https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f Made with a dash of wit en-us 2019-02-25 22:23:28 UTC 2025-11-09 14:36:46 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160142 While the other behaviors help you become a more trusted person or manager, this behavior (extend trust) will help you become a more trusting leader. pg 230]]> 2019-02-26 00:56:53 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160142 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160278 "Almost all conflict is a result of violated Expectations"  - p. 192

accountable

"you find yourself blaming others..."

]]> 2019-02-26 00:57:28 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160278 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160379 Confront the reality, not the person. p. 197]]> 2019-02-26 00:57:47 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160379 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160381 You must never confuse faith that you will prevail in the end- which you can never afford to lose- with the discipline to confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they may be. pg. 186]]> 2019-02-26 00:57:48 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160381 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160442 Its about sharing the bad news as well as the good, naming the "elephant in the room", addressing the "sacred cows" and discussing the "undiscussables" p. 185
(Behavior #8 - Confronting Reality)

]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:06 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160442 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160444 "Most often, in fact, it is the failures that bring about the breakthroughs and insights." (p. 188)]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:07 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160444 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160447 Unless we improve our capabilities dramatically, we're going to be inadequate to the challenge.  p. 184

]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:09 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160447 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160467 "Always deliver what you say you will". p
216]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:15 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160467 rhovis https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160551 Regina :)

]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:30 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160551 kadame1 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160573 Accountability builds extraordinary trust in the culture when people feel secure in the knowledge that everyone will be held to certain standards

]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:38 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160573 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160652 Confront reality - is about taking the tough issues head-on]]> 2019-02-26 00:58:56 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160652 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160686  "The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read, and write but those who can not learn, unlearn, and relearn." ]]> 2019-02-26 00:59:07 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160686 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160942 p. 182: Smart leaders create an environment that encourages appropriate risk-taking, an environment that makes it safe to make mistakes.

]]> 2019-02-26 01:00:10 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335160942 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335161093 Leadership ultimately means understanding people. p. 218

]]> 2019-02-26 01:00:51 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335161093 gwendolyntoburen https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335161251 "If you have a leadership role in an organization, on a team, or in a family, take steps to create an environment that makes it safe to make mistakes."

Ownership.
"You are your word."
 

]]> 2019-02-26 01:01:31 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335161251 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335162108 2019-02-26 01:04:45 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335162108 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335162981 Word: Results
Phrase: Clarify Expectations ]]> 2019-02-26 01:07:38 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335162981 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163027 word - "undiscussables"

phase - When was the last time you heard someone criticized for listening too much? (I know that's a sentence but .....)


]]> 2019-02-26 01:07:49 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163027 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163028 Word: Authentic
Phrase: naming the "elephant in the room"]]> 2019-02-26 01:07:49 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163028 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163052 Phrase: Get Better
Word:  expectations]]> 2019-02-26 01:07:55 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163052 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163077 Word: LISTEN
Phrase: IT"S A TWO-WAY STREET!!! pg. 196

]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:02 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163077 kadame1 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163127 Phrase: Listen First ( pg. 214)

Word:  Commitments (pg. 222)

]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:14 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163127 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163149 phrase: "hold yourself accountable" (pg 206)


word: risk-taking (pg 188)]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:19 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163149 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163168 Word: Accountability
Phrase:Violated expectations get translated into trust issues]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:22 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163168 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163200 Word: Act
Phrase:]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:33 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163200 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163258 Commitment 
listen first 

]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:46 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163258 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163300 Word: Listen
Phrase:  "listen with your eyes and your heart"

]]> 2019-02-26 01:08:57 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163300 rhovis https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163374 counterfeit is pretend listening

courage]]> 2019-02-26 01:09:16 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163374 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163447 Assume the best motives p. 217

Accountable p. 213]]> 2019-02-26 01:09:35 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335163447 https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335164290 Word: cost
Phrase: recognize that clarity is power (p. 198]]> 2019-02-26 01:13:12 UTC https://padlet.com/sikes_sandy/x3vgvr3ckt0f/wish/335164290