https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3 CW3 Language en-us 2017-03-12 03:43:54 UTC 2018-11-09 20:28:14 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468475 Amy Chua believes that herself and other chinese parents are allowed to verbally abuse their children to help them achieve what they can't. Verbally abusing children is seen as a common way of helping children achieving goals and targets set by their parents. However, what Amy Chua cannot seem to understand is that verbally abusing her children will lower their self esteem and will cause them to grow anger and hate towards the mother because they are being forced to do activities that are out of their interest or talent. Amy Chua calling her children "garbage" or worthless" does not set a good example for parenting. In addition to this, all it causes is lowering her children's self-esteem, which she doesn't seem to also care about. While Amy claims that its true, it offends western parents - since she's comparing her way to them. According to www.psychologytoday.com verbally abusing children will not help children achieve what they have been told to achieve, but instead will grow anger and hate towards the person forcing them to do the specific task. For example: Amy Chua forcing her daughters to play the piano and violin isn't going to help them like it or enjoy it. Children should not be forced to do activities that do not interest them in any way. Therefore, this angers me, amongst many others. Its a shameful way of approaching your children and this article should never have been published on your journal. The reason many are against this is because its the wrong thing to do and many support anti-abuse campaigns to stop people like Amy Chua.]]> 2017-03-12 04:20:31 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468475 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468485 Firstly, Amy Chua strongly believes that parents should be able to control their children's lives. That's because she thinks that parents know better for their children and that in this way, her kids would always be doing the right thing and never making a mistake. I disagree when Chua states that her daughters, Sophia and Louisa, were never allowed to be in a school play, go to a sleepover or pick which instrument they wanted to play. This is terribly wrong because people tend to learn from their mistakes, and if they've never done wrong, they would never know when to be praised because it is very continuous and dull. Not allowing your child to pick their choice of instrument is ridiculous because they should get a say in their life, and something so small could lead to immense problems later on. Studies show that over controlling parents cause lifelong psychological and mental damage, as well as causing attitude problems and obtaining a false self or losing individuality. ]]> 2017-03-12 04:20:40 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468485 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468507 According to your terrible article, you stated that Chinese parents are willing to discipline their children to the extreme in order to motivate them to work harder. The Chinese Mother referred to her daughter as "lazy, cowardly, self-indulgent and pathetic". As you can see here, this Chinese mother verbally attacked her own daughter in order to force her to complete a pointless play. I strongly believe that this type of behavior is unacceptable for any parent to tease and mock their children, let alone insulting them. According to physiology.com, parents who treat their children poorly lowers the children's self-esteem as well as their confidence. In this paragraph, I will utilize the persuasive techniques; --Anecdote: to create an emotional response.
-Emotive language; to have a greater emotional impact on the audience.

]]> 2017-03-12 04:21:17 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468507 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468511 In the article "why Chinese mothers are superior" the author Amy Chua believes that shaming and punishing the child will lead to success. Amy Chua stated in the article: " The solution to substandard performance is always to excoriate, punish and shame the child." The author firmly believes that criticising and embarrassing a child is the best way to be successful and is seen as a way of setting goals and objectives. I anticipate that the solution to substandard performance is encouraging caring, helping and loving the child. According to https://www.2knowmyself.com/The_effect_of_criticism_on_children criticising and shaming the child will cause the loss of confidence and will make the child feel worthless, which would cause a negative affect on his performance and may lead to the child having depression as well as stress. What Amy Chua does not understand is that ]]> 2017-03-12 04:21:23 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468511 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468524 I am disgusted with the article you wrote. I understand you, I understand that you want whats best for your children, but taking their childhood away and making them live like prisoners is disgusting. In the article you mentioned how you dont let them have a play date, or be in a school play, or choose their own extracurricular activities. Its like you gave birth to minions, you are controlling everything they do. Let's say when they grow up, they will be so dependent on you they won't even know what to do. They wont even know who they are because of how you are controlling them and that can cause depression, which can lead to suicide and I don't think you'll be happy visiting your children grave and wishing you could have gotten a second chance to improve on how you raised your kids. Let your kids make mistakes, let them do something wrong and learn from their mistakes, that's what growing up is all about. 
