Building Connections by Danielle Bayard Jackson

Be a "super connector"

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If I notice there are others in the chapter who share her interests or who can help her with an issue, I'll facilitate an opportunity for them to link up

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Connect struggling members

Happy birthday texts

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Happy birthday texts!

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Having confidence and positivity with ideas given!!

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Make chapter meetings more positive

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Reach out to girls you see who aren’t very involved

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Listen to and appreciate them - judgement free!

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Foster more positive conversations and discourage gossiping and/or complaining.

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Be an open ear

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Choosing joy

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Schedule blind coffee dates with sister who you think should be more connected

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Facilitate study groups for majors

Feel more connected

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Have other options for sober bondings if a girl isn’t comfortable doing something!

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Ask specific and genuine questions

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prevent cliques from forming

PACE

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Having more informal / no pressure events!

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Be more approachable as an exec board allowing all the girls to feel comfortable speaking to us

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Doing a highlight of the week/day after chapter to make it a more positive environment

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Giving a girl a compliment to have a positive interaction

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talk to each and every girl during chapter

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Check in on members who have become less involved

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Host more events to increase the time we are spending with each other!

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Spreading positive vibes around the room

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allow for more opportunities to connect and bond between their member class and the student other classes

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Communication during chapter meetings about things that affect the house as a whole.

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be responsive to our members feedback

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be more vulnerable, if they see that from me that they’ll feel more comfortable to be vulnerable with us

Sister dates

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Allow for intimate relationships and friendships to form by allowing opportunity for more one-on-one interactions.

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Utilize non exec positions!

Getting to know other membership class!!!

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Being readily available to girls who need to reach out to someone

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Assign exec members all groups of girls to look after. Do study hours with, check in on and so on

Knowing names

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Standing and welcome people in the front to chapter and making sure to call people by their names and if one is unknown introduce yourself and help to foster more of a community

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Making their presence be known, shouting them out and letting them know that they are loved!

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Stop gossiping as much and foster more positive interactions

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Make individual connections with each girl

Connect one on one more often

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Reaching out to members who you haven’t seen in a while, letting them know that you’re concerned and you care about them.

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Reach out to one another!

Initiating deep conversations between members

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Accept differences and embrace them for their differences

Cliques

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Try and not “eliminate” cliques but make more of an effort to reach out to sisters you do not usually hang out with

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Reach out to people who you might not normally talk to.

Reaching out!

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go on assigned “sister dates” so have members bond one on one with ppl outside of their circle

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Limiting venting times in chapter!

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Be sure to make an effort to talk to other sisters who you normally don’t see or talk to on a daily basis.

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Making sure positions eat with not just eachother (branching out into the chapter)

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Reach out to those who may be struggling and act as a resource for them

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Healthy Transparency between members, use it to address problems in a positive way.

Informal Hangouts With Sisters

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be a listener and make sure others feel that their opinions are valued even though you may have a different opinion.

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Promote sisterhood within chapter meetings to foster connection in times of seriousness

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Find common interests and work from there

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positive conversations and comments at all events and chapter meetings

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make sure that sisterhood events are truly beneficial and that each member can take away something for them!

Have more bonding events

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There’s no agenda for Philanthropy, Recruitment, or any other topic than just getting together and enjoying the sisterhood.

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have MC sisterhood events so members can feel more connected to their MC even after the new member period!

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Host sisterhood events that encourage team work and communication

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Words of encouragement make sure they feel welcome even if it’s something as small as commenting on their IG post

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create new connections right off the bat

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create groups of random girls to go on study dates

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Text every member happy birthday on their birthday

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Organize people into groups based off similarities like major, hobbies etc

Vulnerability

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Go to new members and start to make those connections so they will feel at home in the chapter

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consistently form and foster new relationships within the chapter

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Setting a good example as an executive board and growing our relationship together to help others

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If I notice a girl has been more checked out compared to others I’ll check in on her

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Work on a project to help others outside the chapter. Philanthropy events!

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get outside of your bubble!

Connecting with New Members

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Encourage new members to come to the house often to make the experience less intimidating from the get go

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invite the sisters sitting alone to join you at dinner

making them feel seen, and letting them know their voice is herd

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Having more informal organized events to foster sisterhood and bring in more of the chapter

Exec outreach

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Exec, stay after chapter meeting and talk with girls you maybe wouldn’t regularly interact with outside of axo! Ask how their weekend was, ask about school, get to know them and be connected. Doesn’t need to be super deep, just interaction so they feel noticed and welcomed :)

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Reaching out to people you don’t normally talk to even though it may feel difficult

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Reach out the girls that aren’t as involved & make them feel wanted in the chapter. If they feel wanted, they will begin showing up!🩷

Anonymous

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Be a shoulder to lean on

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Having mc events to keep classes close!

Increasing connections

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Planning sisterhood events specifically for families to go to together

Ice breakers

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Ask an ice breaker before exec or committee meetings

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Inviting them to sisterhoods and offering to go together!

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Create your chapter slides more fun or funny so more people want to show up

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Speak positive things about them!

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Highlight small wins for girls in the chapter!

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facilitate more interactions and socials between MCs

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reach out to girls you might not know and try to build stronger relationships

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Reach out to sisters to touch base more often

Still be human

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Sometimes we have those tough conversations but it’s important that we remain as humane and real with each other to help build that trust and genuine support

Give grace!

