https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m Main lenses and core beliefs en-us 2022-04-13 02:05:54 UTC 2026-03-04 17:35:59 UTC hello@padlet.com antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141768351 2022-04-13 02:12:14 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141768351 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141851131 2022-04-13 03:25:45 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141851131 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141851769 2022-04-13 03:26:22 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141851769 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141852730 1. three lenses are role lens, sociolegal lens, and biogenetic lens]]> 2022-04-13 03:27:26 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141852730 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141853065 1) Role lens
2) socio-legal lens
3) biogenetic lens


]]> 2022-04-13 03:27:48 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141853065 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141853936 3 lenses
1）religion
2）gender， role
3）language

most important：role is the most important part of the family,The roles make up the composition of the family 

the second is religion， Religious beliefs determine family values


]]> 2022-04-13 03:28:36 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141853936 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141855359 The core beliefs seem to all be interrelated. The belief we find most important is number 2: Each family must work, and at times struggle, to create its own identity as it experiences good and stressful times over many years. All family systems are influenced by the larger context in which they exist.]]> 2022-04-13 03:30:10 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141855359 antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141855623 From Antonia (Nina): Can we really look at family through a broad lens of gender? Yes, gender is certainly important as one factor but as an overall framework? 

]]> 2022-04-13 03:30:27 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141855623 antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141857433 From Antonia: Can you please discuss amongst yourselves which of these lenses would be more important for you? ]]> 2022-04-13 03:32:18 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141857433 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141857887 role is the most important, it is what people perceived as family. the second is the sociolegal, the third is the biogenetic lens]]> 2022-04-13 03:32:50 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141857887 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860785 We think role lens is the most important/relevant to us. Because we all believe that family can be formed without biological relations. Emotional connection is important for a family. ]]> 2022-04-13 03:35:38 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860785 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860834 2. We think the communication based points are most important - such as 3,4 & 8. Also number 1 is important - we agree that there is no, one, perfect way to be a family]]> 2022-04-13 03:35:41 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860834 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860931 Belief number 4 is important. Our family is an important support system in life and without communicating, we cannot support and understand one another. ]]> 2022-04-13 03:35:47 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141860931 antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141892275
You are going to talk about your family.
Look at the different ‘parts’ of family as a system (p. 10 'interdependence', 'wholeness' etc): which one(s) apply more and/or less to your family, how and why?]]> 2022-04-13 04:14:20 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141892275 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141904675 When I chat privately with my dad, I'm used to calling him by his first name. Because we are all tired of the cumbersome family etiquette in the family.   -haodong

for example： We are not accustomed to following the command of the elders to the younger. 
If l don't listen to them, it means I take unrespect]]> 2022-04-13 04:29:50 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141904675 antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141905381 From Antonia: As I mentioned, in my family the roles between parents and children were very clear (> 'complex relationships'): the parents on one side, the children on the other. There were also 'triangulation' of roles (e.g. my brother and I against my older sister...). Communication was characterised by openness, but only to a degree (e.g. certain topics were never talked about). Communication routines were very important (e.g. specific routines towards the older relatives that had to be respected). ]]> 2022-04-13 04:30:56 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141905381 antrubino10 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141906504 From Antonia: So interesting, Haodong! Interesting that you only do it in private. Is this because in public it would not be 'allowed'? ]]> 2022-04-13 04:32:34 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141906504 https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141912934 in my family, women share the secrets and be unity. the father is usually the outsider. (not seen wholeness as important). This led to the lack of openness of communication that father usually doesn't know what we really want if we refer one things as 'secret', cause misunderstanding and argument between.]]> 2022-04-13 04:41:47 UTC https://padlet.com/antrubino10/uxkk6iq61ezw7g1m/wish/2141912934