If only I can speak words that you understand .. 

I would tell you how much I suffer from what you do to me. 

You know human, sometimes I just wonder what did I do to deserve to be treated this way. I never mean to harm you, human. In fact, you’re all I care about. 

Dear human, 

If only I can speak words that you understand .. 

I would ask you so many questions. 

I would ask you about the reason behind hitting me. Is it because I did not understand your commands? I am sorry for having a different way of communicating. 

Is it because you are just having a bad day? If this is the reason, then I am sorry for not being able to make you happier. 

Dear human,

If only I can speak words that you understand ..

I would apologize for misbehaving sometimes. It is just that I get so hungry when you don’t feed me for days that I start searching for food anywhere, even in the garbage cans. It is because sometimes you forget me in a locked room for a very long time that I involuntarily pee on the floor. It is just that I get so excited when I see you that I start running and jumping. I am sorry, human. I promise I do not want to misbehave to upset you. 

Dear human,

If only I can speak words that you understand .. 

I would stop barking when Im feeling too cold or extremely hot when I am left outside. But it is the only way I can express my feelings. 

I would stop crying to try to stop you from traveling and leaving me for a long time. But it’s just that I have no way to tell you to take me with you because I  don’t want to be lonely. 

Dear human,

If only I can speak words that you understand .. 

I would tell you how much I love you. I may be a part of your life, but you are my whole life. I would tell you that you’re the only thing that makes me happy, but also the only thing that makes me sad. I would tell you that I feel safe in your presence. 

Dear human, 

If only I can speak words than you understand .. 

I would say thank you for taking care of me, even though you’re busy most of the time. Thank you for feeding me when you can, Thank you for being kind to me when you/re in a good mood. Thank you for allowing me to be your companion when you/re bored. Thank you for making my life. 

But dear human, 

 I do not speak words that you understand, Please try to understand my own way of communication as I try to understand yours. 

I love you, Master. 

Your Dog. 

Back when I was a little girl, I used to hate road trips. I always got bored sitting in a car or a train waiting to reach my destination. Traveling was not exciting for me. By time, as I got older and traveled more, I started to change my own perspective and have control of my happiness. And surprisingly, I found myself in road trips just by changing my perspective. I realized that I admire nature. And thus, I looked for nature in road trips. I started to lose myself in the beauty of the sky. The mixture of colors that takes place above throughout the day makes me happy. I like to memorize and focus on the little details. How the color of the sky beautifully changes in a few minutes. How peaceful the color blue is. It makes me feel sleepy and high. How far the stars are and why one shines brighter than another. What clouds seem to shape. In fact, I shape them as I want. I put in my mind that a cloud looks like a fish, and even though it has nothing to with a fish, I see it just as I want. How the moon changes its shape everyday, resembling different things. Nature is beautiful. It puts me in a weird mood, but a nice kind of weird. I think that if I were a painter, I would always paint stars and waves. I started to love traveling because I get lost and dream away during road trips. I watch everything outside. I realized that I have this thought in my mind when I am in a car looking out a window, that the current moment happens once and only once. I see the grass and the hills on the side. I focus on the different people on the streets and find it amazing and weird that every single person has a totally different life. Different relatives. Different dreams. Different personalities.Everything seems so small from outside though. The outer picture is always deceiving. I love to watch sunrises and daydream at sunsets. During road trips, I dig into my introvert side. And when I reach my destination comes my extrovert side. I get engaged in different activities. I love to sing. Loudly. I love to laugh. To feel free and happy. I love to get along with my family and fit in with my friends. I love to leave my mark on everyone and everything. To be unique. To be my own self. Me and just me. I never thought of such things before, so here I am starting to change my perspective about writing too.

Satisfaction is being happy with whatever you have even if it's not exactly what you want now. Satisfaction is peaceful.

