LPH BTI Discussion Questions - Session - March 3, 2025 by Brian Bluhm https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck Please share your thoughts on the following questions. Sign out of your Padlet account (if you have one) to post anonymously. en-us 2025-02-28 17:24:34 UTC 2025-03-03 19:51:16 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/2600.png Non-trauma says: this person is targeting me https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349554648 2025-03-03 19:12:48 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349554648 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349554652 as my dad used to say "they're a nuts driver"


]]> 2025-03-03 19:12:49 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349554652 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555134 They feel the need to be right and belittle others in the process in fears of being wrong


]]> 2025-03-03 19:13:14 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555134 They are just being difficult https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555286 2025-03-03 19:13:20 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555286 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555317 They dont listen

]]> 2025-03-03 19:13:21 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555317 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555481 Behavior: conflict avoidance

Non-trauma informed lens: They are immature

]]> 2025-03-03 19:13:28 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555481 They are too sensitive. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555489 2025-03-03 19:13:28 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555489 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555746 They come across as immature

]]> 2025-03-03 19:13:43 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555746 They have no manners https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555885 2025-03-03 19:13:50 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349555885 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556212 taking credit for other peoples' work to get ahead themselves

]]> 2025-03-03 19:14:07 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556212 They are trying to escape or finding a way out https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556455 2025-03-03 19:14:23 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556455 Even though they are in a leadership position, they are at the mercy of a system that doesn't work for them either https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556889 2025-03-03 19:14:42 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349556889 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557106 they talk talk talk talk to stop interactions

]]> 2025-03-03 19:14:53 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557106 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557453 Seeking coping mechanisms that keep the peace instead of rocking the boat

]]> 2025-03-03 19:15:03 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557453 They are trying to get out of something - not take accountability https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557721 2025-03-03 19:15:16 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557721 There must be something that happened to them where they feel the need to have some control https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557956 2025-03-03 19:15:29 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557956 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557977 They grew up in an unhealthy environment and the behavior was normalized to them

]]> 2025-03-03 19:15:30 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349557977 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558224 They don't know what else to do so they do what they do

]]> 2025-03-03 19:15:37 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558224 they are feeling insecure in their own self and unable to acknowledge that to themselves https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558468 2025-03-03 19:15:51 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558468 They are trying to avoid being retraumatized or triggered. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558576 2025-03-03 19:15:58 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349558576 They have felt like they need to continually prove their worthiness and feel they are valued by how much work they do https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559055 2025-03-03 19:16:23 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559055 seek connection outside of the issue i'm having with them https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559157 2025-03-03 19:16:28 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559157 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559175 Promoted to a leadership role way too early in career - faking it (too much) until they 'make it'

]]> 2025-03-03 19:16:30 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559175 Telling ourselves that what they may say or do is a reflection of something they are going through that may have nothing to do with me. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559276 2025-03-03 19:16:36 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559276 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559474 This was a reaction not a response.

]]> 2025-03-03 19:16:42 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349559474 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560057 Take breaks in the conversation

]]> 2025-03-03 19:17:12 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560057 ask questions to understand them and come from a place of trust in them and beleive in them https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560401 2025-03-03 19:17:25 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560401 let's both state are role-related needs and see where we can come to an agreement, by understanding each other we won't take things personally https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560467 2025-03-03 19:17:30 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560467 If the behavior is not harmful then in some cases it may be helpful to accept or adapt to that behavior even if it is a little different than how you would behave. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560830 2025-03-03 19:17:50 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560830 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560862 Take time to truly reflect and change what questions are being asked.

]]> 2025-03-03 19:17:51 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349560862 Focusing back on what I may feel and what I may contribute to the interaction of the other individual. May need to take some space away until comfortable enough to come back to regroup together. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561140 2025-03-03 19:18:03 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561140 They might be managing some fears or insecurities - may be conscious or unconscious https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561448 2025-03-03 19:18:18 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561448 Listen and speak clearly. Set boundaries where needed. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561754 2025-03-03 19:18:28 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561754 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561771 Trying to not look too much into some of the issues. Trying to humor some of their ideas.

]]> 2025-03-03 19:18:29 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349561771 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562131 Close the stress loop as able

]]> 2025-03-03 19:18:49 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562131 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562179 Take time away to cool down and come back once calm to have a conversation where you are able to be empathetic

]]> 2025-03-03 19:18:52 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562179 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562318 Be mindful of body language and tone, stay calm, see bigger picture. If not able to stay calm, take break. Recognize how my own experiences/lenses might impact how I perceive the situation

]]> 2025-03-03 19:19:00 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562318 Ask questions- come from curiosity. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562591 2025-03-03 19:19:15 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349562591 https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349594002 Building understanding of ACEs within our HHS department and in schools - specifically early childhood educators

]]> 2025-03-03 19:46:41 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349594002 data linking commercial tobacco use to ACE's for schools https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349596125 2025-03-03 19:48:42 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349596125 Page 36 of 2022 CHNA Winona Co. https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349596619 2025-03-03 19:49:14 UTC https://padlet.com/OSHII/wwjk14r9workvmck/wish/3349596619