Alright, so I'm pretty sure everybody was once told to tell the truth at all times, rii ?? Lying to someone's face about the important things is not rii nor good for your frens or jus ppl in general. Like what Carey stated, their looks 💀. Frens have an ego or idea to lie to their fren about how they look bc of what is seen in their eyes. Don't get me wrong ppl do have their own opinion and do see different things as attractive, but ig lying about their looks is a big problem for certain ppl. Considering telling your fren the truth on how they look or jus what they do is prolly the best thing u should do because then you don't want your fren having ppl look at them badly or jus crazy bc then they're gonna look at you the same way. But yeah, be up front with the yo fren, no matter the gender.

Ok so like yall know how ppl tell others dey look gud n stuff even if dey arent tellin da truth well honestly, ppl do dat bc dey want to make others feel better about themselves n bc dey dont wanna hurt ppl's feelings. But I agree with what flowers is saying about being truthful. It's better to tell the truth den to lie to dem. It's like telling them they look gud when dey actually look like shyat. Dats not ok, I'd rather dey know dey dont look gud so dey can fix it. So ik evb, n I mean EVERYBODY, they've been told dat lying issa bad thing but we all do it regardless. We do dis bc its a social nicety meaning giving polite gestures or compliments even doe dey aren't truly genuine n we do dis because its thought of as polite. Seriously doe, being honest is prolly da best u can do to help others, especially ur friends. I get dat ppl have dey own opinions bout beauty n other stuff but like if u aint genuince bout it, dont say it, its dishonesty and sometime could devalue true compliments. This also creates false expectations which cud make the person believe they have qualities they dont actually have. So to sum it up, just tell da truth.

But. if you mix soap and water to clean, and then rinse it off with more water, aren’t you just adding back the thing that couldn’t clean in the first place? And if soap makes things clean, but soap needs to be washed, then shouldn’t there be something even cleaner than soap to wash the soap? Like, is there a super soap out there? And if there isn’t, then does that mean soap is actually the dirtiest thing in existence because it’s always touching the dirt it cleans??

But... If water just keeps cycling through everything, then that means at some point, some of the water in your body was probably someone else's tears. Or sweat. Or diddy water, Like, what if the water you’re drinking right now was once medieval bathwater? Or the spit of a caveman? Or if it was once inside Napoleon?

But then wait, if water keeps cycling and never really disappears, then doesn’t that mean every sip of water is technically secondhand water? Have we ever actually had a fresh drink, or are we all just sipping ancient recycled hydration like some kind of eternal cosmic water bottle? And if that’s true, does that mean fish have been peeing in our drinks for millions of years and we’re just okay with it, and its technically "good" for us🤔

On all real shi, y'all get back with an ex. Don't b out here being a luh bop and getting with every boy you see bc like wdh 💀. Especially y'all girls, not saying boys dont do it too, but I just b seeing girls mainly do it. Jus going around and not having no self respect when you partake in those hoe activities is outrageous and weird. Also, it b a person that b getting on another person head about ts that start acting like one, too. Trust, I've seen many people change. Tbh, I don't think people are crazy for running back to an ex because at the end of the day, you like what you like and shi happens.

Imma jus start off by saying this child is a thinker and needs opinions from God himself to answer all his interesting thoughts. 🙏 😭. Anywho, I had something to say about his suggestions, but now my brain hurts from even thinking about how to respond and what he's saying. I pray for this child and I really hope God can answer his thoughts because ouu child... 😭.

