https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki In practice, the most important need is love and belonging, as closeness and connectedness with the people we care about is a requisite for satisfying all of the needs. en-us 2017-11-30 21:24:56 UTC 2026-02-03 18:00:23 UTC hello@padlet.com caroline_roth https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212088943 In practice, the most important need is love and belonging, as closeness and connectedness with the people we care about is a requisite for satisfying all of the needs. ]]> 2017-11-30 21:29:01 UTC https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212088943 ryan_fournier https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089096

all we do is behave,

that almost all behavior is chosen, and

that we are driven by our genes to satisfy five basic needs: survival, love and belonging, power, freedom and fun.

]]> 2017-11-30 21:29:32 UTC https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089096 jayne_enos https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089102 1. Supporting
2. Encouraging
3. Listening
4. Accepting
5. Trusting
6. Respecting
7. Negotiating Differences]]> 2017-11-30 21:29:33 UTC https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089102 jaime_baccari https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089180 1. Criticizing
2 .Blaming
3. Complaining
4. Nagging
5. Threatening
6. Punishing
7 .Bribing, rewarding to control]]> 2017-11-30 21:29:52 UTC https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089180 ryan_fournier https://padlet.com/caroline_roth/yrj2xk3nmeki/wish/212089464 "External control, the present psychology of almost all people in the world, is destructive to relationships. When used, it will destroy the ability of one or both to find satisfaction in that relationship and will result in a disconnection from each other. Being disconnected is the source of almost all human problems such as what is called mental illness, drug addiction, violence, crime, school failure, spousal abuse, to mention a few."

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1. The only person whose behavior we can control is our own.
2. All we can give another person is information.
3. All long-lasting psychological problems are relationship problems.
4. The problem relationship is always part of our present life.
5. What happened in the past has everything to do with what we are today, but we can only satisfy our basic needs right now and plan to continue satisfying them in the future.
6. We can only satisfy our needs by satisfying the pictures in our Quality World.
7. All we do is behave.
8. All behavior is Total Behavior and is made up of four components: acting, thinking, feeling and physiology.
9. All Total Behavior is chosen, but we only have direct control over the acting and thinking components. We can only control our feeling and physiology indirectly through how we choose to act and think.
10. All Total Behavior is designated by verbs and named by the part that is the most recognizable. 

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