My Hooks by Shelby McIntyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu Where are you likely to get hooked in a coaching conversation? What are your "no-go's" Where do you likely need the most self-management? en-us 2020-04-20 17:46:51 UTC 2020-04-23 12:30:37 UTC hello@padlet.com Tuning out when the story sounds similar to other stories I've heard that day https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520540725 2020-04-21 15:08:05 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520540725 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520541107 Hook: my own anxieties pull my attention away from being present]]> 2020-04-21 15:08:14 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520541107 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520542063 Letting my mind wander on to things that have nothing to do with the student.

]]> 2020-04-21 15:08:32 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520542063 shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520542925 Focusing on other things that I need to do]]> 2020-04-21 15:08:49 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520542925 When students repeat their story over and over again in the same or different conversations. https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520543187 2020-04-21 15:08:54 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520543187 A text or phone call comes through https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520543707 2020-04-21 15:09:02 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520543707 dog convos https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544145 2020-04-21 15:09:12 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544145 shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544463 Thinking of family that's far away]]> 2020-04-21 15:09:19 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544463 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544532 when students discuss handling personal loss/fear of loss]]> 2020-04-21 15:09:19 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544532 When a student starts rambling https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544548 2020-04-21 15:09:20 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544548 Dogs barking https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544601 2020-04-21 15:09:21 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544601 students not reccognizing when a change needs to happen https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544826 2020-04-21 15:09:25 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544826 When students share stories that really resonate shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544914 2020-04-21 15:09:26 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520544914 My phone lights up https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545290 2020-04-21 15:09:33 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545290 Notifacations from emails or slacks shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545548 2020-04-21 15:09:38 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545548 notification from slack https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545836 2020-04-21 15:09:43 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545836 Student talks about a death in the family https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545860 2020-04-21 15:09:43 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520545860 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546502 Being frustrated or annoyed when people seemingly complain about very little things.

]]> 2020-04-21 15:09:55 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546502 When a student starts talking about their mental health https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546724 2020-04-21 15:09:59 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546724 When student goes on a long tangent shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546756 2020-04-21 15:10:00 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546756 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546784 Empathy fatigue: disengaging when I've expended my empathetic reserve 

]]> 2020-04-21 15:10:01 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520546784 When I feel the conversation doesnt apply to our goal shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520547184 2020-04-21 15:10:09 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520547184 My to-do list or my next call/meeting https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520547272 2020-04-21 15:10:10 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520547272 Tech issues shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548224 2020-04-21 15:10:28 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548224 When I am unsure of how to respond to a student situation, I can get in my own head https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548306 2020-04-21 15:10:30 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548306 When KOCs start running together and you forget if you talked about something with this student or if it was the student before them https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548604 2020-04-21 15:10:36 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520548604 Not having the emotional capacity to listen shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549537 2020-04-21 15:10:55 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549537 Personal situation - can vary, if someone I care for is ill, or if I have a big school project coming up, I can lose focus https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549766 2020-04-21 15:10:59 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549766 When a student isn't making sense https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549939 2020-04-21 15:11:03 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520549939 Knowing I have another call or meeting coming up shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520550139 2020-04-21 15:11:06 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520550139 technical issues shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520550597 2020-04-21 15:11:15 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520550597 My new 'coworkers' shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520551520 2020-04-21 15:11:34 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520551520 https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520551906 Notifications and or my schedule.  

]]> 2020-04-21 15:11:41 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520551906 Call fatigue when having back to back calls shelbymcintyre https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520552673 2020-04-21 15:11:54 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520552673 When a student is complaining about the same thing, and unable to move forward https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520554175 2020-04-21 15:12:23 UTC https://padlet.com/shelbymcintyre/x8nnbi1w8o7xsdpu/wish/520554175