Personality Project by Vivian Digiovanni https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k en-us 2018-10-17 14:09:01 UTC 2023-05-11 08:06:42 UTC hello@padlet.com Id: I tend to want to go and hang out or talk with my friends instead of doing homework. For example, this year, I postponed my group project about exploration for my AP Euro class and instead I went to dinner with my friend Callie. Here, my id is overpowering my superego because I do what is fun instead of what I have to do, which gives me the trait of procrastination. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293863387 2018-10-17 14:13:36 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293863387 Neuroticism: Because I put off my school work to the last minute, it tends to mess with my emotions, making me very unstable and high in neuroticism. For example, last year in English class, I put off my paper for the book "Of Mice and Men," which already gave me a ton of anxiety and stress. I was not able to finish it in time because I was so tired and put it off so long. I ended up crying because I could not finish it. I went through so many unstable, negative emotions, making me neurotic. I am a procrastinator because I put off my paper to the last minute, and I suffered emotionally for it. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293873776 2018-10-17 14:28:20 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293873776 Agreeableness: I think I am right in the middle on the scale. I think because I am so blunt, it can come off as me not being very empathetic towards others feelings. For example, I told my friend Callie last week that I thought what she was wearing made her look like a mustard bottle. This made her pretty angry at me and being my blunt self didn't realize how that would affect her, so that day we butt-heads, which puts me in the middle for agreeableness. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293874233 2018-10-17 14:28:58 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293874233 Hierarchy of Needs: I say what's on my mind right when it comes to me which in many cases lowers my self esteem. For example when my ex broke up with me they basically told me that I was too honest. Even though I am losing a person, my self esteem went down a lot because I definitely lost confidence in myself and how I act around other people and for future relationships. This shows bluntness because I lost a relationship over it and lowered my self esteem a lot. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293874433 2018-10-17 14:29:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293874433 Openness: I have a very wide range of interests, I like to try new things. For example, one day my mom mentioned doing tennis, so later that day we went to the tennis courts. Keeping in mind I have never played it ever. I ended up enjoying doing it with my family and so now it is a thing that we like to do together. Usually kids are typically practical and not willing to try new things, which is why I think that I am mature and rate high for openness because do a wide range of interests. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293875263 2018-10-17 14:30:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293875263 Conscientiousness: Because I procrastinate so much, I tend to be very disorganized. For example, I had a big semester project for Global Issues last year about describing France. Because I did it the night before and was in a such a hurry, I ended up missing a major piece of the project that had to be included, causing me to be disorganized. I definitely rate low for conscientiousness because I procrastinated so much which makes me very disorganized. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293875651 2018-10-17 14:30:58 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/293875651 Hierarchy of Needs: If I make a friend, I tend to keep them. Relationship wise I am loyal to one person only which helps to stay in the relationship longer, earning that level of love on the Hierarchy of Needs. An example of this is my boyfriend. At a party we were around a lot of guys that I know and he tends to get jealous easily. I talked to him the whole time and focused my attention on him, thus earning trait of being Ioyal. I stay in the relationship with my boyfriend, and when he is happy, I am happy, so I am achieving the level of love. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297839981 2018-10-29 01:11:44 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297839981 Displacement: I transfer my emotions into something that is harmless. For example, during a basketball game against Geneva, I remember when they were talking trash and pushing me around. I was very angry and instead of taking it out on the players, I used my anger to sprint and get the ball. This relates to maturity because I view purposely hurting other players as bad sportsmanship, so by transferring my anger from the people to running, I receive this trait. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297843023 2018-10-29 01:28:15 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297843023 Extroversion: I am very outgoing and talkative with many people. Because I am self-aware, I think that I appeal to more people. For example, me and some basketball girls were specifically talking about what teams we think we were going to make. Internally, I know my skill and how good I am and I communicate that with them. In return I get along the whole team and they like me because I am very real and honest about my skill level. Being able to have a warm, positive conversation about this topic with the girls about how good we are and what team we're gonna make makes me self-aware. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297844777 2018-10-29 01:39:15 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297844777 Regression: Sometimes when dealing with conflict I revert to a childlike state. For example, when I got in a fight with my boyfriend about him being too busy and not having enough time for me. I gave him the silent treatment for a few days like a kid. But, this does show an instance of loyalty because I could have gone off and talked to other guys, forgetting about him, but instead I ignored him until we eventually talked it out. