Mitt storslagna glöde by Judit Freiman LI 8D2 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb Gjord med munterhet en-us 2019-09-20 07:20:09 UTC 2023-02-14 02:03:32 UTC hello@padlet.com RELATIONS(FRIENDS AND FAMILY) 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025618 LISA
We all have different relations with different people. 
The type of relation we have is also different, it could be love, friends,  a weak or strong relation. When we grow up our relations to others change. We stop talking to certain people and sometimes we lose them entirely. 

But in some cases when we lose the relation with someone they come back after a while, because when you're a teenager you sometimes lose track of who you are, and if you don't know who you are it's hard being in a relation. But once you found yourself again you can go back.
But as we grow up we also meet tons of new people and create a lot of new relations that leads to our first love, and bestfriends that lasts forever.

Growing up a lot of things happen, everything from emotions to homework gets overwhelming at some point. So sometimes it happens that we push people away.
The reason why we isolate ourselves is because we are scared that people around us won't understand what we're feeling so we stop talking to our parents and friends about how we feel and what we are going through.]]> 2019-09-20 07:20:33 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025618 SELFESTEEM 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025638 LISA
Your  selfesteem is a big part of who you are, how you walk and the way you talk.
When you enter your teenage years you become more and more self conscious about yourself and your body.  
Seeing everyone around you being able to do things you are to afraid to do is a part of having low- selfesteem. 
Having low-selfesteem can make it hard for you to make friends and reach out to others.
It's like you're stuck in a bubble that you can't pop. And the process of popping that bubble is different from person to person. 
It takes  time and a lot courage to being able to pop that bubble but once you do and your out of it you will be proud of yourself and the process that you've made.

There could be many reasons why people have low-selfesteem.
  • you could've been bullied and put down by others.
  • or maybe it's really hard for you to make friends.
  • or your mental state is making you look down on you and the way you look.

Teenagers today are used to just laying down in bed with their phones all day without realising the impact it makes on them.
When we spend hours looking at photos of "the perfect body" and " the pefect lifestyle" we start to judge ourselves and the way we look based on photos and videos on the internet that's usally fake and not at all their reality. 
We put ourselves down beacuse we don't live  and look like them, without even realising that none of it is real.
]]> 2019-09-20 07:20:36 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025638 PUBERTY 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025713 JUDIT - Q AND A(QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS)

QUESTION 1: "Hi, my name is Anna and I´m sixteen years old and i haven't gotten my first period yet. All of my friends have it and I just feel uncomfortable too talk about it with them. I can´t relate too any of their problems. Even my little sister had got it and she is like two years younger than me. Is that normal?" 

ANSWER 1: Hi Anna! At the age your period starts depends from person to person. It is often between the age 12 to 14. But It is not uncommon that your period starts later on so you don´t need to worry at all. Maybe one of your friends got it at an early age and felt different for that.

QUESTION 2: "I´m Gabriel and I got a issue and it´s about my girlfriend. She is pressuring me to have sex. I have told her that I don´t want to several times but she continues to nag and she doesn´t accept my answer. I don´t know, it feels like that´s all she wants. But I don´t know if I´m ready? What should I say to her and what should I do about the situation?"

ANSWER 2: Hi Gabriel! It is obvious that you don´t need to have sex if you don´t feel for it. And your girlfriend have to learn a lot of stuff. It´s always important that your girlfriend or anyone else asks for consent, that goes for you too. Tell her about your opinios and feelings for this and try to speak honestly, then I think she will understand.

QUESTION 3: "I´m Jack and I´m in ninth grade. It feels like all of my friends have had sex, except me. What should I do?"

ANSWER 3: Hi Jack, I understand your situation. For the first, just because your friends say it, it doesn´t have to be true. Someone of your friends may have lied about it because they want to fit in. But remember, the age is different for everyone when they have sex for the first time. And It´s not wrong if you are later on it than everyone else. Your body knows if you are comfortable or if you are ready for it. Therefore, do not force yourself to do it. Otherwise, you may experience some of these problems;

¤ Hard to get horny
¤ Harder to enjoy the sex generally

So DO NOT force yourself just because you want to fit in. 

QUESTION 4: "I´m Becky and I´m a ordinary, funny and happy girl but Iam constantly living with insecurities with my body and It´s appearance. I´ve had stretchmarks on my thighs and stomach since I was thirteen, and I feel so uncomfortable changing in the dressing room in fornt of my friends. What should I do?"

ANSWER 4: Hi Becky! Stretchmarks has 90% of all women in the world and It´s nothing to be ashamed of. It is a sign that you are growing and developing. There is nothing to be worried about. 
]]> 2019-09-20 07:20:51 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025713 EATING DISORDER 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025734 JUDIT - BIANCA INGROSSO - ABOUT HER BULIMIA

There are several different types of eating disorders. People with eating disorders is often uncomfortable and have insecurities about their weight. They think the solution is to eat less but at last it leads to starvation.

