https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3 Alpha Sigma Alpha en-us 2019-11-23 03:28:20 UTC 2019-11-23 17:49:42 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f41e.png https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415679935 2019-11-23 17:03:05 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415679935 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415679965 For other members. For officers in positions. For advisors. For people and places that we support, etc.]]> 2019-11-23 17:03:17 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415679965 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680077 Cut the drama; we’re supposed to be supporting each other not gossiping behind each others backs]]> 2019-11-23 17:03:58 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680077 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680175 People are constantly questioning people’s decisions and don’t see the work we do behind going into the decision and it’s frustrating to know people are talking badly about your decisions when they never ask why]]> 2019-11-23 17:04:38 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680175 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680187 I really don’t understand why people don’t show up to sisterhood events. It really sucks especially because Shelby puts time and effort into planning These and it’s hard to get closer to people when no one really shows up. I honestly don’t understand why only 6 people are showing up to things we all talked about being good ideas  ]]> 2019-11-23 17:04:42 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680187 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680200 More emphasis on academic success & tools to help sisters do well in school ]]> 2019-11-23 17:04:46 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680200 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680236 People showing up to things. Not wanting to come to things, only coming if they’re worth points, not offering to help people running things, spending time with sisters outside of events]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:00 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680236 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680237 I feel like a lot of people are “fake”. They talk about people behind their back and then pretend they’re best friends when they’re with that person]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:00 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680237 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680238 I feel that we need to have fewer recruitment events. Multiple PNMs have told me that us having so many events every week is stressful for them]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:00 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680238 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680239 The need for more passion regarding philanthropy events ]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:01 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680239 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680296 i think we should try to not call any positions “small.” all positions are important and just because it’s not exec doesn’t mean that it’s not important for the development of the chapter ]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:27 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680296 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680325 I wish people would sometimes be more understanding about mental health or academics. i feel like sometimes all the events we are having can be overwhelming and it can cause me anxiety and stress and also interfere with our academics. i feel like we should be allowed to have mental health breaks without people being mad for not showing up for things due to mental health reasons or for class work. ]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:39 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680325 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680342 Making sisterhood events at different times; late at night doesn’t always work for everyone]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:50 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680342 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680349 It sucks how negative everyone is all of the time and all the crap talking people do especially when we get new girls because it’s not a good way to welcome them into the chapter and it’s not going to make them want to stay]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:51 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680349 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680358 Not wanting to do philanthropy events, when they’re things that we support nationally.]]> 2019-11-23 17:05:54 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680358 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680402 We need to work on sisterhood. Just having sisterhood events isn’t going to change anything when after I leave people just talk bad about me. We need to work on actually being nice to each other and supporting each other]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:02 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680402 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680411 People need to learn to separate the person from the position ]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:07 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680411 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680412 I feel like empathy is something we really lack as a chapter. There is a lot of talking about people behind their backs and spreading rumors and making assumptions about people. We are supposed to be supporting each other not tearing each other down. It really hurts when you find out your sisters are tasting mean things about you so I would say just try to think before you speak and think “is this actually true” “is this a kind thing to say”]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:07 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680412 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680502 some people don’t have the money for sisterhood events that are off campus and we shouldnt have to  feel bad for not being able to go for not having the money. ]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:37 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680502 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680507 I wish we did more sister dinners or made time just to hang out during the week. Like for things that aren’t just required events. The chapter is a big support system in my life and I feel like we would be stronger if we did so. ]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:39 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680507 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680514 It seems that people do not want to be at events. Working towards explaining really why events are important and showing that we all want to be there, being happy at events and not showing up late and looking miserable while you’re there ]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:42 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680514 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680547 Not respecting those who hold positions. We are people too and we do what we do because we have to not because we wAnt to]]> 2019-11-23 17:06:54 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680547 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680591 Lack of collective sisterhood. It's very cliquey and it feels like sisters only reach out to the people in their clique. Also, I think that we need to have more empathy and  respect for each other ]]> 2019-11-23 17:07:06 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680591 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680751 I think we need to break out of our groups and get to know sisters we normally don’t hangout with ]]> 2019-11-23 17:08:05 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680751 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680769 i think we improved a lot with recruitment this semester! even though we had a lot of events, they were ran well. i think we developed good relationships with PNMs & primary recruitment will be good ]]> 2019-11-23 17:08:12 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680769 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680824 People get mad for the dumbest things and it’s frustrating to do so much for the chapter and then you hear people are talking behind your back about nothing  ]]> 2019-11-23 17:08:37 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680824 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680911 People not