I really think people b doing the absolute most when they say this word knowing they cannot say it. Yeah I know I'm white and black, but I literally don't say it 500 times a day nor do I beg to say it. I've had a girl literally beg to say it "just so she can fit in" with the ppl she was talking to. Honestly, that is insane. Ppl fit in anywhere they like because everybody is still human and we all bleed the same, nothing makes any of us different besides our personalities, the way we do things and our looks. Lemme jus make this clear real quick.. ❗THE N WORD PASS IS A MYTH AND YALL WEIRDOS THAT "GIVE" IT OUT ARE SO WEIRD AND DUMB ❗If you're white and your black frens allow you to say it around them, so b it. But if you're around other people who you know don't want you saying it... b quiet and don't say it. If you're really THAT desperate to even ASK to say the n word, my only question is do you really feel that out of place when you're around black people ? Let's get educational real quick. So the n word became a thing during slavery, blah blah blah, we all know this. There was a lot of hatred during the time and all that other stuff. Most people do not know that, the n word became popular for black ppl to say because of a music group, N.W.A. They're the ones who made it a thing for each other to say. Yes, there are ppl out there like Korbin, King and Abound who say it, but King and Abound already know that I b getting on they head everytime and Korbin, that boy just don't care what you tell him and he is literally the ONLY white boy I've ever just let say that word. Eugh, this jus irks my nerves typing about this 🤮 🙄.

Ma honest opinion is whites shouldnt rlly say it. Like a lotta whites know not to but sum of dem like to test others patience. It dont matter if sum black person gives u da pass. Dey are not evb, if they're ok with u sayin it around dem, dats fine, buh if u sayin it to others who aint comfy with it, den u just lookin for a fight. Stick to whatever aint gon get u inna fight ri away.

Ok there are an awful lot of kids on here who don't act their age. Especially dem spammers like get tf outta here. Yall needa reality check n please start acting ur age or act mature at least. I get dat sometimes u wanna act like a kid n be funny, but at least know when to be serious. Ppl who dont know when to be serious arent great ppl.

Tbh, It depends on the person ur bsf is dating, ur close friends might think the person ain good for em or dont like the way he acts or how he/she is with other people. but honestly, lilly is right about you not having the place to dictate them , its not ur choice to choose who ur bsf can date, its okay to be honest with them n all but dont be hating too much, esp if u dont know the person like that, you js gotta give it time and trust ur bsf w the person she/he with 🤷‍♀.

MKK HOLDNN CSS I GOT CONFUSEDD.. If a rando person tell yall who you should be dating tha mf needa gtfo, turn around n walk rii forward🤓!!. Yall don gotta listen to stupid people like them, its ur rlss!!. So tell wassaname too go sho shoo💨, they got no place to talk about ur rls when they dont even know NOTHING, so this what pmo, a nigga tell u this person ain for u or this person finna do dis n dat or when niggas say to leave the person they wit n come to them 💀. like buffoon sthu😂, why not look smw else n not take smbs girl??, or even try to, u js making ur self look more stupid then u already are. like that mf has nun to do w u in the first place smh🥱!!

Honestly, ppl just try to look out for each other yk. Like I wud wanna look out for ma friend rather den just be ok with whatever dey do all da time. If ion fw with a certain person den I want ma friend to know n let dem know ma opinion on dat person. Sometimes u know dat person more den ur friend does. Or if dey do sumthing ion like, just be straight up. Like dey dont have to stop doing whatever dey be doin buh dey'll know not to be doin too much. Its all just being truthful n protective. Cant be goin around being fake 🙏

OKK GURL MBB FOR MISUNDERSTANDING 😭

Sooo if sum RANDO was to tell ma friends or me what to do or who to date den I wud be pissed like who is u to tell me wha to do. Like u dont got no rights to try n boss me. Maybe u do it all da time with ur friends buh uh uh u aint boutta try n boss others around, especially ppl u dont even talk to or know. n if u be tellin ppl dat ppl who dey shud be dating den u got serious problems.

I most definitely agree with Lilly on this one. Dating someone based on your friends opinion is not okay. Yes, it's okay to take in their opinion and see what they say but its all about who you like and what your going to do. I feel like its just based on the person, like if its your best friend or just a friend. Like for me, I take all my closest friends opinions on anything into consideration because I know they don't play when it comes to me and I'll be honest and straight up with them as well. But for you to just not date the person you know you like very well all because of what your friend said about them... baby no. Your not staying true to yourself. But if you are going to be that friend that tells your friend what you think on the person they like or is trying to date, make sure to just let your friend know inna polite way and don't be all rude and pushy with it.

