https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t Discussion panel for advisory en-us 2021-11-01 22:39:08 UTC 2021-11-02 02:26:02 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860355673 When you are greeting them ask them for their pronouns]]> 2021-11-02 02:16:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860355673 24schechterl3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860356660 I think it's important to normalize asking people there preferred pronouns when we first meet them no matter who they are. If we do this then it'll make it easier for people that don't have their assigned pronouns to come out]]> 2021-11-02 02:16:38 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860356660 24mcconnelle3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357277 Just ask them what pronouns they use.]]> 2021-11-02 02:16:55 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357277 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357310 Speak up for that person and correct your teacher]]> 2021-11-02 02:16:56 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357310 24mcconnelle3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357632 If the person is open about what pronouns they use, I would tell the teacher. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:03 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860357632 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358123 I would ask them for their pronouns as I wouldn't want to offend them.]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358123 24schechterl3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358416 I think I would raise my hand and correct the teacher if I know the person is ok with it

]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:23 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358416 24rivetj1_1 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358682 I would ask them what they want me to use so that I'm not using incorrect pronouns. I think that asking them rather than just assuming is more respectful.]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:31 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860358682 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860359087 I would most likely assume their gender out of habit. This is because someone got offended when I asked them what their gender is because they thought it was clear.]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:42 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860359087 24mcconnelle3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860359248 Support them by accepting who they are, but don't pressure them into telling more people until they're ready.]]> 2021-11-02 02:17:46 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860359248 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360317 I would tell the teacher the person's correct pronoun later in a closed environment. The student should also be able to stand up for themselves. 

]]> 2021-11-02 02:18:16 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360317 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360656 Just reassure them and tell them this it is ok and that they should start by telling the people that they really trust and then go from there]]> 2021-11-02 02:18:25 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360656 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360684 hey! im ryan, what are ur pronouns. Mine are he/him]]> 2021-11-02 02:18:26 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860360684 24firths3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860361020 Ask them what their preferred pronouns are when you introduce yourself. Also include your pronouns when introducing so that they feel more comfortable.]]> 2021-11-02 02:18:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860361020 24rivetj1_1 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860361763 I think I'd try to use their pronouns in front of the teacher to remind the teacher if they forgot. However, if the teacher continued then I would let them know in private. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:18:54 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860361763 24schechterl3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860362043 I would support them as much as I can and thank them for trusting me. I would also tell them that they don't need to come out until they're ready to , to not assume the worst, and that I would support them.]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860362043 24mcconnelle3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860362669 Tell them that their comments are offensive and that they should stop saying things like that. If they don't understand what they did wrong, explain why it would be offensive

]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:17 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860362669 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363325 Tell them that they are offending others and if they continue speak up and possibly get other people involved]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363325 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363330 I would openly tell the teacher what pronouns the student prefers.]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:34 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363330 24firths3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363526 I would go to the teacher and confront them in private so no one feels embarrassed. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:40 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860363526 24schechterl3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860364160 I would try to explain to them what they are saying is wrong. If they didn't know I would explain the background and why its bad to say]]> 2021-11-02 02:19:55 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860364160 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860364364 Because the teacher might think they have all the authority but you can show them how someone is getting uncomfortable and ask them to properly address the person or ask for their pronouns]]> 2021-11-02 02:20:01 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860364364 24rivetj1_1 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860365176 I would support them and let them know that I will be there for them whether or not they make the decision to come out. It's a really private matter so it's completely understandable that they may not be ready to tell everyone. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:20:22 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860365176 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860366312 I would ask them about opening up. This is up to them, so I would leave them to make the choices. I will support by listening to them, and try to make the right decision. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:20:53 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860366312 24firths3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860366933 I would support them and make sure that they know that they're valid. And I wouldn't tell the others until they're ready to. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:21:10 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860366933 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367054 2021-11-02 02:21:13 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367054 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367119 I would support them through making them feel more comfortable about their sexuality around me and tell them that I don't judge them based off their gender. I would also ask them why they feel that it would not be okay to tell ]]> 2021-11-02 02:21:15 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367119 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367798 tell the teacher that he/she is getting the students pronouns wrong.]]> 2021-11-02 02:21:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860367798 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860368121 I would ask them if they want other people to know if they were gay, and if they said it was ok I would try to find some other gay people that the person could be friends with.]]> 2021-11-02 02:21:41 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860368121 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860368846 make sure to support and reassure them that it is normal to be gay

]]> 2021-11-02 02:22:00 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860368846 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860370083 I would tell this person that the way they are speaking is not okay as it is found offensive to classmates. I would tell them why this is and encourage them to use tricks to break this habit.]]> 2021-11-02 02:22:32 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860370083 24rivetj1_1 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860370421 I would tell them that they may not be aware of it, but their comments could be hurtful to others and they're not creating a safe space for people who are gay or transgender. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:22:40 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860370421 24firths3 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860371034 I would hint out/tell them there that it's not a good thing to say. Then I would confront them in private later on to make sure they understand.]]> 2021-11-02 02:22:54 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860371034 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860375122 you should speak up and tell them that it is wrong to say those things. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:24:43 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860375122 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860375684 I would tell them to take a minute and reconsider their thoughts. Is it worth  proving their opinions or is it worth keeping peace. If they still keep talking, then I would tell them to lower their tone and keep quiet. ]]> 2021-11-02 02:24:59 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860375684 https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860378079 I don't know. I would, obviously, tell this friend that being gay is normal, but it is fully his/her responsibility to reveal their sexual identity. Also, I think, to normalize homosexuality we should stop thinking about it as a special trait. In the same way that I do not have to reveal that I'm straight a gay person shouldn't be sustaining this kind of unnatural pressure.]]> 2021-11-02 02:26:02 UTC https://padlet.com/jtremarco1/w8uxi4zl6wgf5y1t/wish/1860378079