https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy Make a post with your name and questions that you have about the film. These can be questions about the characters and/or events in the film, how the film was made, or even about personal narrative more broadly. Try to think of at least two questions that you think would be interesting for discussion. en-us 2023-09-25 23:15:18 UTC 2025-08-18 04:26:10 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721587310 - Why do you guys think Diane's children were so forgiving to their mom about having the affair? Why don't they not resent her?
- Do you believe that they all treat each other the same even though they might have different dads? ]]> 2023-09-26 16:27:44 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721587310 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721588466 1. why did they want to make a documentary/why did they want to share the story 

2. how does this help anyone in their own lives]]> 2023-09-26 16:28:27 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721588466 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721588950 Why portray the past when we can just talk about it? 
Why were Diane’s kids so happy to see her happy with someone else other than their dad ?]]> 2023-09-26 16:28:44 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721588950 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721589129 1]]> 2023-09-26 16:28:51 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721589129 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721590288 Questions about the movie of the stories we tell is tell is did the dad ever feel uncomfortable of hatred towards diane when finding out about the affair of he just accepted , and even after her death did he never feel hatred over her secrets ]]> 2023-09-26 16:29:33 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721590288 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721591739 1.)  Why did she believe this story about her family stand out amongst everyone else's?

2.) Did the kids resent their mother for having an affair? If they did how were they able to move past those feelings of resentment?]]> 2023-09-26 16:30:27 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721591739 2114776 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721593044 Why do you think Diane’s husband didn’t question whether that was his biological daughter based on the “jokes” and his daughter looking different ?

How did the portray an imagine of Diane in the past giving the fact that there are so many versions and perspectives of her ?]]> 2023-09-26 16:31:16 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721593044 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721593237 - did michael feel guilty and thats. why he seemed ok with her affairs. what were his real feelings 
- how did her relationship progress with Henry after the film how did it change her?]]> 2023-09-26 16:31:24 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721593237 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594127 How did the husband/father feel when he found out his wife was cheating on him and had another kid with a different man ?

What inspired the daughter to create this film? ]]> 2023-09-26 16:32:01 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594127 10233310 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594619 - Was there any sort of family conflict upon finding out about Diane's affair? Was it possible that it happened but it was not presented to us in the documentary?

- Why did everyone think Jeff was Sarah's biological father instead of Harry?

- What was the reason for recreating past events with actors playing characters in the past?]]> 2023-09-26 16:32:14 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594619 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594985 1. How does the way the story is told affect the way the audience views it?
2. What did you take away from the story about how family dynamics can be and how did the way they told the story affect that?]]> 2023-09-26 16:32:27 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721594985 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721595425 Would the story be somewhat different if the mom was still alive? 
Why were the different points of views important in this story? ]]> 2023-09-26 16:32:40 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721595425 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721595781 1. How does storytelling influence our understanding of history?
2. How does  social media or personal blogs affect the way we tell  stories?]]> 2023-09-26 16:32:53 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721595781 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721596045 -Why wasn't Sarah interviewed as well?
- How did this documentary affect everyone, if it did?]]> 2023-09-26 16:33:03 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721596045 10430124 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721597591 I wonder why did harry not want do something about about raising the child after knowing.
And why did Diana not choose one lover why keep the secret ]]> 2023-09-26 16:34:06 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721597591 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721647446 1> What made them want to make this a documentary, why not just keep in between those who were involved. 
2>Did this help give the family closure ? or did it just cause chaos ? As in did this give sarah the motivation to keep on exploring her mom's life before she was born or did this help her come to the end of realization of who her mom really was and stopped trying to dig up information on her. ]]> 2023-09-26 17:02:59 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2721647446 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2722310870 - How does secrecy affect family dynamic?
-Would the story be different if Sara knew her biological father at a younger age?

]]> 2023-09-27 02:38:35 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2722310870 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2723060543 I wonder how this would've changed the families lives had Diane continued living but not telling them (No cancer AU))? Are the two fathers still going to keep contact knowing Diane lied to them both??]]> 2023-09-27 13:01:38 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2723060543 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2723397534 1. How does us telling story’s influence our understanding of history. Since human memory isn’t reliable?
2. Does social media affect our way of telling story’s/ reading them. People like to fake their lives for clicks. ]]> 2023-09-27 16:15:35 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2723397534 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2724063730 1. How come Michael didn't resent Diane for the affair?
2. How come Harry didn't thank Michael for taking care of Sarah her whole life?]]> 2023-09-28 03:47:57 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2724063730 https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2725523036 how were diane's kids so calm when finding out that she had an affair with someone else? or is it all just an act for the cameras?]]> 2023-09-29 03:02:07 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2725523036 BryceThomas_ https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2730799421 why did all her friends allow her to have an affair instead of just telling her to get a divorce and get with the person she was cheating with ]]> 2023-10-03 18:54:20 UTC https://padlet.com/newhavenpublicschools/tjvitbaabm0o3owy/wish/2730799421