https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr Ramesh & Gargi en-us 2021-09-20 22:49:15 UTC 2025-12-20 04:06:37 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755623963 2021-09-20 23:52:19 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755623963 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755624277 The relationship is very professional, tries to keep her in the loop of things, however, it's more of a one way communication from Ramesh to Kamla.]]> 2021-09-20 23:52:35 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755624277 dafinlay https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755626875 At the beginning Ramesh thought the professional relationship with Kamla was stronger than it was. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:54:07 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755626875 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755627980 2021-09-20 23:54:48 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755627980 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755628006 The relationship seems more personal than professional. Kamla head hunted Gargi since she really liked her. They share the same goals and initiatives. Great communication between each other.]]> 2021-09-20 23:54:49 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755628006 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755629100 I think they had great working relationship; where his emotional intelligence was not as high emotional intelligence.]]> 2021-09-20 23:55:46 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755629100 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755629905 2021-09-20 23:56:26 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755629905 dafinlay https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630147 Gargi adopted Kamla as a mentee in the beginning. They have a great working relationship. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:56:37 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630147 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630425 Ramesh assumed that he was being looked past but he was actually losing the social battle. Gargi's personality was more attracted the attention of others including the higher ups. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:56:50 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630425 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630871 Gargi would inadvertently exclude Ramesh and would only prioritize emails/work that Gargi felt directly involved him. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:57:14 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755630871 sarahjenkins1992 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755631724 Gargi didn't take time to understand the culture of the team and norms. For example, she assumed that she could work whatever hours were convenient for her rather than having a conversation with Ramesh about what hours the team works and about what flexibility she might need. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:57:57 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755631724 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755631961 2021-09-20 23:58:09 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755631961 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755632798 Ramesh and Kamla initially had a strong working relationship but the relationship is negatively impacted when communication breaks down]]> 2021-09-20 23:58:51 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755632798 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755633068 Dismissive of Ramesh and his advice of being more of a team member and nothing changed. Lack of communication and respect to Ramesh and others. She showed unprofessional actions like skipping work or working odd hours.]]> 2021-09-20 23:59:06 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755633068 dafinlay https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755633069 Gargi mistakes were not communicating with Ramesh. Consulting with Ramesh on what to do. Making her own decisions. Lack of communication. ]]> 2021-09-20 23:59:06 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755633069 dafinlay https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755635436 Advice Gargi to communicate more with Ramesh. ]]> 2021-09-21 00:00:49 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755635436 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755636316 2021-09-21 00:01:31 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755636316 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755637267 Ramesh should have had a one-on-one meeting with Gargi as she was getting on board on the team. Have a more open and casual conversation with Gargi. Ramesh should have confronted informally over a casual talk with Gargi. He should have initiated a team lunch and introduce her to the team members.

]]> 2021-09-21 00:02:17 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755637267 sarahjenkins1992 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755637343 Ramesh should have sat down with Kamla when Gargi was first hired to talk about Kamla's vision for the department and her thinking behind Gargi and how they should work together. Instead he jumped to conclusions and took a passive, bystander approach. ]]> 2021-09-21 00:02:21 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755637343 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755639696 Team 4
When overhearing Gargi speaking with Kamla and Raman, Ramesh let his emotions get the best of him, panicked, and left the function early. Instead of congratulating Gargi and possibly improving their relationship, he allowed his insecurities to lead him to a poor decision]]> 2021-09-21 00:04:17 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755639696 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755640352 2021-09-21 00:04:49 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755640352 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755640460 She never asked either of them what they thought about each other or if they were working well together. She could have kept them all in the loop of the hiring process since they would/should be working together closely. Could have had a meeting 
She should have told Ramesh how valued he is to the team so that he maybe would have felt differently. She also could have given them different teams.]]> 2021-09-21 00:04:54 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755640460 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755641863 Ramesh should have read the emails from Gargi.]]> 2021-09-21 00:06:01 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755641863 dafinlay https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755646016 1. Ramesh - self regulation
2. Kamla - empathy
3. Gargi - self awareness

]]> 2021-09-21 00:09:01 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755646016 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755646403 Kamla was more partial and favoring towards Gargi.
Better communication between both compared to Ramesh & Kamla.]]> 2021-09-21 00:09:17 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755646403 sarahjenkins1992 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755653097 We think Ramish is a very emotionally intelligent leader because he is self aware and has empathy, he is just less social than Gargi. We think Kamla is the last socially intelligent because she didn't display any empathy in thinking about the position she would be putting Ramish in and she didn't make an effort to communicate her vision for where she wants the department to go and why she hired Gargi. ]]> 2021-09-21 00:14:02 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755653097 https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755655668 1) Ramesh - empathy, self regulation
2) Gargi - social skills
3) Kamla - self awareness]]> 2021-09-21 00:15:55 UTC https://padlet.com/gregorymarr/yn51x4lbqoldr9xr/wish/1755655668