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      <title>Interpersonal Bidding: Simple Secret to Improving your Relationships by Brittany Hochstaetter</title>
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      <description>Dr. John Gottman developed a groundbreaking theory about interpersonal bidding after 40 years of researching the question, “What separates relationship masters from relationship disasters?&quot; This technique of recognizing and responding to bids from those you care about will help you to immediately improve your relationships and signal to others how much you care.</description>
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      <pubDate>2023-01-04 14:45:49 UTC</pubDate>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>To begin, watch this introductory video by The Gottman Institute that explains relational bidding developed by Dr. John and Julie Gottman. Reflect on three questions-- what a bid for connection is (1), what are the two options a person can make after receiving a bid (2), and what the research indicates about long-term success for couples who respond more frequently to bids (3). *Closed Captioned; Transcript Available Upon Request</div>]]></description>
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         <title>Turn Towards vs. Away/Against</title>
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         <description><![CDATA[<div>Here's a Quick Example of a Bid and Different "Turns" or Responses to the Bids. Starting to see and feel the difference?<br>Photo Attribution from the following article: https://thepowermoves.com/emotional-connection-in-relationships</div>]]></description>
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         <title>Bidding Practice!: Read through and Practice Page 2&#39;s Examples with a Close Friend or Romantic Partner to Get the Hang of Turning Towards and to Feel the Difference of Turning Away</title>
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         <title>Video Workshop on Bidding</title>
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         <pubDate>2023-03-28 18:48:16 UTC</pubDate>
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         <pubDate>2024-09-05 21:20:38 UTC</pubDate>
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