Remake of When Love Hurts by Subashini Varlivell https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p en-us 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC 2023-07-06 00:25:30 UTC hello@padlet.com Your friend has been acting strangely recently, ever since his girlfriend and him were more serious aboutthe relationship. He always needs to ask her if he can go out with you and whenever you manage tomake plans with him, he will cancel with excuses. You notice that he has stopped talking to his friends,especially female friends, even the ones he has been friends with since primary school. Last week, younoticed some bruises on his arm during a PE lesson, and he told you some vague story about him gettinghurt in a basketball game. Today, you saw a few more bruises and evenscratches on his thigh which he couldn’t quite explain. You also feelthat your friend is no longer the cheerful person he was, and he haswithdrawn himself from his usual circle of friends. You ask him ifthere is anything wrong but he claims that everything is okay. subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020149 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020149 You notice that your best friend has been posting very sad or moody posts on her social media and decideto ask her about it. She finally confides in you but tells you to keep it a secret. She is upset as her boyfriendmakes fun and embarrasses her whenever her friends are around. He calls her names even though shedoes not like it and forces her to engage in physical intimacy with him. He threatens to break up with heror hurt her if he is not getting his way. She usually ends up in tears and he just laughs it off when she triesto talk to him about it, saying that she is just being sensitive. You worry about her safety and advised herto break up with her boyfriend. However, she feels that she should give him a chance to change. She alsomentions how her parents do not know of this relationship and that her boyfriend knows where she staysand can easily find her if she avoids him. subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020151 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020151 1. Read the scenario assigned to your group subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020152 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020152 2. Discuss the following questions within your group and type your responses by adding a new post below your assigned scenario: subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020153 1. Is this relationship healthy or unhealthy? Why? 
2. How do you think your friend is feeling in this relationship? Should your friend end this relationship? Why?
3.Why might it be difficult for your friend to end the relationship? What could he/she do to end the relationship in a safe manner? What are his/her sources of help?
4. If your friend chooses to end this unhealthy relationship, what are some healthy ways to cope with the breakup?
5. As a friend, would you find it difficult to intervene? Why?  What could you say or do to help? 

]]> 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020153 Your friend found out that he was accepted into the course of his choice for next year. He was veryexcited and told his family and friends the good news. Everyone, including his teachers, was proud ofhis achievement and encouraged him to go for it. However, when he told his girlfriend, she said, “I don’tknow why you are getting so excited. I honestly don’t think you will do well there. And this course is sodemanding, it is just going to take time away from us.” Your friend has not exactly been the best studentin school, and he tried really hard for the past year to improve his grades. This was not the first time hisgirlfriend has discouraged him and made negative remarks on his academic abilities; sometimes she doesso even in front of his friends. However, he wonders if his girlfriend is right because he believes that sheknows him best. Recently, you notice that he is rather moody and has stopped talking about the course.When you ask him about it, he said he no longer has any interest in pursuing it, as he thinks he will not dowell there anyway. subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020154 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020154 Your friend has been trying to break up with her boyfriend forweeks now as she feels that he is being overly controlling.However, every time she tells him that she wants to break up,he will get very upset and threaten to hurt himself. He alsokeeps calling and texting her in the middle of the night toconvince her not to break up. Other friends have told her“Who cares? Just break up with him!” but she does careabout him. After all, there were happy memories in thisrelationship. Your friend definitely wants to step away fromthis relationship, but at the same time, she does not want himto hurt himself. She feels trapped with her boyfriend because of his threats and his constant messagesand calls. Your friend has not been sleeping well because of this and has difficulties concentrating in class. subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020155 2023-07-05 22:37:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639020155 How does a healthy relationship…look like? sound like? feel like? subashini_varlivell3_1 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639031471 2023-07-05 23:17:57 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639031471 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047305 Respecting boundaries 
Respect them 
Understanding one another 
be loyal]]> 2023-07-05 23:54:00 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047305 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047791 Both are in a agreement and respect each other’s boundaries (if any)]]> 2023-07-05 23:54:30 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047791 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047832 A healthy relationship is when people encourage each other and where one can be themselves around each other and also understand each other well ]]> 2023-07-05 23:54:33 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047832 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047843 - not being toxic 
- both parties to not be controlling with each other 
-  not fighting regularly 
- Communicating with each other instead of arguing 

]]> 2023-07-05 23:54:34 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047843 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047944 Both happy in the relationship.Both individuals have mature mindsets.can Be yourselves around one another.]]> 2023-07-05 23:54:41 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639047944 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639068217 1. Unhealthy 
2. Scared and anxious,yes
3.Girlfriend too controlling / invite a backup or call 
4. Do things you love
5. No ,give advice]]> 2023-07-06 00:20:14 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639068217 https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639074443 1.)the relationship is not healthy as the boyfriend takes the girl for granted and doesn’t respect her boundaries.
2.Hopeless or Stuck.yes she should break up with him. Even despite the threats she may have, it’s better to end it sooner and seek help knowing that she isn’t in a relationship that she is able to be happy 
3.it might be difficult for her to end the relationship as she is afraid of the actions her boyfriend would make such as harming her, or himsel. She could end this relationship by keeping screenshots of the hurtful things he say to her and keep as evidence and report him to her parents and the police. 
R4.]]> 2023-07-06 00:25:30 UTC https://padlet.com/subashini_varlivell3_1/u7ojt8hql70kep1p/wish/2639074443