See now if its a random ass nigga tell you some shi like "That person is not good for you " or wtv then chileeee baby you need to tell them move around and I'm good with what I got. That's not right for somebody random to come up to you or just come to you telling you that because first of all, shorty who are you 😭🤔 and second, what place is it for you to even think imma listen to you ???.

Many people on this website can be very immature, sometimes you just be asking yourself if they are even human. Some people just being doing too much that's fucking annoying but its what most people on here do so ofc theres gonna be that but like people who are grown? now that's different. Grown ngs here just be weird asl and not even have the ability to act right nm, like wtf you got on in the little brain of yours.

OKKK so ik sum of yall do not know da difference between crushes n being in love. Like u can have a crush onna celebrity sure, but its not love. Or u can have a crush on da school jock, buh dat dont mean u love love dem. Like cmonn lets use da right words. Yea u love ur family, u love ur friends, but in dis case we're talkin bout loving or having a crush on sum1. Like love issa serious thingg, Ik sum ppl who be talkin to ppl n being in da shortest talkin stage ever n den claiming dat person is their entire world...do u rlly know if u LOVE dem or just gotta crush for dem. Yk what I think it is, ur just in love with da moments, not da person.

Mkk yall, did we rlly have to have dis thought smhhh, ik sum of yall dont care who u be talkin sexually too, like most of us have done it, even to random ppl we barely even know. But we rlly shouldn't be doing dis onna normal basis. Its so wrong n is just too much. n I dont wanna name ppl bc not tryna put anybody on da spotlight or not tryna embarass dem but there are sum ppl on here who are just horny n cannot go a minute without making bein normal. n ts is just annoyinn especially when we actually tryna be serious. It rlly shouldn't be normalized on here, but its long been a thing so there's no way for us to change it bc ppl hate listening to others smhh

I feel like as we get older our thoughts start to think different things. So for me on this one, i'll say we all know things are just bound to happen for everybody. We realize all good things don't last and God gives us challenges left and right that we have to take on. I mean on some things, it may feel like luck but overall, it is destined.

Okay so honestly, Carter your so real for putting ts out, bc honestly thats what most people on hea feel most of the time, in general tew. Honestly sometimes yall js gotta put yourself first too. some of yall here are such great people n love helping others but sometimes you need time for yourself asw and pay attention to urself from now on, the more older u get the more you learn the more u experience you start having the hang of it, you start realizing things and just put everything behind. theres people who are clearly fake n move weird hea in ts website n its nun new lowk. some niggas here needa get their shit together too. ion get ppl sometimes bc wtf do they be thinking 🤦‍♀. but ina while you js start not gaf nomo n do whats best for yourself, you dont got time for worrying about others when they worth shit. You gotta move on even tho it might hurt you real bad, js kno you did the right thing. dont be going back to the people that been doin u wrong.

Ok u do u, I hope u dont overthink things a lot 😭 Like u is a thinker fr. Ionk where u be coming up with dis stuff. Like ion what to even say. Reading sum of it rlly make me think. n prolly gave me a headache.

So uhhh ig it wud be better to go back to an ex instead of being a bop. Honestly, I think goin back to an ex usually doesn't work out bc like "if it didnt work da first time, it wont work a second time" BUHHHH den there's "Give dem a second chance" Likeee if u can manage to work it out, den gud 4 u. If u aint feeling dem doe, den its a no. But da question here was why is it a problem to get back with an ex but not being a bop. So its a choice of whether u will go back to an ex or be a bop. Honestly, ionk wha ppl be thinking. Goin back to an ex is better den da bop activity. Hope dis makes sense, I'll prolly fix it later

