Effective responses to language and behaviors that are negative or inappropriate by Elizabeth Fierst https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk Share what's worked! What statements and comments have you found or heard useful? en-us 2018-12-07 07:24:00 UTC 2018-12-07 16:42:36 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305426 We don’t speak that way here 

]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:17 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305426 watch your language https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305514 2018-12-07 16:39:28 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305514 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305540 Call it out, redirect. Explain that school isn't the place for it]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:32 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305540 You're better than that https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305611 2018-12-07 16:39:40 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305611 Showing in your body language that you're shocked https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305624 2018-12-07 16:39:41 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305624 GentleLadyBug https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305684 Often only takes a look from me, then student apologizes and we move on]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:49 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305684 kearneyd https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305714 Recognizing without condemning ]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:52 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305714 estrellaj https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305718 In this environment, this is not appropriate language to use]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:52 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305718 Students congregating in hallway https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305737 Use names of students kindly. Ask about something else unrelated to where they should be. Then redirect.]]> 2018-12-07 16:39:54 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305737 1:1 conversations https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305804 2018-12-07 16:40:02 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305804 Do you feel shame about [sexual reference]? https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305810 2018-12-07 16:40:03 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305810 GentleLadyBug https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305854 If I hear it, but don't know who said it, "Please don't say ________ in this classroom.]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:06 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305854 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305916 Please don’t use that’s language it doesn’t make us feel safe ]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:13 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305916 The language you use is a negative connotation https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305927 2018-12-07 16:40:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305927 giving examples of why it's inappropriate and relating it to their own lives https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305949 2018-12-07 16:40:17 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305949 calling it out https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305982 2018-12-07 16:40:20 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312305982 Take them to fitness lab or have them run laps https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306100 2018-12-07 16:40:35 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306100 That's not a way to get someone's attention. https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306123 2018-12-07 16:40:37 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306123 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306126 Address that it is unwanted, please stop. Could be considered sexual harassment

]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:38 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306126 calling it out https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306153 2018-12-07 16:40:41 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306153 kearneyd https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306202 Acknowledging level of stress asking them to think of what has changed for them

]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:47 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306202 Students in hallway cutting class https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306215 Take out phone and take a picture]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:49 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306215 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306219 Go ballistic ]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:49 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306219 Do you realize you could be hurting someone https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306220 2018-12-07 16:40:50 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306220 Get them to stay in the classroom. Listen to what is frustrating them, talk about how they're feeling. Then get them to stay in the classroom. https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306263 2018-12-07 16:40:53 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306263 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306297 Tier 1 respond well to simple verbal prompt 

]]> 2018-12-07 16:40:58 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306297 time and place..not appropriate https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306317 2018-12-07 16:41:00 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306317 “Even if you’re playing it makes everyone else feel unsafe” https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306327 2018-12-07 16:41:01 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306327 Do you realize that's considered offensive? https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306376 2018-12-07 16:41:06 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306376 GentleLadyBug https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306415 Time and place discussion.]]> 2018-12-07 16:41:11 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306415 T https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306420 I have seen a better side from your behavior]]> 2018-12-07 16:41:12 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306420 Call it out as inappropriate. https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306429 2018-12-07 16:41:13 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306429 Break their eye contact, move them away https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306448 2018-12-07 16:41:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306448 It is a form of violence when you use racially hateful language like that. https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306450 2018-12-07 16:41:14 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306450 they don't know what they're talking about half the time https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306460 2018-12-07 16:41:16 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306460 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306516 “Do you know what that word means- that offends ME- what are you trying to say instead of that word” ]]> 2018-12-07 16:41:22 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306516 estrellaj https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306595 Naming the behavior, then sharing it can be hurtful to the other student. Discuss about previous experience or how they are doing today.


]]> 2018-12-07 16:41:31 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306595 naming the difference between profession and academic language and casual language https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306670 2018-12-07 16:41:40 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306670 Call it out. Our overall response to protect lgbt youth and our students awareness is sub par and frankly ironic considering where we live. If it’s this bad here... https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306673 2018-12-07 16:41:41 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306673 Addressing right away https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306687 2018-12-07 16:41:42 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306687 https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306713 I tell them that 1. it's inappropriate and 2. I have no problem calling their parent/family member of opposite sex and letting them know exactly what they were saying in class]]> 2018-12-07 16:41:45 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306713 Explain the severity to them https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306905 2018-12-07 16:42:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306905 GentleLadyBug https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306914 Used new Flocabulary video Perspectives on Race for classroom discussion and student feedback]]> 2018-12-07 16:42:07 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312306914 letting kids know that this behavior has the potential to escalate https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307019 2018-12-07 16:42:19 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307019 are you a bully?..that's bullying https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307026 2018-12-07 16:42:19 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307026 "Do you understand what you're saying?" https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307085 2018-12-07 16:42:24 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307085 How are you doing today?Are you having a bad day? estrellaj https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307094 2018-12-07 16:42:25 UTC https://padlet.com/fierste1/uopeyof98ydk/wish/312307094