https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9 What is ONE rule that your family or society taught you that you either never understood or challenged? en-us 2023-09-05 00:32:02 UTC 2023-09-05 14:00:27 UTC hello@padlet.com esthercritiau https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2683925047 Rule: if you are around someone who is older than you, you cannot express your opinions because those who are older "know best." If you attempt to express your thoughts/opinions around them, you are deemed to be "disrespectful."]]> 2023-09-05 00:33:42 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2683925047 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684216486 Leila Abuhamdah
The rule that my family taught me was to be patient.]]> 2023-09-05 04:10:16 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684216486 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684571530 my family taught me to keep your true emotions close to your chest and never let anyone else know; like a weapon. I have never understood or adhered to this however ]]> 2023-09-05 08:53:06 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684571530 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684938527 Don’t open umbrellas indoors they welcome death somehow…]]> 2023-09-05 13:48:53 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684938527 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684940489 Don't refuse food from someone who is older than you. it is considered rude. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:04 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684940489 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941305 Women cannot leave their family home until they are married (to a man)]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:30 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941305 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941343 Don't trust lawyers, they're rats - my father]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:32 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941343 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941569 Do not go to bed with wet hair, for you will catch a cold.]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:40 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941569 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941594 Girls can’t be friends with boys. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:41 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941594 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941929 We better not to argue with parents, grandparents, teachers, and others who are older and have powers. My parents taught me this because they told me that is the way to show my respect and they always know what is better for me. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:52 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684941929 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942112 One rule growing up, which was mainly instilled by my grandparents, was no drinks with dinner and elbows off the table.]]> 2023-09-05 13:50:59 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942112 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942375 My grandma always says that whenever you leave your house (even when you take out the trash) you have to look presentable so that your neighbors don’t talk badly about you. I never understood this, so I never abided by it.]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:08 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942375 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942468 Treat every person you meet with due respect]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:11 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942468 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942680 Obey your mother ]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:20 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942680 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942710 In society we were taught to not talk back to people who were older than us, even if they were rude. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:21 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942710 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942813 Don’t live with someone before you marry them ]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:25 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942813 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942831 If your feet are swept by a broom, you will never marry.]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:26 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942831 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942897 Something my family, culture, and society has posed that I’ve never understood or challenged is the idea of no guys. This rule consists of guy friends, guys at school, a guy you may like or sometimes even guy cousins. This confuses me because the way in which and when  we must get married do not align with the guidelines of this rule.]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:28 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942897 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942968 Don’t sleep in front of a mirror because it will let in bad energy or spirits ]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:30 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684942968 jcortez2020 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943077 Rule: Don’t walk alone even down the street because you are a young girl.]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:34 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943077 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943149 don’t eat beef]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:35 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943149 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943845 You should only be three places in your childhood, school, church and home. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:51:58 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684943845 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684945873 One thing I was taught was to always have an ID on you just incase the police dose a stop and frisk  and have 3 numbers you know by heart so you can get help. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:52:58 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684945873 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684945935 Guests are not expected to arrive on time for parties and usually don’t eat dinner until at least 10:00pm. We are also expected to know how to dance to our music as a native.]]> 2023-09-05 13:53:00 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684945935 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684946095 You can't go over to friends houses]]> 2023-09-05 13:53:06 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684946095 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684948073 Don’t sleep with the fan on with the doors and windows closed, as it can result in a health problem. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:54:16 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684948073 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684948081 Not to express contrary opinions around certain people, especially not family]]> 2023-09-05 13:54:16 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684948081 zamelrowmein https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684949191 yemen,respect the elderly]]> 2023-09-05 13:54:54 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684949191 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684949952 A rule that I was taught but never understood was probably not to wash or cut my hair on my birthday and Chinese New Year because if I did any of that, I would get bad luck next year. My reaction wasn’t really a reaction, it was more like I didn’t know it was a thing. ]]> 2023-09-05 13:55:19 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684949952 https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684958602 "Your friends will take you but they won't bring you back," was the saying my mother lived by. She believes to never fully trust or rely on your friends, especially in a public setting because they won't be reliable or keep you safe]]> 2023-09-05 14:00:27 UTC https://padlet.com/esthercritiau/uqcl8w4m1r7ftal9/wish/2684958602