Wows, Wonders, What's Next by Kristin Daniel https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p Please post 1 Wow, 2 Wonders, and 1 What's Next based on the content you explored in this week's seminar. We ask that you provide your name as well. en-us 2017-10-12 21:13:45 UTC 2017-10-27 06:28:49 UTC hello@padlet.com Jamey E: Wow! I loved Jim Knight's explanation of the public voice and the private voice. The private voice is so attuned to vulnerability. Listening, as an equal, means your creating space for people to be vulnerable. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198265548 2017-10-18 14:43:54 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198265548 Jamey E: I wonder if the "Thank God I'm here" attitude that Ernesto discusses is just armor against another person's vulnerability. As in, "I'm uncomfortable with your vulnerability and so I'm going to fix you." https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198267462 2017-10-18 14:46:39 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198267462 Jamey E: What's next: The use of the word "servant" doesn't sit well with me. I think we have to be aware of the collegial dynamic that exists in one's school already - servant can feel like your someone who can be taken advantage of or walked on. If the school climate is dysfunctional, it can feel demeaning. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198268897 2017-10-18 14:48:22 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198268897 Collaboration, to me, feels like such a buzz word lately. I've realized that I haven't quite taken the time to pull apart what are the elements of effective collaboration. I wonder if, as a coach, the power dynamic also shifts the context of collaboration (as in the stances of coaching?). What is the difference between collaborating as a coach and as a colleague? https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198509743 -Charlotte]]> 2017-10-19 02:07:55 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198509743 Am I caring? Am I understanding? Am I being curious? What a great mantra before heading into any interaction. What a simple thing to use to remind yourself that you value others and their time. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198510201 -Charlotte]]> 2017-10-19 02:12:00 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198510201 During parent teacher conferences next week, I definitely plan on using the mantra from Jim Knight's talk on listening. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198511365 -Charlotte]]> 2017-10-19 02:20:15 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198511365 When do we truly make time in our daily, professional lives, to listen to one another? When do we do it at home? And, I wonder, what are the steps to helping other adults become deeper, more expansive listeners? https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198511472 -Charlotte]]> 2017-10-19 02:21:27 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198511472 I loved what Ernesto said in the Ted Talk: " Find the passion people have for their own growth". https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198880325 Denise]]> 2017-10-19 21:19:21 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198880325 I wonder if the questions I ask and the listening I do, helps teachers express more often their private voice or their public voice. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198881367 Denise]]> 2017-10-19 21:24:45 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198881367 I plan to use the strategy of taking notes as I listen while planning with teachers or other instructional coaches. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198882263 Denise]]> 2017-10-19 21:29:19 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/198882263 'Nobody in the world can succeed alone' koconnor24 https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316673 I loved Ernesto's talk - when he mentioned Richard Branson's autobiography and how in the first 2 pages he never uses 'I' but uses 'we' 32 times that 'wowed' me.  So applicable to education and how we must all work together. Connects so well to Jim Knight's video re: principal support.  Coaches often feel alone - but nobody can succeed alone, and coaches should not be expected to (but often are).  Katrina

]]> 2017-10-22 04:40:31 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316673 Sharing koconnor24 https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316737 Share some of these resources with my principal, including the Jim Knight video. Katrina]]> 2017-10-22 04:43:42 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316737 Shifting culture koconnor24 https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316819 I wonder how to shift some components of the culture of my school to one that is more fundamentally based upon meaningful, reciprocal, cyclical collaboration?  How do we shift more firmly from the 'I' to the 'we' Katrina]]> 2017-10-22 04:46:44 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199316819 "The journey toward having betterconversations is actually a journey towardauthenticity." Really rang true to me as I have try to navigate who I am in this role and where I need to go. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199413633
-Audrey]]> 2017-10-23 00:30:41 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199413633 " The people that don't want to be helped, leave them alone." - Ernesto quote from his TedTalk has left me wondering... Am I following the path of the imperialistic, paternal, patronizing society to get my faculty to convert to a way that I think is is just? https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199415305
"Respond to people." Should I move out of the driver's seat and become a passenger directing the driver to where they would like to go? This is difficult  for me and, perhaps, a great less in humility.

-Audrey]]> 2017-10-23 00:44:56 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199415305 Sit down, shut up https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199470289 Sirolli's advice to just stop pushing agendas, listen well and discover passions was really validating. He was so passionate himself and clearly has the experience to say it is a more effective way of helping. (Paul here)]]> 2017-10-23 07:47:42 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199470289 Public vs Private https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199471285 It's important to connect with people but I am wary of this one. My conversations with teachers rarely cross into what Knight referred to as "private" voice - I'm grateful for that since so much of the work we do among teachers is in the "public" view. I'm wondering if that's a wall we need to cross to be effective coaches.
(Paul)_]]> 2017-10-23 07:53:02 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199471285 Out in the open https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199471977 Our Questioning and Paraphrasing activity had me wondering. I want the phrasing to be mine so it feels natural when I use it. So I'm wondering how far away from the model I can go in my own voice before it loses intent. Language reveals intent but it feels a bit awkward to prepare a script for something that I hope feels natural to all the participants.

I'm also so visual that rather than a stack of small cards (that I would fumble with) I think a sheet or poster where phrases can be seen across the room is a better way to go for me. Does that qualify as a "next step"?
(Paul)]]> 2017-10-23 07:56:57 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199471977 Share https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199473167 Our school has both a tech and instructional coach. My next move is to share what I've learned here and resources with him and hopefully try to get together on a few projects.
I also need to review my notes from last year's Laura Lipton workshops.
(Paul)]]> 2017-10-23 08:04:48 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199473167 How to Gain Immediate Respect https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199619723 I loved Ernesto's Ted Talk. He summed up the most organic way to build trust and establish supportive roles. Listening has to be unrushed or it is disingenuous.  He is also a fantastic speaker who commands a room but even if we don't have those skills, we can get people to work together by having common goals and parallel understanding of how to accomplish them.  Jon Lever

]]> 2017-10-23 15:11:22 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199619723 Cultural significance https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199621568 I wonder how different cultural backgrounds influence the way my teachers feel about me when I am a "servant" as compared to a colleague or as a watch dog from Central Office or any other role I am perceived to have.]]> 2017-10-23 15:14:46 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199621568 Measuring Success https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199622611 My project will connect to my job directly.  I have created a draft form to use in measuring my progress or attempts at progress as a coach.  This form will have certain goals and focus areas while serving as a data collection tool.

]]> 2017-10-23 15:16:46 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/199622611 Listening https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201091879 I learned alot in the readings about listening. The parts that stood out to me the most were" public vs. private voice and validating does not mean agreeing". When listening it is important to know if the person is being genuine or just surface. As you listen you can be understanding without agreeing with the point of view. ]]> 2017-10-27 06:07:03 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201091879 Are we effectively communicating? https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201092646 I wonder if when I engage with staff how do they listen. Are they just waiting to speak.]]> 2017-10-27 06:16:28 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201092646 The Role of a Coach https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201093335 I wonder how successful I am with supporting the classroom. What is the best way to identify success.]]> 2017-10-27 06:22:27 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201093335 I plan to utilize a coaching cycle document that will help identify succes for the coach and teacer. https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201094167 2017-10-27 06:28:04 UTC https://padlet.com/kristin_daniel/xs975m58f46p/wish/201094167