https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi Denial, refuse to cooperate, lack of trust en-us 2022-02-16 00:40:09 UTC 2022-02-16 07:41:10 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050293099 1. The opening of the meeting should avoid giving a message to the parents that school and teachers are not "satisfied" with their child's behaviours. 

]]> 2022-02-16 07:35:46 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050293099 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050293768 Find Common Ground between school and parents

Active listening to the father's parenting at home 

Better Introduction : construction of collective approach

Tim Edmond and Polly TSE

]]> 2022-02-16 07:36:17 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050293768 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050294558 1。畀家長講咗先—》active listening ，先了解父親對學校及仔仔嘅諗法
2。先處理爸爸講咗出嚟嘅問題先，再同步家長+學校嘅觀察
3。表明係大家一齊合作關係，目標都係想為小朋友好
4。可了解父親與兒子平時怎樣相處，欣賞父親曾用過的方法及做得好嘅地方


]]> 2022-02-16 07:36:52 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050294558 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296699 1. acknowledge Dad's effort
2. avoid focusing on the child's problems
3. avoid giving absolute answers (yes/no) to his challenging questions]]> 2022-02-16 07:38:18 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296699 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296906 - 問下爸爸有無其他老師同佢反映過同樣問樣
- 問下爸爸具體講下平時喺屋企會點做
- Find common ground
- Ask the child's reaction and behaviour to other family members (e.g. 媽媽嘅管教方法)
- Maybe show the situation of the child at school to Dad?]]> 2022-02-16 07:38:27 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296906 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296944 - 表達認同佢係屋企嘅觀察
- 認同爸爸有d方法係work，又諗下學校嘅表現係咪都可以用類似方法？
- 了解點解爸爸會覺得老師唔OK（但小心唔好話老師No Good）
- Empower 爸爸都幫手，令小朋友係學校做好
- 小心唔好take side!

Hei, Sing, Dennis & Kari]]> 2022-02-16 07:38:29 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050296944 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050297154 -Give credit to the dad (acknowledge his hard work)
-Don’t label the kid, identify a list of possible reasons behind the issue 
-Understand the reason behind the dad’s attitude 
-Explain our role and what service we bring
-Rapport building]]> 2022-02-16 07:38:39 UTC https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050297154 https://padlet.com/carlierchankl/xo1jrdgskdbz43gi/wish/2050297385 -Not emphasizing on weaknesses/problems, also mention strengths, then areas to improve
-Describe behavior of the son in school to let the father know the full picture
-Collaborative role not directing/teaching mode
-Ask the father to share his effective teaching strategies

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