it breaks my heart to hear what you have been through. I can't even imagine the mistreatment that you got by your siblings and stepmother. It frustrates me that you had to go through such great burdens all by yourself.

I really wish I could be there with you to help you in these tough times. However, I can't help but praise you for enduring such hardships all by yourself. Finally, I hope that things get better for you.

Your siblings and stepmother have no right to treat you that way. I hope that you're okay now, please contact me whenever you need to. I'm always here for you, stay strong.

I am aware of your situation and what you have been going through, I am sorry to hear that. You didn’t deserve that your siblings treated you as you were the cause of your mother’s death, or your country goes through colonization. What you have experienced is an overwhelming burden.

If it helps, you can go for therapy sessions to talk about it and find a routine that helps you deal with it. Be careful about who you befriend and watch for their intentions. It is not your fault, everything happens for a reason and god for sure has a good reason to put you in this situation.

Sincerely,

Your great friend Dana.

6/10/1941

Also i heard that your mother died, may she rest in peace and i am so sorry for that. You deserved better.

I am sorry that you had to get through your mother’s death. I hope you feel and get better soon. Don’t mind anything that your siblings tell you.

Next time if you’re feeling sad you can come over to my house and we will have fun. If it makes you feel any better I can come over to your house so we can play together.

Hello , How are you? I hope you are doing well regardless of what you have dealt with your whole childhood. After hearing your aching story, I want to let you know that its not your fault, and it have never been your fault. In this life things happen, and you should try to move on.

If you ever needed someone to vent to know that I am always here for you, don not just endure the overwhelming pain yourself, talk to me and your auntie whom you have mentioned she seems to really care about you. Also learn to stand up to yourself whenever your siblings or stepmother mistreat you, don't just accept their bullying and stay silent, you have to fight back for yourself so that they respect you and eventually they will know their place and never mistreat you again. I hope what my written helps you even a little, keep it up Adeline.

Sincerely,

your friend Fatma.

I've seen the struggles you face in your family. Seeing such cruelty in person is horrible. Remember that their behavior does not determine your value. Remain strong inside, and may the comfort and support that come from outside within your boundaries be found.

I feel very sorry for what you went through, and I really hope that you realize the importance of believing in fate. Feeling guilty over things that a person cannot control is almost irrational. The most important thing is to accept reality and stay away from everything that destroys you or remind you of things you’re trying to forget about and move on.

I know that what you went through is very difficult, and I know that what your siblings did to you was very bad but this is not your fault, but you must improve your relationship with your siblings and try to spend more time with your siblings . If you need any help, I am here for you.

Dear Adeline

I'm so sorry to hear that, hop your feeling well. Life can be tough sometimes but I want you to know that you are strong and your never alone I'm always here for you. take some time for self care and spend time in things that bring you joy.

very sad to hear that you've been blaming your self it's not your fault. Surround yourself with people who make you happy. Take care.

your friend Haneen

You might be facing a difficult time in life, but that should not make you weak, you have to always stay strong and face whatever you have been through. More specifically after your mother have passed away, you do not deserve to be treated the way your siblings do. As you were the reason of your mothers death.

If you needed to talk to someone, I am always here to listen if that would make you feel better. you do not have to live with this pain. Try to avoid their bad energy and what they use against you to get at you. You can always go to your aunt, who seems very wary of your relationship with your siblings.

Sincerely,

Your friend Rafia.

I hope you are doing well, I understand the amount of pain you have been through, and the obstacles you faced. You were treated so badly by your siblings, and been blamed for the death of your mother. And I get that baring with your country getting collonized by France, and dealing with the racism was hard for you. As a friend, I am here to hear you out if you ever need someone to talk to.

I just want you to know that you do not have to live with this burden forever, there are many ways to get over your bad experience. Going to therapy would really help you get the weight off of your chest, although it would not change the fact that you had to go through that, but coping with it would be easier.

Sincerely,

Your friend Maryam

I’ve missed you and am planning to visit China after the war. Your life was full of trouble, and I want you to always remember that your value is beyond measure. Even if your family does not understand it know that to me, you have great value. The challenges that you had to face since your birth are hard but an important thing is to remember the fact that we do not have power over what has already happened no matter much distance in time it took us.

In the midst of all this, please know that I am determined to be a constant person in your life. I’ll always be there to support my country through thick and thin. You haven’t been traveling this road alone, and your strength is truly to be admired.

From: your friend Nora