Marriage AMA (Ask Me Anything) by Saraln Paul

A. Conflict Resolution

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:33:46 UTC

A1 How do you resolve conflicts?

A2 How do you resolve hard set differences in habits and character when you start living together (eg some habits are formed through upbringing or conflict styles learned from parents)

A3 When in conflict is it advisable to journey through it while keeping loved ones (outside of your partner) in the loop, or is it best to only let them know about the conflict when it is resolved?

B. Roles in Marriage

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:37:09 UTC

B1 What does showing the love of Christ to your spouse look like? Any examples?

B2 What does it mean for the man to be the head of the household?

B3 How can a wife submit to her husband when she strongly feels that the decision he made is wrong?

C. Expectations

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:38:49 UTC

C1 How to deal with differences in spiritual growth? 1 partner grow and mature at a different pace

C2 What is something that you have expected in a marriage but have fall short?

C3 What is something that you did not expect in a marriage but was pleasantly surprised?

C4 What are traits/character you wish your christian husband/wife possessed?

D. Communication & Boundaries

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:39:31 UTC

D1 How do you manage your relationship or communication when you’re both feeling worn out and depleted?

D2 Thoughts on travelling without your partner (with same gender friends); is it advisable?

E. Running the Race

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:41:24 UTC

E1 How do you spur each other on in the faith?

E2 How does placing Christ first look like in your marriage? In areas of lack you see in one another, how often do you tie it in with things of the faith?

F. Rekindling Romance

saralnpaulng — 2024-09-12 02:41:45 UTC

F1 In the long run of marriage do you feel the monotony and comfort kind of erode the romance and make things predictable? What do you do in such a scenario?

we’ve seen it happen to both our parents and we want to be careful

F2 What is the best thing about being married? Are there times where you felt like it is better to be single / just dating forever?

2024-09-13 11:08:28 UTC

How do you handle when either you/your spouse feel attracted to someone else? What if your spouse is not upfront about it?