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297858644 2018-10-29 03:02:09 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297858644 Sublimation: I put my conflicting emotions into productive outlets. For example, one time I had a project for chemistry and it made me super anxious and nervous, but I knew I needed to do it. I went to the gym, shot free throws (which I knew I needed to practice), and ran on the treadmill. This ultimately made me feel better and more level-headed and so I got back and knocked out the project. This shows me being self-aware because I know I had to work on free throws to get better and also I knew I needed to get the project done. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297861063 2018-10-29 03:16:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297861063 Reaction formation: I express the opposite of what my inner feelings are in my outward behaviors. For example, there is this one girl that I really do not like in my chemistry class (I won't name them), and she asked around if anyone had a piece of gum. Instead of being mean to her and expressing how I really don't like her, I gave her a piece of gum that I had instead. This shows maturity because I could have been very rude to her, but I was nice and tried to get along with her because she is in my class. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297862338 2018-10-29 03:25:23 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297862338 Real vs. Ideal Self: I am a super blunt person; that's just how I am. With the example of me giving my opinion of my friend's outfit, I wish I did not comment on it. Ideally, I do not like being blunt, I think that I hurt a lot of feelings with being so outright on what I think, I wish I was more empathetic with what I say. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297863547 2018-10-29 03:34:16 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/297863547 Real vs. Ideal Self: From homework every night to huge projects that are worth a lot of points, I procrastinate everything! For example, this project right now, I put off doing a category till the due date. Of course ideally I wish I did not do it because its the source of most of my stress, but its such an ongoing thing 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298125948 2018-10-29 16:36:06 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298125948 Real vs Ideal Self: I am very loyal which I think is mostly influenced by my family, they are big on that. I have kept my friend Olivia that I met when I was very young and most friendships that I have. Ideally I like being loyal I think that it is a very good quality to have. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298745068 2018-10-30 20:32:39 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298745068 Real vs Ideal Self: I know where I stand with a lot of people and how good I am at certain things. For example, in basketball I am not good at balling handling, but I am pretty good at shooting. I like having this traits because I think it directly relates to honesty which is important. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298745933 2018-10-30 20:35:26 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298745933 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298746148 2018-10-30 20:36:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298746148 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298746768 2018-10-30 20:38:22 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298746768 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298747029 2018-10-30 20:39:14 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298747029 Real vs. Ideal Self: I think that I am more mature than other people at my age. For example, I know how to appropriately talk to adults and in return they like me. I think this is a good trait to have because then adults do not treat me like I am 2 years old. We are able to have a respectful conversation. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298747593 2018-10-30 20:40:54 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298747593 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298748596 2018-10-30 20:44:21 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298748596 8014677 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298752791 2018-10-30 20:55:06 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298752791 8014677 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298753381 2018-10-30 20:56:55 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298753381 Superego: This is when the superego does the "right" or "moral" thing in a situation. For example I had to do a Saints supporting Saints event for girls basketball and I really wanted to go and hang out with Callie instead because that was the only day she was free. I decided not to skip the event and I went anyway. Here, my superego overpowers my want to go and have fun with my friend. It would have been immature of me to not go because we were required to. I get this trait of maturity because I did sacrificed hanging out with my friend to do something I did not enjoy. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298754141 2018-10-30 20:59:11 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298754141 Ego: This is when the ego balances the id and superego. For example, one time I had a basketball game and a birthday party to go to at the same time. I decided I would go for the first 2 quarters of the basketball game, and then go to the birthday party for my friend. Here, my ego makes a compromise between my id and superego. I am loyal in this situation because I am still supporting my basketball team while still making the party for my friend. 8014848 https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298814470 2018-10-31 02:00:13 UTC https://padlet.com/8014848/w92xtwaeog1k/wish/298814470