The Absence of Love by Ruby Navarro https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters Relationship Conflict & Overcoming en-us 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC 2019-07-11 05:32:40 UTC hello@padlet.com https://imgglb.padletcdn.com/v13/image?t=g_auto&url=https%3A%2F%2Fpadlet.net%2Ficons%2Fpng%2F1f48d.png 8. Children rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426035 Children are known to be the joy in a relationship, but simple arguments may occur when dealing with common issues such as picking up the children, doctor appointments, shows, shopping for clothes or school supplies. Many men might believe that this is a "women's job" but in reality with our generation today, it shows that majority of relationships are not sexist to one another because of the lifestyle they have been living. ]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426035 6. Nuturance, Emotional needs rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426036 Emotional needs are always the communication starter that leads to fights because one person may not feel as if their partner is listening to them. Such as demonstrated in the video that we saw on the PowerPoint, it showed that the lady with the nail in her head wanted to express her feelings to her husband but he was not paying attention. Many people that feel as if they are being ignored by their partner will start arguments very easily and will start to push their partner away.]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426036 7. Privacy rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426037 "Giving the person some space"
This is a very hard thing to do because the partner may think they are not good enough for their relationship since their partner does not want to be around them. This is important for a relationship to function, it is necessarily to have some "Me time' every once in a while to relax. ]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426037 4. Loyalty, Trust, & Fidelity rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426038 This is the simplest thing to do but yet it is discussed through different levels of discussions. Trust and Fidelity are very common in relationships that do not have a great communication with one another, this should be establish at the beginning of every relationship to gain a sense of closure. 
The reason I believe this is the toughest communication starter is because couples never learned to be honest and real with each other to begin with. ]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426038 5. Power rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426040 This demonstrates who is basically in charge of the relationship, meaning that the partners do not see themselves are one or like to share discussion that are discussed 50/50. If the partner wishes to be dominate it will effect the outcome of this relationship to be over fairly quickly. 
(...)]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426040 3. Sex rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426041 This conflict can arise because men and women have different sex drives. Men tend to have a much larger sex drive than women which is completely normal. Men tend to like having sex and not worry about anything else that is extremely important, however, a women will refuse to have sex if she has something very important the next day. 
For example, if she has a doctors appointment or even a work related meeting this can cause her to lose focus on sexual intercourse and focus on preparation. ]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426041 1. Money rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426042 Money is the top issue when relationships are having a disagreement, problems about how to pay bills, managing money, and how/ where to spend the money they have in the bank and/or savings. This can also cause relationships to stumble on this water when barely getting into a relationship, this reason being one will always be more wealthier then their partner and the partner might pick fights about not knowing how to may feel to be struggling. 
A perfect example that comes to mind is from the show Grey's Anatomy, Jackson and Maggie, he is extremely rich and never had to worry about money but Maggie on the other hand had to work extremely hard to get to where she is at now. ]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426042 2. Household tasks rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426043 This is an important discussion to have with your partner at the beginning of your relationship when you are living together. It is best to sit down and lay out how you guys both like the house task to be evenly split or how one person likes to keep things in a specific order. This will help many keep thinks semi-organized before a fight occurs, but in understanding that it will take time to get use to a new living situation. 

There are 3 basic conversation/ schedules to have with a partner:
  1. Management
  2. Schedules
  3. Standards
Once these have all been set it will help prevent further disagreements to common household areas. 

In this video, it talks about chore wars being the leading cause of divorce. In this video, it will talk about how to stop fighting and how relationships can split things.
]]> 2019-06-20 04:40:46 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368426043 Main Topic: Disagreement rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368428010 Disagreement with couple, whether they are married and/or a relationship]]> 2019-06-20 05:00:09 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368428010 What do couples normally disagree about? rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368428361 This may vary from relationship to relationship but as shown in week 3 PowerPoint on Communication, Conflict, & Conflict Management, there is a top 9 common issues for majority of relationships. 
(Crossman, Slide: 4 & 5, 2019)]]> 2019-06-20 05:04:36 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368428361 Top 9 Conflict issues (General) rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368429768 These are the general overview of the Top 9 Conflict issues that are presented in relationships.
  1. Money
  2. Household tasks
  3. Sex
  4. Loyalty, Trust, & Fidelity
  5. Power
  6. Nuturance, Emotional needs
  7. Privacy
  8. Children
  9. Lifestyle and Personality differences
(Crossman, Slide: 4, 2019)
]]> 2019-06-20 05:23:13 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368429768 Top 5 Conflict issues in Newlyweds rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368430127 Every newlywed has to learn how to grew with their new partner in life, this may causes many problems within the household, if the partners have never lived together before getting married. 
I personally believe if couples live together before getting married they will learn to live together and how to handle their partners flaws.
  1. Money
  2. Family
  3. Communication style
  4. Household tasks
  5. Personal tastes
(Crossman, Slide: 5, 2019)
]]> 2019-06-20 05:28:05 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368430127 What do we know? rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368430259 What we do know is that 69% of relationship conflict is about perpetual problems. These problems continue to reoccur and solutions become difficult to find since this is an on going problem. These problems will not resolve quickly it will take a few arguments to finally get it into the partners heads.]]> 2019-06-20 05:29:28 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368430259 The importance of developing healthy relationships. rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368431365 Healthy relationships and families are important to maintain because there is nothing greater then a loving family. This all very true but deep down inside a loving family we also will have a family that struggle within their relationships. The reason why we should care about a healthy relationship and helping a toxic relationship become healthy again is because it will make the work a better place knowing that their is people out their caring about the way other people feel. For example, I believe that if people have a healthy relationship they will have than pass it onto their children. This will begin to help people start caring for others and stop being violent. There is a few local resources for this such as seeing an Marriage and family therapist.

]]> 2019-06-20 05:47:48 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368431365 9. Lifestyle and Personality differences rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368433148 When two individuals are either extremely or even slightly different they will learn how to manage and work together if they want their relationship to work, this can be fixed through communication, whereas the couples that are very different can work on doing things together that can involve the other person to start experiencing new things in life. 
This is always great to have opposites in a relationship because it will lead to more experience and fun interactions. ]]> 2019-06-20 06:09:34 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368433148 References rnavarro8 https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368454613 William, B. K., Sawyer, S. C., & Wahlstrom, C. M. (2016). Marriages, Families, and Intimate Relationships. London, England: Pearson
Samovar, L. A., Porter, R. E., McDaniel, E. R., & Roy, C. S. (2016). Communication Between Cultures. Boston, MA: Cengage Learning.
National Research Council, Division of Behavioral and Social Sciences and Education, Committee on Human-Systems Integration, & Committee on the Role of Human Factors in Home Health Care. (2010). The Role of Human Factors in Home Health Care: Workshop Summary. Washington, DC: National Academies Press.]]> 2019-06-20 08:58:32 UTC https://padlet.com/rnavarro8/LoveMatters/wish/368454613