respecting the work that is put into things and thanking the people who do hard work for us to continue as a thriving chapter]]> 2019-11-23 17:09:13 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415680911 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681133 I feel that communication in general is still something we have to work on in all aspects of the chapter. ]]> 2019-11-23 17:10:11 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681133 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681178 while we talk about respect for people holding positions, we should also recognize the effort & work that members not holding positions put in. everyone’s opinions & contributions matter ]]> 2019-11-23 17:10:21 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681178 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681214 People need to understand if I ask you to do something on behalf of my position I’m not asking or telling you to make you not have fun or to attack you, I’m doing it because it’s my position and that comes first to make the chapter run smoothly ]]> 2019-11-23 17:10:34 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681214 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681255 More communication & organization of events. People discuss things but don’t make it clear. ]]> 2019-11-23 17:10:48 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681255 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681373 Also no one tells new girls the secrets and what you shouldn’t say or do and then they get mad at them for doing those things when no one told them about it which sucks ]]> 2019-11-23 17:11:27 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681373 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681444 I think that we shouldn’t worry just about numbers. We should focus on giving bids to quality girls who really represent ASA and out values. When we just worry about numbers and getting as big as we can we could get girls who just want to wear the letters and go to parties]]> 2019-11-23 17:11:53 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681444 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681453 Respecting advisors. They do so much for us and I don’t think we thank them enough. They volunteer their time and are always available for us, and I think some people overlook that sometimes ]]> 2019-11-23 17:11:56 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681453 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681512 if people have any personal issues with another member, they shouldn’t be involving other members in them. it should be communicated directly to the person involved and no one else. we shouldn’t be afraid to talk to each other because we are all sisters & should be open to supporting each other & improving our own relationships as well ]]> 2019-11-23 17:12:24 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681512 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681677 I think we also need to pay more attention to what people post, they’re posting for a reason and it’s important. A lot of people reach out to the person in the position and ask questions that could be answered just by actually reading the posts]]> 2019-11-23 17:13:23 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415681677 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682024 feeling kept in the dark a lot. chapter feels like were getting words talked at us and general members have no say in what to do. events run badly sometimes because there is no interest. even voting for events can be hard because people dont like the options]]> 2019-11-23 17:15:37 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682024 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682333 Putting times in 2 weeks in advance. There have been so many times that took off a portion of my shift to go to an event then the event being held like an hour before I get off work and then I lose money and wasted my time taking off ]]> 2019-11-23 17:18:01 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682333 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682403 Knowing people talk crap about our event sucks and it makes me anxious to hold events and every decision I make for them because I know whatever I do, people are going to talk badly about me or the decision or event and I know I can’t please everyone but to constantly hear people saying negative things makes me want to give up]]> 2019-11-23 17:18:24 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682403 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682634 No empathy in the chapter. I don’t want to go to hang out with a bunch of people who talk bad about me and my friends. We are all going through different things that no one knows about and we need to be understanding that things come up. Just stop gossiping and spreading rumors, we are supposed to be sisters and have each other’s back but I barely feel comfortable going to people with my issues ]]> 2019-11-23 17:19:55 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682634 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682726 The whole point of joining a sorority is to create a sisterhood and make friends so it sucks to have all this negativity and no one wants to spend time with anyone]]> 2019-11-23 17:20:28 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682726 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682975 We should bring back sister dinner I really enjoyed it and having dinner with sisters and pnms and always knowing I had someone to eat with on Monday nights]]> 2019-11-23 17:22:14 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415682975 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683299 I honestly have thought about terminating more this semester then before because it’s like I don’t matter no one really reaches out other then like 3 people and then we get labeled as a clique ]]> 2019-11-23 17:24:24 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683299 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683412 I see comments saying there is negativity and people don’t like to hangout with each other, maybe I just don’t notice but I do feel we have a strong sisterhood (especially to some sororities it seems to me)]]> 2019-11-23 17:25:06 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683412 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683479 We have a lot of potential to be a good chapter. More so then I’ve ever seen but we need to follow through and keep strong ]]> 2019-11-23 17:25:30 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683479 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683851 Every single member has potential to be amazing and I know I can get along with them all, so it sucks when I hear people talking badly about me or my friends because it makes me want to shut off ]]> 2019-11-23 17:27:44 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683851 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683912 I guess this is kind of off topic but I just wanna say I believe that we have gotten closer with other orgs this semester! It’s definitely gotten a lot better from past semesters.]]> 2019-11-23 17:28:07 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415683912 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684163 People should be going to sisterhood events, I know people have work and school work, but if we don’t have bonding time to get to know each other then this just seems like a job or obligation  ]]> 2019-11-23 17:29:51 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684163 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684209 I wish we could have more social events that aren’t mixers because people that can’t go kinda get shunned from other orgs cause they don’t know who we are or we are even in the chapter ]]> 2019-11-23 17:30:07 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684209 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684803 Is there a way we can have something in chapter each week where we just open up about like things we are prideful about in the week like if someone got a good test grade. Kinda like the validation mug but something about ourselves ]]> 2019-11-23 17:33:56 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684803 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684884 We should reward grades every chapter, and offer help to anyone who needs it]]> 2019-11-23 17:34:25 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415684884 https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415686008 Time management 
I know everyone is busy- but when time and effort is put in- and someone says they are too busy, when you know about the event  is frustrating ]]> 2019-11-23 17:42:14 UTC https://padlet.com/alexisbrooke23/wwqhg13rbbn3/wish/415686008