By: Shahd El Hadidy

But we are always obeying our dark minds. 
-Shahd El Hadidy

Isabel Briggs Myers

امال ده اه ؟! 
ده اسمه حب مشوه أو حب بايظ او حب مريضي

انت مشفتش تيمور و شفيقه ! 
شفته ده حب مريضي مشوه بايظ 

مسمعتش اصاله و هي بتقول 
"ليه بنادى الناس باسمك وأبقى خايفة إنى أخاصمك
حاسة إنى بقيت بقاسمك فى الهوا اللى بعيش عليه"

سمعتها ده برده حب مريضي مشوه بايظ

مسمعتش سميره سعيد "
هوا هوا هوا هوا
اساسا انت عليك طريقة بتستحوذني في الحقيقة
الله الله ده اسمه ايه ده الحياة احلوت من امتى
وجودك في حياتي عادة بلاقي فيها سر السعادة
الله الله ده اسمه ايه ده الحياة احلوت امتي
سمعت

انا اسف ان اقول ان أغلب الميديا بتشجع علي التشوه و المرض و البوظان ...

طب اقولك حاجه كمان ! 
اتفضل قول 
عارف لما بتبقي لسه متعرف علي حد وتلاقي نفسك عاوز تشوفه كل يوم و و تتكلم معاه طول النهار و تجبله الدنيا كلها و الكلام ده 

اه عارف ، ماله ده كمان !
ده برده مش حب!

اومال اه !
ده انجذاب او يسمي بردك حاله أفتتان بالشخص الاخر

اومال اه الحب بقي علي كده ؟
الحب هو اختيار !

نعم ؟؟؟
ايوه اختيار ان تحب شخص عارف عنده مشاكل كذا و كذا و كذا ..... اختيار انك تسعد الحد التاني بانك تعمل حاجه مش عاوز تعملها ( بس طبعا تكون حاجه مش بتيجي عليك حاجه صح و كويسه يعني)
الحب مبني علي معرفه و ثقه و ايمان بالشخص التاني ، بيخليك كل يوم تجدد اختيارك حتي لو مشاعرك نقصت و ضعفت مع الوقت
الحب الحقيقي مفهوش حاجه اسمها مشاعري اتغيرت .. لانها مهما اتغيرت هاختار احبك و ترجع تاني عادي

الحب انك تسمع و انت مش قادر تسمع، تساعد و انت تعبان
تحتوي و انت ملكش نفس ... تفضل الاخر و انت بطبعك اناني و عايز نفسك الاول

الحب هو جو أمن ... مفيهوش خوف ... و لا تخوين ... و لا رفض و لا سيطره و لا تملك

الحب حريه و انطلاق و ابداع 

الحب المبني علي انجذاب و مشاعر هو حب كداب ... هو فيلم مراهقه بايخ

الحب الحقيقي الي بجد مش هتلقيه في الأفلام الرومانسيه و لا الاغاني العاطفيه هتلقيه في غسيل المواعين و غسل الهدوم و مسح الارض ... هتلقيه في وقت الازمات الماليه و الفشل الكبير ....هتلقيه مع المرض و الضعف مع فقدان ناس قريبه ... هتلقيه لما المشاعر تخلص و الانجذاب ينتهي و تقرر برده تحب

الحب اختيار متجدد
بس الموجود في السوق دلوقتي أغلبه مشوه و بايظ و مريضي بيملئ فراغ و السلام
#خواطري#مايكل مجدي#
References:
1) 5 Love languages, Dr Gary Chapman
2) Boundaries in dating, Henry Cloud and John Townsend
3) Boundaries, Dr.Henry cloud
4) Codependent no more ,Melody Beattie
5) Men from mars women from Venus, John Gary 
6)Redeeming Love, Francine Rivers
7) علاقات خطرة, د محمد طه
8)صحه العلاقات ,د أوسم وصفي
9)أبعاد الحب ,هنري بولاد
10) أساسيات أختيار شريك الحياه , سامي فوزي
11) 303 سؤال قبل ان تقول نعم ,المشير سمير
12)Adultery , Paulo Coelho

Writtenby : Micheal Magdi 
I read this on Facebook and I totally agree with it