Why do young men and women delay their marriage? by Yaser Birjas

Why do young men and women delay their marriage? by Yaser Birjas https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2 Love and Harmoney en-us 2022-02-14 16:57:58 UTC 2022-09-17 23:57:12 UTC hello@padlet.com To have fun https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256267 2022-09-17 23:34:04 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256267 To afford it https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256285 2022-09-17 23:34:08 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256285 To find the right person https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256317 2022-09-17 23:34:15 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256317 Answer https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256320 They fear the responsibility]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:16 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256320 To finish education https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256347 2022-09-17 23:34:21 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256347 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256370 career ]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:25 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256370 Overthinking it https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256372 2022-09-17 23:34:26 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256372 Money https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256384 2022-09-17 23:34:30 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256384 Other peoples traumatic experiences https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256398 2022-09-17 23:34:36 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256398 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256406 To finish education ]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:38 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256406 Family https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256414 2022-09-17 23:34:40 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256414 Too picky https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256419 2022-09-17 23:34:40 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256419 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256450 Unrealistic expectations ]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:48 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256450 Cant find the one https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256452 2022-09-17 23:34:48 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256452 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256459 No good options]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:50 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256459 Family https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256484 2022-09-17 23:34:58 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256484 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256490 No good means to meet someone]]> 2022-09-17 23:34:59 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256490 Women would like to finish their education first https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256500 2022-09-17 23:35:00 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256500 Fear of commitment https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256513 2022-09-17 23:35:06 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256513 Family pressure https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256531 2022-09-17 23:35:10 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256531 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256543 High expectations ]]> 2022-09-17 23:35:14 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256543 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256546 They want to finish studies, they think they can find a better option each time a marriage proposal comes up.]]> 2022-09-17 23:35:14 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256546 Money https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256553 2022-09-17 23:35:15 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256553 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256562 Haven’t found the right person yet]]> 2022-09-17 23:35:17 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256562 Impossible criteria https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256566 2022-09-17 23:35:18 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256566 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256570 They don’t want to lose their independence ]]> 2022-09-17 23:35:19 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256570 Cultural expectations https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256578 2022-09-17 23:35:21 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256578 Girls are too emotional https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256601 2022-09-17 23:35:27 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256601 Maturity https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256603 2022-09-17 23:35:28 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256603 They’re looking for love at first sight https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256607 2022-09-17 23:35:29 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256607 They saw unhealthy relationships growing up https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256809 2022-09-17 23:35:39 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256809 Afraid of commitment https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256824 2022-09-17 23:35:42 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256824 Commitment issues https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256830 2022-09-17 23:35:44 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256830 Picky/high unrealistic expectations https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256835 2022-09-17 23:35:46 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256835 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256847 we know abt the guys past…]]> 2022-09-17 23:35:52 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256847 Cost of marriage, parental spouse nationality preferences, completion of education, emotional maturity, family instability https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256851 2022-09-17 23:35:53 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256851 They have heard horror stories and are just scared they may also end up having bad marriages as well https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256856 2022-09-17 23:35:56 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256856 Lack of resources/eligible bachelors https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256863 2022-09-17 23:35:58 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256863 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256901 many young men are far away from the deen

]]> 2022-09-17 23:36:08 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301256901 Why do young women delay marriage? https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257024 - afraid of responsibilities or unprepared for responsibilities
- high standards
- career-oriented
- involvement of families
- the person they’re interested in isn’t financially stable]]> 2022-09-17 23:36:30 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257024 List https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257069 Location
Money
family
Commitment issues
Impossible criteria ]]> 2022-09-17 23:36:41 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257069 1. School / career https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257075 2. No opportunity
3. Family expectations
4. Having too much criteria
5. Not ready to lose their freedom and have too much responsibility

]]> 2022-09-17 23:36:44 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257075 Team Women https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257129 1. Finishing education
2. Unrealistic expectations
3. Cultural pressure
4. Familial expectation
5. Money]]> 2022-09-17 23:36:55 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257129 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257171 finding someone who truly fears Allah]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:09 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257171 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257201 Location. Potentially moving ]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:20 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257201 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257226 hard to find a guy interested in marriage for the right reason]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:25 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257226 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257230 No means to find someone

High expectations

Families that don’t get along

Women want to finish school first
No good options
Cultural expectations

]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:26 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257230 Top Reasons ( the married couple table) https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257253 1 Finances
2 Education
3 Time
4 Family Criteria/friction
5 Career Goals coming first]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:34 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257253 Girls: https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257271 Education

Family disapprovals

Financial stability

Maturity

Commitment issues ]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:37 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257271 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257320 1. Parental
2. Financial
3. Dealing with Rejection
4. No suitable match
5. Too busy with career/ education ]]> 2022-09-17 23:37:53 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257320 Financial Stability, Too picky, Not mature enough https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257394 2022-09-17 23:38:12 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257394 Why brothers delay married? https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257416 Fear of something better (what if), contentment
Financial security
Situation / Priorities (school,travel, career)
Lack of confidence

]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:16 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257416 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257438 1. Financial constraints
2. Complexities of the process
3. Fear of the unknown
4. Waiting for career accomplishments
5. Unreasonable expectations/standard]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:23 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257438 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257457
Financial reasons
Parent not agreeing to the idea
Busy wiht other responsibilities
High standards
Emotionally not ready
Selfish
Cultural barriers ]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:28 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257457 From the ladies side: https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257472 1. Achieving financial stability
2. Time for Emotional maturity and intelligence
3. Getting to know yourself better/what you want
4. Too idealistic on marriage, takes longer to form realistic expectations
5. Societal pressure

]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:31 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257472 Women https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257504 1. Want to complete education first/start career
2. Not enough resources to meet people
3. No eligible bachelors/no compatibility
4. High expectations
5. Parental expectations/barriers (want same culture)]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:39 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257504 Why do men and women delay https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257534 1. They don't want to commit
2. Environment
3. Parents
4. Conforming to western cultural mindset and ideology
5. Self religious struggles ]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:45 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257534 Money https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257537 Woman ask for over 20k then wedding is over 20k plus honeymoon and housing ]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:46 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257537 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257552 -To afford it
-To have fun
-Too picky
-Overthinking it
-Scared Traumatic experiences
-Scared of commitment
-Family issues
-Waiting for the right one ]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:48 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257552 Women https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257588 1. Setting unrealistic expectations.
2. Meeting candidates has become very difficult.
3. Waiting for the “perfect” spouse limits the pool of options.
Women are the ones having to sacrifice their career/lifestyle for the sake of their family.
5. Hearing negative experiences from other women who have had unhappy marriages. ]]> 2022-09-17 23:38:57 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301257588 https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301258270 Too many/unrealistic criteria ]]> 2022-09-17 23:41:47 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301258270 Men wanting more than 1 wife https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301258753 2022-09-17 23:43:49 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301258753 FEAR OF COMMITMENT AND NOT KNOWING WHY YOU SHOULD GET MARRIED https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301262045 2022-09-17 23:57:12 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/Miftah2/wish/2301262045