Getting an A every time isn't really necessary, most of todays billionaires or successful people failed many subjects and look at them, your kids mental health and happiness is what matters at the end of the day and so far your failing and your kids will hate you for that. ]]> 2017-03-12 04:21:58 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468524 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468530 In the article "Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior", Chua displays self-esteem as insignificant and irrelevant, and shouldn't be cared about when it comes to parenting. She indicates that "western parents worry a lot about their children's self-esteem". Self-esteem is highlighted as a negative point in her view. Children who feel like they're not liked by family or friends or who tend to believe their efforts will lead to failure have poor self-esteem. Self-esteem is one measure of a children's overall mental health meaning it is a massively important component in a child as it builds confidence and belief in them. About 20% of teens experience depression before they reach adulthood, this is mainly caused because of poor self-esteem. As an editor of such a respected journal, you must believe by now that Chua's points are unquestionably inaccurate and untrue.]]> 2017-03-12 04:22:17 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468530 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468532 It has come to my concern that Chua believes, it is acceptable to verbally and physically abuse her children as it would lead to their success. "The solution to substandard performance is always to excoriate, punish and shame the child". Chua portrays self- esteem as irrelevant and shouldn't be considered when it comes to parenting "Chinese parents assume strength, not fragility" However insulting your child, telling them they're "garbage", "pathetic" and "fat" is repugnant and repulsive. Your child's mental health and self-esteem should be put over everything, your self-esteem and level of confidence is the thing that makes you and structures to be able to survive in the human world. Degrading you child, and abusing them isn't the correct way to help them learn, they need motivation, encouragement, so they can believe they are capable of anything and everything, then allowing them to succeed more.  ]]> 2017-03-12 04:22:25 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468532 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468534 In the Article 'Why Chinese Mother's are Superior', Chua implies that a child's individuality is unnecessary for their success, "Everyone is special in their special own way,' children are special in their own special way," I mimicked sarcastically. "Even losers are special in their own special way."", Chua is clearly ignorant to the fact that every child has different capabilities and talents, and compares children to one another saying that if one child does not reach the same success as another the child is a Loser. Chua even goes to the extent of verbally abusing her children to mold them into her fantasy child, emotionally deteriorating them to achieve her satisfaction. When her child, Lulu, was 7 years old, it is said that she was practicing a song for a recital. Supposedly the song is difficult making the pianist play different rhythms for each hand. After a week and a day before her recital, Lulu gave up, Chua forced her child to play, "Get back to the piano now," I ordered.", and thus Lulu acted physically, destroying the music score, "She punched thrashed and kicked. She grabbed the music score and tore it to shreds". This method of teaching obviously evokes a physical response in Lulu, and any child who acts to physically harm or to physically destroy, whether it be an object or living being, is obviously a sign that something is wrong, Chua is clearly careless and wants to satisfy her wants and stays ignorants of her child's opinions. Later o]]> 2017-03-12 04:22:36 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468534 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468578 It has come to my attention that in the article "why Chinese mothers are superior" the author Amy Chua believes that it is acceptable to not even consider her childs preferences. It is simply preposterous to set aside a childs passion; this completely unacceptable. Amy chua states that her children cannot participate in school plays or even "complain about not being in a school play" This behaviour is appalling. This practice of not taking into account whether or not allowing your kids to make their own decisions or even pursue what they love is absurd. http://momitforward.com/ expresses that for a child to learn to be responsible, they must learn how to make decisions for themselves. Do you really think that making all the choices for a child (even as small as what instruments they can or cannot play) will aid the child to mature? ]]> 2017-03-12 04:23:30 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468578 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468601 My name is Omar, and I have some concerns about an article that had been published on your website called ''Why Chinese Mother's are Superior''
According to article Amy Chua, stated that It would be better if parents would swear, and insult their children for decibels, and behaviour, so they can make their children motivated and work hard. 
I think that Chinese mother shouldn't insult their children, because it might mental effecting them, and  letting the child to think the wrong idea, that  he is an descries for his family, thinking that, since his parents are insulting him, the child might get the wrong idea, and might cause an the child to have an unhealthy relationship with his parrents]]> 2017-03-12 04:24:25 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468601 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468603 Amy Chua believes that insulting her daughter is key for discipline and motivation. Using verbal aggression, trying to motivate them and teach them discipline is not the way they can learn. However, I think insulting your child will not help but make it worse. Amy Chua state's in the article "why Chinese Mothers Are Superior" that her daughter is "garbage" and "worthless", that does not set a good example of parenting, parents are supposed to be role models for their children while developing. it is scientifically proven that if you use verbal aggression towards a child it might affect their psychological and emotional development. Also if you insult your child it lowers their child's self-esteem and may cause bad relationships with their parents]]> 2017-03-12 04:24:28 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468603 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468715 Amy Chua believes that verbal abuse is acceptable for children development. The thought of a mother insulting her child and making rude remarks is not what a parent should do, I believe a parent should not motivate their child by insulting them but encouraging them instead. Amy told her daughter to stop "being lazy, cowardly, self indulgent and pathetic". according to healthy place, "the psychological effects of verbal abuse include; fear and anxiety, depression, stress and PTSD. It is inhumane to call a child pathetic or self indulgent, you should never insult a child whether he or she is yours or not it is selfish and disgusting advice that shouldn't be accepted today's society. A Child will not be motivated if the parent shows hateful and negative behavior, not only will this affect the child tremensely making them resentful of their parents.]]> 2017-03-12 04:27:36 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/159468715 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/160168543 edewe]]> 2017-03-15 07:37:34 UTC https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/160168543 https://padlet.com/sdonegan/cw3/wish/302763850 pussy drop top hop scotch penis in your ass
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