https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k We encourage the community to communicate, restore, and open their hearts to one another for them to voice out their sentiments and feelings. en-us 2022-03-22 14:32:40 UTC 2022-03-25 03:25:35 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f3e0.png https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2107768117 My family has been split up since my childhood and my parents have gone on to start their new families. At first I was angry and sad about my situation, but I realized that focusing on my emotions and self pity will not help me get out of the hole I found myself in. Acceptance freed me from a life of misery and blame.]]> 2022-03-22 15:14:58 UTC https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2107768117 https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2107839104 I have been happy back then and proud of myself I was brimming confidence back then but no i have closed my heart to others and becoming introvert i have lost my trust and unsure on what to do now. I have painful memories when i was in high school but I am glad it is over, but the pain is still there. Not only that, but I have many mistakes in the past that i want to change and ask for forgiveness for those who i have hurt I was immature back then but i realize I was hurting them and myself I confess that my jokes can sometimes go over the line that is why i have beginning to talk silently rather being thankful. I am glad that i still have my few close friends even tough they are not many I am satisfied and grateful from them to motivating me and giving me advices. If I have a time machine i want to go back to make up the mistakes that i have i want to say sorry to those that i have hurt i want to say it's my fault. There is also a activity or a word that triggers me to cry everytime i hear it and feeling scared it gave me a traumatic experience back then and i can't still move on. I really hope that in my next life i will be a better human rather than the me now.]]> 2022-03-22 15:44:44 UTC https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2107839104 https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2108003679 I realize the essence of self-love through the hardships I've gone through because without loving ourselves first, we are unable love others too. I was so indulge in self-sacrificing as that was what I thought would make others feel my love. However, I hurt my family and friends in the process of that act because they felt they cannot see my true self. They were very uncomfortable being around me because they thought that I was too forceful to myself just to please them. In that sense, I often see myself as a pet trying to please his/her masters. Until then, my family approached me and told me how I should come out inside the box and just be myself. I think they noticed how I was forcing myself in agreeing to things that I do not even want to. There, I realized how I did not do the things I really loved to do and how I was restraining myself to it. Like myself, I learn to love and treasure my family and friends even more than before because of learning to love myself. LET US ALL LOVE OURSELVES FOR IT IS NOT MERELY A NEGATIVE ASPECT OF SELFISH ACT BUT A POSITIVE HEALING TO ONESELF.]]> 2022-03-22 17:03:03 UTC https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2108003679 https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2113100806 I grew up in a good family. As I get older, I realize that no family is perfect. We are all flawed and has imperfections and I do believe that we are all trying our best to be better. Problems are normal in the family setting but what matters is the way we handle it. Also, I have friends who came from a broken family and I think that my friends are really strong since they are able to handle these situations. It is amazing how they can go on with their lives despite the fact that families are the foundation of love and growth of a child. Some of them lack love and support when they were kids but they stood strong and faced the world with a smile on their faces. Sometimes, we become selfish that we do not consider the situations that other people experiences. At this point in time, I realized that being kind and being a friend that listens and cares can make a difference to those who do not have a complete family. Love really begins at home. We can also be "a home" that always has an open door to welcome and comfort other people. :)]]> 2022-03-25 03:22:39 UTC https://padlet.com/chiabondoc/t08aqgnr8buxyv8k/wish/2113100806