Ouu man I hate it when ppl be so irritating. It just makes me so mad. n I hate it when u try to explain it to sum1 n dey be replying dry like ok I see u dont got da time rn. Once I get irritated, everything seems to annoy me. n when im tryna explain to sum1 how I feel n den dey ask where sum1 else is, it just makes me even more irritated n ion wanna explain nun no mo. Like seems like yall too busy or sum smhh, just bye bro like no need to make me waste ma time. Like why do ppl get mad ova da littlest things n gotta be rude to others? I don tbe getting mad fo no reason, sumtimes its for small reasons buh yall just do too much, its not dat hard to learn to respect others n know when to stop playing

its literally just anger issues gurl. dere aint nun wrong with it, like sumtimes i be acting like i got anger issues n its crazy. got sum bad days n sum good days. n ppl make fun of others bc dey think dere allat when dey actually not, u just cant let ppl get to u like det. like embrace ur natural beauty n just be u fr, ur gon come across ppl who tell u things u dont wanna hear, buh u just ignore dem. evb got insecurities even if dey say dey dont. dont be cryin for things dat are urs, if ppl gotta problem den dere gon have to learn to suck it up bc its 25 now. bullying was so like 2010's era 💀 whenever i hear sum1 get bullied it just makes me sad for the bully bc dey so depressing dat dey resort to bullying for attention smhh. just be better den dem.

math is just confusing if u dont gotta gud teacher. like a teacher who can teach n have patience is hard to find nowadays. most teachers get paid for just sitting dere n it annoys me. n den parents be gettin on kids for having bad grades n not listening to da fact dat its sumtimes not even da kids fault like maybe if teachers were actually determined to teach, we wud do so much bettter.

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Mannn ify onnat, buh things happen. U just gotta try n move on yk, its not rlly ur fault she left, dude. Its kinda like all u have left is urself or close friends yk, yu just gotta stop giving ppl what ur not receiving yfmm? its not dat u did sum wrong wit givin ur best in da rls, its kinda like da way life goes, not everythin goes ur way, buh if u constantly dwell on da bad things, it def not gon improve nun, u gotta set da path urself.

mmmm, ngl it depends, buh i think da most common is sum1 who cares, sum1 who will literally go thru burnin buildings, swim da ocean, n go thru a jungle of dangerous animals just to make sure ur safe. likee i need a father who wud not only be ma father buh a best friend. BUH dey also gotta be smb who has great discipline, i dnt need a father babyin me ma entire life bc den i wud never learn anything. Dey gotta be right in da middle, sum1 nice n carin n sum1 wit a subtle strictness. ykwim, i may like not be gettin into great detail here buh like dis is da basics...😭

Rather than viewing them as dead-end failures, mistakes are best seen as essential stepping stones on the path to success. The most successful people are not those who avoided mistakes entirely, but those who made them quickly, learned from them thoroughly, and integrated those lessons into their subsequent attempts. This iterative cycle of trying, failing, analyzing, and adjusting is the engine of true mastery. Embracing error fosters resilience the psychological toughness to get back up and try again and leads to deeper self-awareness by revealing our genuine limits, blind spots, and capabilities. Ultimately, the ability to acknowledge, own, and learn from our shortcomings transforms a temporary moment of error into a powerful catalyst for profound personal and professional development.

Hmmm well padlet is just toxic. there's good ppl n there's bad ppl. Ppl on here talk a lotta smack doee. its like nobody knows how to joke nowadays. BUH sometimes it's da joker who be takin it too far asw. So both sides are at fault. Padlet also changes ppl, sum ppl just dont care. n if u wanna talk shit at least do it in a gc or sum, not evb wanna hear ur thoughts. It ruins moods n kills da chat. ppl can be sensitive too, n if dey are dey shud close the chat instead of makin a huge deal outta the situation unless smb keeps bringing da topic up even after evb said it was done with.

honestly, luck is not something i was expectin to talk bout. I believe it exists, but i dont think its pre-determined. like ts just happens when it wants too. if we try to make ourselves lucky it definitely wont work. Luck's something that comes to u by chance, not by fate. could luck come to me if i lay down the right path? maybe but its not a fs answer.

man ionek why ppl spend so much to impress their partners, like ts just a waste. sum ppl think spending money is da way to keep sum1 buh it rlly aint...likeee dis shit basically tryna buy love det wont come ykyk. i've got a friend who spend sm on her ex bc she thought it was true love but he ended up cheatin on her while throwin accusations n claimin she cheated even tho it wasnt true. spending money isnt gon make sum1 stay with u longer and even if dey do stay longer, its not for u but for da money. pls think before u do things.