https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs en-us 2023-04-04 13:01:29 UTC 2025-10-17 01:15:16 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543653112 “Even though anxiously attached individuals act desperate or insecure, more often than not, their behavior exacerbates their own fears. When they feel unsure of their partner’s feelings and unsafe in their relationship, they often become clingy, demanding or possessive toward their partner. They may also interpret independent actions by their partner as affirmation of their fears.“]]> 2023-04-04 13:13:32 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543653112 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655011 “For example, if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me.”]]> 2023-04-04 13:15:05 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655011 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655040 "The person with a working model of dismissive/avoidant attachment has the tendency to be distant, because their model is that the way to get your needs met is to act like you don’t have any."]]> 2023-04-04 13:15:06 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655040 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655757 "“Even though anxiously attached individuals act desperate or insecure, more often than not, their behavior exacerbates their own fears.'']]> 2023-04-04 13:15:38 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543655757 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543656490 " They may also interpret independent actions by their partner as affirmation of their fears. For example, if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me. This means he is going to leave me. I was right not to trust him.” ..."

]]> 2023-04-04 13:16:16 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543656490 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543658171 "For example, if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me. This means he is going to leave me. I was right not to trust him.”]]> 2023-04-04 13:17:39 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543658171 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543658684 “When they feel unsure of their partner’s feelings and unsafe in their relationship, they often become clingy, demanding or possessive toward their partner” ]]> 2023-04-04 13:18:04 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543658684 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543659527 "They may seek isolation and feel “pseudo-independent,” taking on the role of parenting themselves. They often come off as focused on themselves and may be overly attending to their creature comforts."


]]> 2023-04-04 13:18:47 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543659527 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543659759 "They can’t just avoid their anxiety or run away from their feelings. Instead, they are overwhelmed by their reactions and often experience emotional storms."]]> 2023-04-04 13:18:58 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543659759 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543660266

“…if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me. This means he is going to leave me. I was right not to trust him.”

]]> 2023-04-04 13:19:20 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543660266 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543661451 "When they feel unsure of their partner’s feelings and unsafe in their relationship, they often become clingy, demanding or possessive toward their partner."]]> 2023-04-04 13:20:17 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543661451 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543662047  “Unlike securely attached couples, people with an anxious attachment tend to be desperate to form a fantasy bond. Instead of feeling real love or trust toward their partner, they often feel emotional hunger.” ]]> 2023-04-04 13:20:46 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543662047 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543662949 “As adults, these individuals tend to find themselves in rocky or dramatic relationships, with many highs and lows. They often have fears of being abandoned but also struggle with being intimate.”

]]> 2023-04-04 13:21:25 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2543662949 https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2544184094 "They may also interpret independent actions by their partner as affirmation of their fears. For example, if their partner starts socializing more with friends, they may think, “See? He doesn’t really love me. This means he is going to leave me. I was right not to trust him.”]]> 2023-04-04 21:43:15 UTC https://padlet.com/chsd230/tifvljt6gmcmt7bs/wish/2544184094