EDU Vers. of Wed Sep'24 Cohort - Prac #3 - Which gentle drops could you share in these situations? by

EDU Vers. of Wed Sep'24 Cohort - Prac #3 - Which gentle drops could you share in these situations? by https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj en-us 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC 2025-07-03 23:34:29 UTC hello@padlet.com Aue! it sounds like you have had a very hard morning. It also sounds like our pēpi has been doing just her job. Do you know the whakatauki "tā te tamariki tāna mahi wāwahi tahā" meaning it is the job of our tamariki to smash the calabash. Kāo she isnt naughty but āe it can feel very frustrating. Let us take care of pēpi today while you have a break e hoa. ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180308 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180308 Ka pai Whaea Steph what a great kōrero. Āe I too have noticed the rough play. Lets center our learning plans and approach to this challenging behaviour with enhancing their mana and acknowledging their tapu and ensuring we are doing both as we plan our approach. ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180309 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180309 Our tamariki love to play. They are very curious and learn through touching and feeling as well. Did you know our tūpuna knew this and provided activities like we do for our tamariki in the kainga. How about we have some taretare kakahu for your pēpi while she plays and when she is done we change her back. ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180310 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180310 I have noticed that our kaiako are getting a bit frustrated and I can hear some yelling. I would like to look at some of our kōhanga tikanga to support them and also gently remind us all that our tūpuna never yelled at our tamariki. We know our pēpi are born with mana and tapu and as a team we should be respecting them. I would like support to further kōrero about this with our kaiako ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180311 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180311 "Tūpuna tāne were nurturing and carer pāpā for their whānāu - early explorers noticed how they were more often seen caring their pepi in a carrier, te pīkau, than māmā, and that they were 'excellent nurses', cleaning, cuddling and singing lullabies for their pepi. The colonial parenting ways introduced the idea of 'woman's work' and that children were to be seen and not heard. That was not our way before." ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180315 2025-03-11 05:19:57 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3360180315 Giving aroha - showing empathy. Never blaming pēpi. "Emphasise this is normal for pēpi" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361545139 2025-03-11 21:50:12 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361545139 Offering a coffee in our break room - hold space to kōrero with her ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361545760 2025-03-11 21:50:56 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361545760 "Channeling her inner Māui" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361547215 2025-03-11 21:53:08 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361547215 "Okay whiro!" ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361547423 2025-03-11 21:53:28 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361547423 Finding ways to support channeling big māui energy ashleighberryman https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361551405 2025-03-11 21:58:38 UTC https://padlet.com/tupunaparenting/w5o462e7fboxdrjj/wish/3361551405