My Gender Stereotypical Life by

Sex & Gender

melissaarreguingaona — 2023-11-26 19:52:16 UTC

Growing up in my culturally influenced household, I was consistently taught that Gender and Sex are closely aligned and essentially synonymous. The belief was that there are only two categories, Male and Female, and anything outside of these distinctions is considered incorrect. It's important to acknowledge that societal views on gender have evolved, and there is increasing recognition of a spectrum of gender identities beyond just male and female. Many people now understand gender as a complex and diverse spectrum that includes identities such as non-binary, genderqueer, and genderfluid, among others. As mentioned in Origin of Gender, human sex is usually linked to biological and physical traits of the body while Gender relates to the performance of roles, identities, and ideas surrounding masculine, feminine, or neutral traits.

Men/Women Duties

melissaarreguingaona — 2023-11-26 20:22:33 UTC

My father, a strict man employed in construction, instilled in my brothers the idea that their responsibilities differ from those traditionally assigned to women. According to this upbringing, the boys were tasked with physically demanding chores around the house, such as taking out the trash, mowing the lawns, trimming the bushes, fixing cars, and addressing household repairs. On the other hand, the girls were expected to manage domestic chores, contribute to creating a warm home atmosphere, and take charge of cooking. This perspective has also had an emotional impact on us, as he maintained the belief that it was acceptable for girls to express their emotions through tears, whereas boys were expected to develop resilience and suppress their emotions. Encouraging emotional expression and resilience in all individuals, irrespective of gender, can contribute to overall emotional well-being and personal development as expressed in Manning Up of Boys Begins in the Cradle.

My Sister is a Product of the Era of Sterilization.

melissaarreguingaona — 2023-11-26 21:00:45 UTC

My mother embodies the societal stereotype that dictates women's roles predominantly center around motherhood, emphasizing the expectation that their reproductive choices should conform to specific norms. However, one event altered her perspective. Yet, as seen in No Más Bebés, the assumption that sterilization is a valid solution without the woman's informed consent perpetuates the idea that women should conform to predefined roles and make decisions in accordance with external judgments. Moreover, the fact that these practices disproportionately targeted Hispanic/Mexican women adds another layer to the issue, indicating how intersecting factors, such as ethnicity, can compound the impact of gender stereotypes. My mother, who is also Hispanic, underwent a similar experience. In her 20s, living in East Los Angeles, her doctor proposed inducing labor and sterilization. Despite being told that her life was in jeopardy and that her baby was not viable, my resilient mother adamantly refused the operation. As months passed, my healthy little sister was born. When my mom shared this story with me years ago, she revealed that they attempted the procedure multiple times, citing different reasons each time, but she consistently declined. The film stirred strong emotions in me, particularly considering the countless women who were involuntarily sterilized and coerced into such decisions. The film serves as a powerful reminder of the importance of advocating for reproductive rights and combating systemic gender and ethnic stereotyping in healthcare.

My Sexual Identity

melissaarreguingaona — 2023-11-26 21:58:20 UTC

During my childhood, I had a fondness for playing with toys typically associated with boys and engaging in sports. However, my mom consistently steered me towards playing with dolls and babies. I have vivid memories of yearning to join my brother and his friends in playing with Hot Wheels, even running around shirtless like my brother did. As I matured, my mom began expressing disapproval of my actions. I was raised in a heterosexual environment, and I believed that I was socialized to adhere to heterosexual norms. I believe that this is a great example of James Marcia's theory in which people go through four stages during their adolescence before achieving a stable identity. According to Marcia's model, my scenario reflects the identity status of "foreclosure." As I got older, I explore different beliefs and, goals, and lifestyle and came to accept that my true identify as a heterosexual.

melissaarreguingaona — 2023-11-26 22:50:40 UTC

The shaping of individuals' perceptions and definitions of sex and gender has been profoundly influenced by societal norms and expectations. Conservatives should be open-minded about sex and gender discussions in our changing society. Recognizing diverse experiences and identities is important. Open-mindedness promotes understanding, compassion, and inclusive conversations that respect how people navigate their identities. Taking a broader view on sex and gender doesn't mean compromising personal values; instead, it encourages a deeper appreciation for the complexity of human experiences, creating a more inclusive and empathetic society for everyone.