharing with your children. ]]> 2022-09-06 09:28:12 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345058 being open and honest and having regular conversations. and saying they wont get into trouble if they see something https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345120 2022-09-06 09:28:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345120 Helping kids to know that most peers are not playing C.O.D and R rated xbox. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345505

]]> 2022-09-06 09:28:35 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345505 establishing the rules regarding devices so that they expect that we will be checking on what they are doing any time. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345737 2022-09-06 09:28:49 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284345737 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284346411 Content that is unverified and believable for kids that can’t make the clarity of its real or not]]> 2022-09-06 09:29:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284346411 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284346421 Briefly. I'm honest with them & have asked them to tell me if they see something inappropriate]]> 2022-09-06 09:29:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284346421 Yes as we have had to explain the dangers of not knowing people online, believing that everyone is your friend and can be trusted. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347131 2022-09-06 09:29:45 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347131 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347162 Peer pressure from their friends to look at / try apps and sites that they have no understanding of what they're actually viewing is not real..]]> 2022-09-06 09:29:47 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347162 Not being able to limit or figure out what they are watching on you tube. Kids you tube is really super limited and more like kindergarten age. There's no in between options. So now they can only watch it on the family tv in main lounge. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347688

]]> 2022-09-06 09:30:18 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284347688 Going to high school with their devices and not having as much control over what they do while on their way to and from school https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348295 2022-09-06 09:30:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348295 Having open discussions about sexuality - and to be honest, the RSE course has been such a great opener for us to continue the conversation at home. They still find it super embarrassing but it helps for us to keep it open and normal. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348362 2022-09-06 09:30:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348362 Being as open as you can be around discussions they would like to have. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348451 We try and normalise most things so all conversations can be had when needed. ]]> 2022-09-06 09:31:04 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284348451 agree that if the kids can understand that not 'everyone' is allowed to do x y z except for them, would be helpful. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349386 2022-09-06 09:31:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349386 https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349407 Asking to use device or download apps.  Also not hiding the screen from me as they know I will take the device off them if I think they are being sneaky

]]> 2022-09-06 09:31:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349407 The RSE course has been great. We've had all kinds of discussions with them after it. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349825 2022-09-06 09:32:27 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284349825 We keep devices out of bedrooms and if they are using them, they are in high visibility areas. They don't challenge this rule (yet!) https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284350063 2022-09-06 09:32:43 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284350063 Snap chat discussions between grade 5 & 6 boys about their peer females was absolutely shocking to see. Happily my g 6 was willing to share and we could discuss disrespectful communication. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351083 2022-09-06 09:33:47 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351083 wanting them to have the contact/be in touch with their friends but for them to understand the limits on on-line communication and what harmful situations can eventuate. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351329 2022-09-06 09:34:03 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351329 Helping to explain what is right and wrong. It is good to know that the message being delivered at home is mirrored by the school. It is great that there is more exposure for the kids so it’s not taboo. https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351769 2022-09-06 09:34:28 UTC https://padlet.com/jquilty1/Parentdiscussion/wish/2284351769