Bianca Melina Elisabeth Wahlgren Ingrosso is a 24 year old swedish blogger(Influencer) and media personality. She is daughter of Pernilla Wahlgren who is a swedish actor and singer. Bianca is known from social media and has over one million followers at Instagram. She is also known from the program "Wahlgrens värld"  which is a reality series about her and her familys everyday life. She has been open about her bulimia for several years and have included it in the program.

She has also talked about it in the program "Skavlan" in Norway earlier this year. She is open to  her followers and fans about what she goes through in life and how she feels. She mentions that she works too hard ,something that has led to her panic attacks.

- "I can eat a salad and I get anxiety for it. I struggle every day with thoughts like: can I go to that restaurant? And I don´t want to eat with those people because they have too much control over me. I have too much control over my food so it ends with me spewing it out."

It started with her comparing with herself to others in high school. She compared her body with slimmer girls and began to get bodycomplex. Once she had stomachsickness and lost weight and  felt more better and she got a better selfesteem with the "new body". So she started too throw up the food she ate to turn down the anxiety. It has become like a behavior. 

There are fans who thinks that she speaks positively about this. Like it´s okey to throw up the food and that she encourages to eat less. But she is also helping many girls who are in the same situation, in the program she met a fan and gave her advice. She has shown that eating disorders are normal and that no one is alone about it. ]]> 2019-09-20 07:20:56 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387025734 SEX 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387026270 WILMA - ABOUT SEX
Sex is something  most young people have. It's something that can worry a lot about how it might go or if it will hurt. My opinion on the topic of sex is that you should test it but you need to know more about it first. If you don't know more about it, a lot of things can accour that you may not want to happen for exemple, if you do not use a condom then you can both sexually transmitted diseases like klamydia and you can become a parent at a early age or in a stage in your life where you are not ready for a child.

Both parties must want to have sex. If you dont want to you have to say that you don´t want to hav sex whit him/her.  If the person your having sex with no longer wants to  its illegal to force yourself onto them becuse you no longer have their consent.

The first time is somthing many teenagers worry about. ]]> 2019-09-20 07:22:45 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387026270 CHILDHOOD AND TRAUMA 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387031225 LAURETA - A CHRONICLE
If you look around in your classroom you might think you know your classmates and how they are and what they have been going thru. But the truth is that people can hide curtain things and feelings that they don't want others to know. 

They can feel upset over things they have been going thru during their childhood. 
Trauma is something many kids and teenagers have been thru and are going thru right now. And it is something that effects peoples personality, characther and even their lifes negative. How you raise and care for your children affects their childhood and their future. 

How you raise your children can have a negative impact on their future, for example it can affect how you are as a person, it can affect ons's behavior, it can affect people around you with your behaviors and it can even affect how you will raise and care for your children yourself. 

Trauma is something you can get of different reasons such as bad childhood, of horrible events you have been ivolved in life such as rapes and many other reasons. Trauma can affect people in many different ways, positions and situations. It can affect in a serious way, dangerous way, stupid way and it can even lead people to imagination things and people can get paranoid.
Trauma can lead people end their lifes, get depression, anxiety, suicidal, compensantion behavior and many other dangerous thoughts, feelings and events. 

A bad childhood doesn't have to mean that you will yourself become bad and act bad towards other, it can instead learn you how to not act like, be like or think like  towards other. It can make you a stronger, healthier and a kinder person because of what you have been thruh and because of that you know how it feels and don't want to give or betray others like you got betrayde.  


]]> 2019-09-20 07:38:52 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387031225 ROLE MODELS AND SOCIAL MEDIA 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387035007 LAURETA  - AN ARTICLE - ARIANA GRANDE -  ABOUT HER CAREER

Ariana Grande born June 26, 1993 in Boca Ratona in Florida, is an American singer, songwriter and actress that is an role model and an inspiration to many young kids. Her career as an actress began from 2010 until 2013 as well known from the Disney Chanel and Nickelodien as the character Cat Valentine in the serie Victorious and also as the character Cat Valentine from the serie Sam & Cat. 

But in March 2013, she struck out as a singer with the song "The way" from the debut album Yours truly, which also led her talents for televison got noted.
In 2014, she realeased her hit song "Problem" from her albume "My everything" which became the year when she broke through in the music industry.  

Ariana Grande has done many things for her fans and still even do many things for them. That's why many of her fans love her and sees her as an rolemodel and an inspiration. She has been very open about her ongoing struggles with PTSD,  depression, anxiety and grief. Even though it has been hard for her to open up about the avalanche of emotions she often suffers she still opens up about it to her fans hoping that they can benefit from hearing her experiences. ]]> 2019-09-20 07:50:59 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387035007 A MAGAZINE BY JUDIT, LISA, LAURETA AND WILMA 040418jf01 https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387036823 2019-09-20 07:56:45 UTC https://padlet.com/040418jf01/usy98mfztrhb/wish/387036823