MY BUILDING RELATIONSHIPS ASSIGNMENT by Raman

MY MOTHER:)

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 02:07:13 UTC

My first relationship was with my mother which is the purest. And I learned a lot of things from this relationship. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. I was securely attached to my mother. I felt safe and secure with my mother. I believe that as long as my mom is with me, no one can scare me, no one can defeat me. Whenever I would feel lonely or sad, I was always searching for her. In those situations, she used to calm me. Once my emotions burst out, I would feel good. When I told her about my mistakes, she never judged me and carefully listened to me. So, I never felt like hiding things from her. Her warm hug is the world's best feeling. As a child, I always felt like she would save me from all the problems or individuals behaving badly to me. During my exams, when I felt nervous, she told me " I believe in you, you will do good, there is nothing to be scared of in exams, you will do well, I am with you". Her words would fill confidence in me.

I do not have so many relationships in my life but the few which I have are best and they taught me so many things. I believe in quality not in quantity. Those close ones are my parents, my brother, my aunt (my second mother) and teachers from my school and college. Now, I felt like TRUST AND TRUTHFULNESS ARE FOUNDATIONS OF RELATIONSHIPS.

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 02:19:06 UTC

MY AUNT (SECOND MOTHER), MY MAMIJI

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 18:17:48 UTC

My aunt is my second mother. She can read things from my eyes and body language, that what is going on in my heart. Whenever I hide something from her, she gets to know everything from my behavior. The love she gave me forced me to love her more than I love my mother. I love and respect her a lot. When I made some mistakes in childhood, she never got angry with me instead, she tried to find the reasons why I made that mistake and she understood my situation. I always knew that she would never be angry with me for my mistakes, I never felt hesitation to tell her anything, and I knew that she would act calmly. Whenever I used to visit her home, the first thing she always did was come to me, and give me a big tight hug. Even now, when I cannot figure out what I should do in a particular situation, I always approach her and my inner feeling knows that she will help me to come out of the problem. She always told me about the lessons that she learned from her life. She even helped me with mathematics and developed my interest in this subject. I became restless when I could not see her. I share everything with her. She made me feel that I was special to her and my presence affected her. I got affected by very small things and she was aware of it. She knows my temperament and my sensitive nature, she tries to react in a warm way so that I do not get hurt and also makes me realize my mistake.

MY SWEET LITTLE BROTHER

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 18:22:14 UTC

bnuHe is one of those individual whom I love the most. I am her second mother. I treat her like my own child. I cannot see him in tears and can do anything to bring a smile to his face. When he was scared of telling his mistakes to Mom and Dad, he always came to me and would request me to fix his mistakes. He always knew that my sister would save me from Mom and Dad's anger when he made terrible mistakes at home. In school, when children used to behave badly with him, he would share his feelings with me. I always tried to make him strong and brave. I told him that he should never get scared of anyone as his sister is with him in the school, I would complain about them to the teacher. When he was scared of anything, I gave him physical comfort and talked to him about what was making him upset, these things would calm him down. He trusted me a lot because he knew if he would share anything with me, I would keep it a secret and would try my best to help him. When his teachers would appreciate that he was doing very well in his studies, I felt so good. His achievement is mine and we used to celebrate his achievements together. Now, that he started playing games, I always motivate him that he will do good. I believe that motivation gives children the confidence to accomplish their goals.

My teachers from School

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 19:11:35 UTC

I believe teachers are our second parents. After parents, they are the ones who teach us everything. I had so many memories with my teachers. In the junior classes, if the teacher could remember our names, we would feel over the moon. Before the exams, when the teacher would wish us good luck, we felt so motivated. My English teacher, Miss Shazia was very nice. I was very close to her. When I was stressed about anything and was not focusing on my studies, she would call me and ask me if something was upsetting me. At parent-teacher meetings in the school, she would talk to my parents very warmly and ask about their well-being. Even if in the shopping malls, we coincidently meet, she would talk very nicely to my parents. There she would ask about my behavior at home from my parents. If my parents needed to talk to her before or after school time, she would always pick up the call and understand that something is important if they want to talk to me at this time. She would always smile and greet while meeting children and their families. Even now, she considers me as her child and asks how my study is going. She always motivates me to keep going in life. She always taught me to be a good human being and help everyone. She was also very kind to everyone and was never rude to even a single person. She modeled kindness and empathy.

MY PROFESSORS IN THE COLLEGE

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 20:44:02 UTC

I had an incident at my placement, at first I was scared to tell my professor but when I told her everything what happened, and how. She responded very calmly and positively to my situation. I got emotional and she even hugged me to soothe my feelings. She talks to me in a way that I am important to her. She calmly listened to me and understood my perspective. I was feeling so relaxed. And she gave me assurance that I am with you.

my friend!!!!

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-24 20:54:19 UTC

I think building relationships takes time, they cannot be built within a blink of an eye. Relationships need to see various hard times. I had both sweet and bitter experiences with my friend. Trust is the building block of our relationship. I know she is trustworthy, she would help in difficult times. Sometimes, our viewpoints are different, we disagree on some things, and these things create cracks in our relationships. But after arguments, we openly communicate where things go wrong and we try to understand each other perspective, open communication helps a lot. Sometimes, forgiving each other is a good option. When one of us is feeling lonely, the other one would give a shoulder and would console the other. During hard times, we support each other. She is very straightforward, I told her so many times that she needs to change this habit. She hurt me and others with this behavior. I explained to her that this is not good, You need to change this behavior. The other thing that I learned from this relationship is being truthful and transparent in every situation. We never share things with others which must be between us.

CONNECTIONS TO THE CONTENT

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-25 01:57:12 UTC

My mother defines the role of early childhood education by being protective and providing a safe environment for me. She developed trust in me. She always assures me that she is always there for me. This relationship made me feel that I am cared for and understood (Davis, 2023, Class.5, p.5).
My teacher, Miss Shazia gained the trust of my parents by talking to them at the school meetings. She would ask my parents about my habits at home. She was reading cues when I was stressed and responded to those cues in a caring way (Davis, 2023, Class.5, p.7).
My aunt would gave me physical comfort when I felt lonely or sad. She used to view things from my perspective. She respected my need to express my feelings. She adapts the interaction according to my temperament (Davis, 2023, Class.5, p.8). She would respond calmly and positively to me. She would understood non-verbal communication (Davis, 2023, Class.5, p.15).

CONNECTIONS

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-25 02:17:29 UTC

I always reacted calmly, positively, and with patience to my brother's needs. Made him feel that I was there for him. Always comforts him when he is not feeling good. I spent time playing and interacting with him (Davis, 2023, class.5, p.7).
My teacher, Miss Shazia was very kind, had positive body language, friendly while meeting children's families (Davis, 2023, class.6, p.11). She used to greet every child by his name (Davis, 2023, class.6, p.6).

My relationship with my close ones teaches the roles of an ECE like being caring, model positive body language, being friendly, always smiling, model kindness, understanding child's perspective, giving children physical comfort, provide them safe environment to explore the world, responding calmly to their needs, learning more about them from their families.

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-25 03:04:06 UTC

MY VOICE RECORDING 1

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-25 03:36:23 UTC

MY VOICE RECORDING 2

rdeepdhaliwal39 — 2023-10-25 03:48:37 UTC