https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h 1. How is ultra-independence a trauma response? 2. Put the idea of ultra-independence in your own words. 3. How does this relate to the ideas we've discussed on individualism? Is independence always a good thing? en-us 2020-09-25 13:28:25 UTC 2020-09-25 14:27:59 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f465.png masterythomasmccullough https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779123689 The inability to receive support is a trauma response. 

Your "I don't need anyone, I'll just do it myself" conditioning is a survival tactic. You needed it to shield your mind and heart from abuse, neglect, disappointment from those who could not or would not be there for you.

Ultra-independence is a trust issue.

You learned: if I don't put myself in a situation where I rely on someone,  I won't have to be disappointed when they drop the ball - because they will always drop the ball sooner or later, right?

The good news is trauma that is acknowledged is trauma that can be healed. 

You are worthy of having support.
You are worthy of having a true partnership.
You are worthy of love.
You are worthy of having your heart held.
You are worthy to be adored. 
You are worthy to be cherished.

You are worthy.]]> 2020-09-25 13:28:33 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779123689 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779297566 1) Ultra-independence is a trauma response because you will feel lonely and betrayed by other people.
2) Ultra-independence is a issue because you have to experience the independence part where nobody helps you out.
3)This relates to the ideas we've discussed on individualism because your doing things on your own and you will feel lonely.
4)I think independence is not always a good thing but it is a good experience for you to go through though so you don't have to depend on people all the time.]]> 2020-09-25 14:09:03 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779297566 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779297997 1. Its a trauma response because you become ultra- independent because you attempted to trust and depend on someone, but when it came time they let you down. 2. you tried it once whomever they failed you then you thought you couldn't let it happen again. 3. it relate to individualism because you only depending on your self and feel somewhat lonely. 4. I think individuality is a great I promote, because when depend on someone or people their easily can disappoint you, but if you know what makes you happy that's all that matter ]]> 2020-09-25 14:09:10 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779297997 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779298147 1.ultra-independence is a trauma response because it’s from abuse neglection and disappointment you had in the pass 
2.the idea of ultra independence is some people are independent because where they come from they have been neglected by people and they failed to trust anyone and be /feel happy again but it can be healed 
3. It relates to individualism because you only want to be by yourself and depend on nobody and never count on nobody but yourself 
4.Independence is not always a good thing but sometimes it is ]]> 2020-09-25 14:09:12 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779298147 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779298355 1. ultra-independence is  a trauma response is because you don't try anyone but yourself.
2. ultra-independence is the is a issue of believing with others. you can be felt bet betrayal by other. you wont feel happy and you promise yourself that you'll never go back again.
3. its because you are worthy and ]]> 2020-09-25 14:09:16 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779298355 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779301009 1) Ultra-independence is a trauma response because you believe that it's better to work alone and that if you trust other people you will only to be betrayed. 
2) Ultra-independence is an instinct/feeling to not trust someone you believe that will be a fake person/ like using you.
3)I relates to individualism because you believe that you are alone and and always depending on yourself.
4) I think independence isn't always good because there are things in the future you can't do yourself.

]]> 2020-09-25 14:09:55 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779301009 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779301835 1. ultra-independence is a trauma response from childhood trauma
2.]]> 2020-09-25 14:10:05 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779301835 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779305619 1. Ultra-Independence where you stop allowing other into your life.
2. ]]> 2020-09-25 14:10:58 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779305619 https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779337344 2020-09-25 14:18:24 UTC https://padlet.com/masterythomasmccullough/u9hjpqv099hrdp1h/wish/779337344