AZD TALKS: Loving Unconditionally by AZD UNCONFERENCE https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk Share what you have learned in the workshop en-us 2021-09-16 16:10:26 UTC 2026-01-18 19:12:44 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f4d3.png Common Ground https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757018404 We have different backgrounds... thus in church we need to cast aside where we are from but to find common ground]]> 2021-09-21 12:54:39 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757018404 All things to all man https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757034038 2021-09-21 12:59:08 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757034038 Be humble https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757035671 Accepting whats is already here and whats not yet.]]> 2021-09-21 12:59:38 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757035671 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757040726 So important to be self-aware! Manage ourselves first before responding to others...]]> 2021-09-21 13:01:06 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757040726 Servant heart 🥲 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757043195 When members enter into our CG, they are God sent and the attitude to have is to serve them.

]]> 2021-09-21 13:01:50 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757043195 start with bible to inform feeling https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757045295 2021-09-21 13:02:28 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757045295 Invest in their life https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757045657 have time to sit down with members and get to know where they are at spiritually, whats happening, etc. ]]> 2021-09-21 13:02:35 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757045657 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757060409 Provide a safe space for your friends to chat with you on sexuality so that you can share your Christian views with them at the right time. Lean on the Holy Spirit to give you wisdom on what to say(truth) and how to say(in love). ]]> 2021-09-21 13:07:01 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757060409 serving others https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757066536 we have to learn how to serve our members and not just wanting to be right]]> 2021-09-21 13:08:46 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757066536 Relationship First https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757066896 In any situation. You need to build trust and relationship first before you can start to speak to the person's life]]> 2021-09-21 13:08:53 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757066896 Humility https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757068928 As leaders, we bound to encounter members who have differing opinions. However, having a humble heart to be receptive to feedback is equally important and vital even to our own spiritual walk. ]]> 2021-09-21 13:09:28 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757068928 Helping members come to the realisation on their own qssteacher https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757069768 Coffee sessions are more effective, asking questions to help members think and reflect is much more effective than telling them what to do. A leader that guides is stronger than one that dictates.]]> 2021-09-21 13:09:44 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757069768 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757071558 to lead is to serve-- be all things to all men but still have our identity & calling grounded in God]]> 2021-09-21 13:10:12 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757071558 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757074390 Our motivation must be out of love]]> 2021-09-21 13:10:54 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757074390 apply 30/60/90 rule https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757081899 Everyone should be touched
Members not reciprocating, still spend time (30%), according to how they are responding (apply your time/effort) 60% 90% etc
Give personal attention to each one (a)to know where they are at (b)get sensing how you can give your time]]> 2021-09-21 13:13:06 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757081899 30/60/100 rule https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757081961 2021-09-21 13:13:07 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757081961 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757082941 To able to listen and hear out as our friend who is struggling with sexuality shares his/her story. As he/she might not have the freedom or come from a place of oppression.

]]> 2021-09-21 13:13:24 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757082941 As we were talking about stereotypes of other different ethnic background, I realized being aware of our biases is important. Perhaps we grew up being taught these stereotypes, but as we mature, we should be open and mindful to be corrected and to listen to the experienced of people with different ethnic background. https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757097083 2021-09-21 13:17:25 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757097083 Growing Better https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757097496 Be all things to all men, Every member is a gift from God. Also, other leaders are going through what you are going through (maybe even worse alr) so hang in there, we are going through it to become a better leader, better Christian. ]]> 2021-09-21 13:17:33 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757097496 Diversity - Easy to Aspire; Tough to Embrace https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757116686 It's easy to make associations of a certain race, a certain cultural type, and other prima facie attributes. 

But it takes a lot of effort to counteract the over-simplifications a mental association. Alice shared about how language is used to validate and how it can be a weapon to exclude; Cyndy and Wirul shared their firsthand experiences how they felt misunderstood and what they did to deftly address these prejudices.]]> 2021-09-21 13:23:03 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757116686 Be tactful https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757126855 Avoid disrespectful question even in the name of curiosity or ask w a generous dose of tact]]> 2021-09-21 13:25:55 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757126855 Bible informs our experience not the other way round https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757133829 2021-09-21 13:27:53 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757133829 Common Space https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757133842 A safe space - where people can feel safe  psychological and have a sense of belonging. 

Intentional in building such a space within cg]]> 2021-09-21 13:27:54 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757133842 Humility https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757137536 Acknowledge that even as an experienced leader, that does not mean we will not make any mistake.

Be humble, apologize and always seek for improvement]]> 2021-09-21 13:28:56 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757137536 Recognize Apathy https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757144211 Acceptance could come from apathy]]> 2021-09-21 13:30:48 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757144211 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757170062 We need to be humble as leaders.

Set boundaries - protect your me time.

Find friends in the ministry]]> 2021-09-21 13:37:03 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757170062 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757189619 First love yourself, appreciate yourself, and experience God's love so that you can serve out of the overflow. ]]> 2021-09-21 13:42:21 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757189619 https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757193673 Longevity in ministry includes a healthy ME time. ]]> 2021-09-21 13:43:28 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757193673 Unpack attraction https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757199365 Romantic attraction vs. admiration]]> 2021-09-21 13:44:57 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757199365 Loving wholeheartedly https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757205942 All the things that we are doing must come from a place of love. Read, study, to help for the betterment of the community as a whole, not just our personal gain/satisfaction.

Also, practical approach & very good perspectives on marriage & answering sexuality issues :)]]> 2021-09-21 13:46:40 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757205942 Listen first https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757207278 Great point to exercise self control and keep the shock of what we hear to ourselves, and posture ourselves to listen to know where they are coming from.]]> 2021-09-21 13:46:54 UTC https://padlet.com/AZDunconference/ta7d5s67u1n4kunk/wish/1757207278