Bad sex is a social and political issue n2 - what is sex? by Jessica Noble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj Made with an open mind en-us 2022-06-25 18:10:41 UTC 2022-08-01 20:42:05 UTC hello@padlet.com What is sex? jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388007 2022-06-25 18:11:06 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388007 Recommendations jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388371 -  The principles of pleasure on Netflix
- The second circle podcast

]]> 2022-06-25 18:12:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388371 Quote jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388818 "We don't always know what we want and we are not always able to express our desires clearly. This is in part due to the violence, misogyny and shame that makes desires discovery difficult, and its expression fraught" Katherine Angel]]> 2022-06-25 18:15:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388818 Why is it important to talk about bad sex? jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388937 2022-06-25 18:15:51 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230388937 There is a communal experience among women that - this can be better for me. Why is that? jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389148 2022-06-25 18:16:47 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389148 Reflective question: jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389349 What does pleasure mean to you?
How does the word pleasure relate to our bodies? and how does that relate to our ability to be sexual?]]> 2022-06-25 18:17:29 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389349 Mention 'Uses of the Erotic' by Audre Lorde jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389485 2022-06-25 18:18:08 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230389485 In heterosexual relationships women face the double burden of satisfying her partner and demonstrating their satisfaction. jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390131 We are told to be sexual, but not too sexual.

]]> 2022-06-25 18:21:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390131 Tomorrow Sex Will Be Good Again - Catherine Angel jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390493 2022-06-25 18:23:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390493 People with vulvas have to balance desire with risk jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390575 2022-06-25 18:23:39 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390575 Knowing what we want is both something demanded of us and a source of punishment jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390934 2022-06-25 18:25:45 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230390934 Pleasure, and the right to it, are not equally distributed. jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230391468 - Orgasm gap

]]> 2022-06-25 18:28:26 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230391468 Women suffer disproportionately from sexual difficulties, pain and anxiety. jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230391737 2022-06-25 18:29:42 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230391737 Women's expectations when it comes to sex are unexpectedly low jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392317 2022-06-25 18:31:59 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392317 So many people are left out of the pleasure conversation jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392433 2022-06-25 18:32:28 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392433 What would happen if women were really able to tune into their pleasure? jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392807 2022-06-25 18:34:07 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230392807 Why? Because of our patriarchal heteronormative culture. jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230394031 We have a history of women's sexuality to be the source of disease, ill health, problematic behaviour and anxiety.
The word hysteria comes from the greek word uterus 'Andreas Vesalius'. Medieval anatomists even called women's external genitalia the 'Pudendum' which is rooted in the latin word 'Podere' which means to make ashamed.
Centuries later there continues to be myths and stereotypes as a way of controlling women's sexuality.]]> 2022-06-25 18:39:58 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2230394031 I'm not suggesting that all sex must be great! jessicasophienoble https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2252989518 sex can be messy and awkward... ]]> 2022-08-01 20:41:43 UTC https://padlet.com/jessicasophienoble/xq8ll1jguv11cebj/wish/2252989518