I completely understood why, in the beginning. But the issue escalated when she invited one of HER friends to this party. Now, I still understand that this friend of hers had recently had a huge argument with her other friends, and now they weren’t speaking to her. Yes, that sucks, and I completely support her coming. I don’t have a problem with that. Now, my problem lies where the hypocritical things are. A month ago she had refused the same friend that she now won’t let go to the pool party, access to our group chat. She said things like “oh, I don’t want anymore friends, I’m happy with just this group of people” when we asked her to get to know him. She refused. That was wholly her choice. And I accepted it. I removed my good friend from the group chat and we made our own. A month later, we began to make plans for the pool party and I thought this was behind us. But, of course, no. Her inviting her friend to the pool party triggered my common sense of “oh, well if she can invite her friends, I can invite mine, because she isn’t in charge of who comes to this party and who doesn’t”. Apparently my logic was flawed. And her defenses to that were; 

“I DON'T KNOW HIM”. -That was completely your choice. We sent you google meet links every night, you didn’t join, even when you were online.

“He is going to screw up our plans because he is going to needs an adult there and we only have so many spaces in the car.-1. He lives right next to the place we plan to go, so he can walk without any trouble. 2. I don’t appreciate you talking about my friend's condition like you are the freaking doctor trying to cure it. 3. How would you even know that he needs an adult? (and FYI if I’m coming to this thing, there has to be more than one adult there because strict parents ya know)

“Will doesn’t want him to come”- 1. Did I ask about your abnormal obsession with Will? 2. Will doesn’t control me or Luke, so I don’t really give that much of a 🤬. (yes I care about his opinion, but if he wants to fight with me on this, then all I can say is bring it) OwO   

All in all, this could be considered bullying. You guys are excluding someone repeatedly just because YOU don’t want to get to know him. Think of it from his point of view. All of your friends are going to a pool party without you, just because a couple people don’t want you coming and think you need more supervision because of YOUR condition that you can’t help having. And one of the last things I’m going to say is, there are bigger things we need to be concerned about. One of the people in the friend group is moving away to a different school next year. I encourage you to think about this. Would you want to spend your last few weeks with your friends at a school filled with drama and anger? We are all stuck up in this stupid, pointless drama and frusteration that we can’t see someone who clearly needs encouragement right infront of us. This pool party lasts one, maybe two days of our lives. Whereas Joyanne might never be going to school with us again. 

At this point, I’m considering not even coming. 

TELL ME WTF THIS MEANS AND WHY??