Epoch Leadership Refresher: Compassionate Dialogue by Mai Xi Lee https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv Let's capture our ideas for how to begin to build adult capacity to establish safe, positive and inclusive mindsets and learning environments for our children. en-us 2021-11-29 18:47:29 UTC 2021-12-01 19:19:46 UTC hello@padlet.com We first have to provide moments where students feel safe to share their authentic voices. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923572910 2021-12-01 18:54:29 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923572910 Interrupt inequities when we see/hear them! https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923572949 2021-12-01 18:54:30 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923572949 Peer Conflict Resolution https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573057 Helping students resolve conflicts. ]]> 2021-12-01 18:54:34 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573057 africawilliams https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573065 Listen without judgement... spend more time considering the other person's point of view.

]]> 2021-12-01 18:54:35 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573065 Solicit honest feedback on mindsets (can't read minds) https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573240 2021-12-01 18:54:38 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573240 Observation Feedback https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573352 After classroom observations with the teacher during the debrief.]]> 2021-12-01 18:54:43 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573352 Become better at using it and helping others to understand it. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573432 2021-12-01 18:54:46 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573432 During staff meeting or when it is needed. stuartbushnell https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573712 2021-12-01 18:54:53 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573712 RIR Protocol with Staff sarah_dhah2 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573773 Introduce the RIR protocol at next staff meeting and practice using it/role play a scenario.]]> 2021-12-01 18:54:55 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923573773 Listen and build relationships so everyone gets what they need. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574041 2021-12-01 18:55:04 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574041 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574091 I will look for opportunities to use RIR protocol ]]> 2021-12-01 18:55:06 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574091 Integrity africawilliams https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574158 Be willing to have the same conversations in public as I have in private. ]]> 2021-12-01 18:55:07 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574158 When you hear it or observe it https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574183 2021-12-01 18:55:08 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574183 Agree to RIR protocol in meeting spaces...start meetings explicitly reviewing https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574446 2021-12-01 18:55:16 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574446 When having a difficult conversation. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574760 2021-12-01 18:55:25 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574760 engage with the response that surfaces during interruption https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574763 2021-12-01 18:55:25 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574763 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574855 In my relationships with students and my approach to providing support and discipline as compared to punitive responses and actions.


]]> 2021-12-01 18:55:28 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574855 Focus on multiplicative factors, like curriculum https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574923 2021-12-01 18:55:30 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923574923 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575242 work on projects in a collaborative manner

]]> 2021-12-01 18:55:36 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575242 In everything we do. Working with staff, facilitating conversations between staff and students. Working with Parents. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575268 2021-12-01 18:55:37 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575268 Role play for staff using real world examples https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575420 2021-12-01 18:55:42 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575420 By being intentional https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575569 2021-12-01 18:55:47 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575569 seek to understand https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575575 2021-12-01 18:55:47 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575575 In student mediation and conversations stuartbushnell https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575646 2021-12-01 18:55:49 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575646 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575917 Continue to have meaningful conversations with Staff regarding RIR Protocol. ]]> 2021-12-01 18:55:56 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575917 Working hard to change the mindset of this district to make my subject area accessible to ALL students, not just those in more affluent schools. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575956 2021-12-01 18:55:58 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923575956 It is our job to point out and disrupt behaviors of students and adults. Then follow the RIR protocol. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576073 2021-12-01 18:56:01 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576073 Address statements or comments that are microaggressions https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576109 2021-12-01 18:56:02 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576109 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576246 For me... these repeated trainings offered from SCUSD and Site Admin, combined with these issues coming to the forefront in our larger society have awakened me to the need to soften and open communications. I think continuing these training with our staff is pivotal. ]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:06 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576246 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576333 Apply this language to my discussion with my staff.]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:08 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576333 A way of being victoriaflores10 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576363 Ensure these protocols are woven into the fabric of how we work together, the language we use, and the spaces we create

]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:09 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576363 In the staff meeting providing people the opportunity to practice the protocol so the can become comfortable. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576542 2021-12-01 18:56:15 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576542 Consciously use the protocol with the end in mind to stop harm and negative impact https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576661 2021-12-01 18:56:19 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576661 RIR Protocol with Staff https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576803 During academic conferences, use some of the questions/statements to interrupt and guide mindsets

]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:23 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576803 Emotion Wheel https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576952 Utilizing the wheel to check in with yourself to realize how you are coming across to another person will help in the repair process of the dialogue.]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:28 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923576952 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577064 Coming together as a staff, modeling and emphasizing that it is ok to be vulnerable and make a few mistakes through our learning process! ]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:31 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577064 In specific conversations making sure all have a voice. stuartbushnell https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577474 2021-12-01 18:56:42 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577474 I think training in a direct instruction format with our staff on the RIR protocol so they understand what we are doing. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577514 2021-12-01 18:56:43 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577514 when difficult conversations https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577681 2021-12-01 18:56:48 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577681 Modelling RIR Protocol at my school site for all stakeholders https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577708 2021-12-01 18:56:49 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577708 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577884 Include the questioning in our restorative practices

]]> 2021-12-01 18:56:54 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923577884 I'm going to be honest. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578225 2021-12-01 18:57:03 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578225 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578315 I am going to be okay being uncomfortable interrupting systems and I will accept being uncomfortable when someone provides me a perspective on my approach.]]> 2021-12-01 18:57:06 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578315 before we move to bringing this to staff we need to repair the relationships within this group. I noticed quite a few pwople left after the breakout group and have received feedback that there is still not enough trust within this group. If we are not able to use the RIR process with each other how can we expect that we can truly use it with staff? https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578506 2021-12-01 18:57:11 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578506 I will share the RIR protocol with my teachers, and we will discuss how to modify it to help kids with conflict resolution. vlastimil_krbecek1 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578878 2021-12-01 18:57:22 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578878 When will the harm that BIPOC leaders have experienced and continue to experience be repaired? https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578961 2021-12-01 18:57:24 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923578961 to resolve conflicts and move discussions forward https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579062 2021-12-01 18:57:27 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579062 When scheduling/rostering students in classes. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579110 2021-12-01 18:57:28 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579110 Deep conversations are always more impactful when they are 1:1 so you can seek to understand. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579146 2021-12-01 18:57:29 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579146 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579270 The RIR Protocol should be applied daily to improve our student's learning environments.]]> 2021-12-01 18:57:32 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579270 When working with parents, students, staff. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579489 2021-12-01 18:57:39 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579489 In individual conversations about pedagogy and student interactions. https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579626 The conversations about student voice and perspectives.]]> 2021-12-01 18:57:43 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923579626 stuartbushnell https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923580022 2021-12-01 18:57:56 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923580022 https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923580312 Through open and honest conversations with students that show them adults are always learning as well. Making a genuine connection with them helps them to feel comfortable to engage in difficult conversations.

]]> 2021-12-01 18:58:05 UTC https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923580312 Feedback to Teachers https://padlet.com/leem70/u3ylmwonppaai5sv/wish/1923580708 Use questions/prompts to help teachers reflect on their lessons/conversations with students

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