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genuine conversations

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rather than just saying hi to everyone, have a genuine and real conversation with girls i wouldn’t normally share personal details with!

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Go out of your way to invite and encourage members to attend more events both formal and informal!

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Being positive and supportive of all members. Making sure all members feel included and welcomed!

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i can do my part to reach out and make connections with sisters i wouldn’t normally talk to

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small acts of kindness

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Make calendar reminders to check in on people or follow up on their events or situations

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Make sure everyone is mentally okay. And trying to get to know each person on a more personal level.

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Having an open floor moment at chapter for any announcements

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weekly check ins from risk and daily’s for those that need it!!

We can host more sisterhood events outside of chapter to make everyone feel more connected. This can also help all of our sisters remember why we chose AXO in the first place!!

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Exec partner small groups with girls that aren’t in the same friend groups/majors/mcs

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making everyone feel included and being a positive person in everyone’s lives

allow members to share their opinions and concerns and take them in with a open mind

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open a space for honest communication

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connecting the chapter to exec members to make them feel more positively towards leadership!

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Vary sisterhood events, bigger as well as more intimate ones, to allow girls to work on each type of connection

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more informal events/ connecting girls who don’t really interact

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Check in on sisters

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Being a person that someone can ALWAYS talk to

Show that you can provide a safe space and be there

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Thinking before you make judgements and look at things from the sisters perspective

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Be intentional about the check-ins and pay attention to attitudes and actions

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Creating more informal events for people to be able to build connects on a weekly basis

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Ask at least one sister to lunch a week

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Assign the exec board to intentionally reach out to segments of the chapter so that everybody gets a touch point

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Make all ages of girls in the house feel connected as one!!! Just because someone is older does not mean you can’t creating lasting friendships and connections with them.

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Make sure everyone’s voice is heard

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Going and spending more time in others rooms

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Getting to know members on a deeper level

Notes

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Secret positive notes to each other and put them on each others doors

Listen

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even if you don’t agree, giving your girls a platform for their voice/side to be heard can create that trusting bond between you and other chapter members.

Connecting

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going up to someone you may not always talk to and encourage them to do the same, start a domino effect.

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Encourage vulnerability and understanding as a chapter so we can build positivity among our connections with one another!!

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Ensure exec sets tone of morale throughout the house, attitude towards attending events and day to day mood

more smaller sisterhood events

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Treat others how you want to be treated!

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This sounds so simple but treating others with kindess and respect no matter how you’re feeling can make such a difference for them

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Go out of your way to reach out to those who are more reserved, new, etc. Make them feel seen & loved!

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additional informal opportunities and matching programs

Branching out!

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Talk to new people at every event!!

Conversations

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Continuing to create spaces where sisters feel like they can be vulnerable!

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working to educate members on the history of the organization and how special it is to make them feel excited to be part of something larger than themselves

Host more sisterhood events centered towards what members want

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Encouraging members to reach out to us if they have any sisterhood ideas, show genuine appreciation if they have any ideas and return positive feedback! -UCR axo

Connections!!

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Fostering relationships by reaching out to people we don’t normally talk to and say we are excited to see them in the hopes that they branch out and come more often

Sharing Feelings

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Make it known to all members that they should not feel forced or pressured to talk about topics that they do not want to.

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Do more hands on with different sister. Getting the sisters excited about the events.

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Use more positive language when giving feedback in open discussions, take any constructive criticism feedback up with specific exec members.

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Small acts of kindness.

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Focus less on events and more on the beginning of the transition process for the new members.

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Make sure everybody is taken into account and has a chance to be heard.

weekly texts

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send a text to a sister you might not always talk too, check up on her, get coffee etc. keep recruiting our sisters

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sister of the week!

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Make sure to reach out to all sisters equally and try to get know more sister you may not be as close with

More opportunities

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Make more opportunities for sisters to come to event

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play more hype music

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Create more interactive group conversations during chapter

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creating opportunities to get to know a sister you’re not as close to like randomly assigning teams during a sisterhood game night

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sister dates with members from exec and especially to new mems!

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Making the Exec board more approachable! We are the leaders and the girls need to know they can come to us for anything!

POST IT NOTES

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Write Post-it notes for girls, who have an exam, having a rough day, to hype them up in the mornings, or anything to make them feel special

Chapter buddies! pairing together sisters for an informal chapter to connect, particularly ones that haven’t interacted much before!

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find common ground and provide opportunities for members to bond with each other

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Include the younger members in unofficial plans so they have more interactions with the chapter than just formal meetings

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checking in with members we know are going through tough times

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Reaching out to members and actually following through and continue to check on them

Mental Health checks

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Include girls you don’t normally talk to

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Conduct activities and events that allow the older and younger pcs to bond and form friendships.

do group surveys to highlight common interests ! speed dating for sisterhood events :)

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Be a safe space for people!

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Talk to younger members at events/chapter so they know you are there for them

Celebrate their wins!

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have a “weather report” at the beginning of each chapter to see how each member is feeling and what their weather is looking like for the week

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Sitting with someone new outside of your “friendgroup” and learn something new about one of your sisters

Emphasis positivity

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Creating an environment of positivity can help girls want to be a part of the group. This could be done by shouting out members achievements at chapter or in weekly chapter communication!

Fostering new friendships

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Randomizing who rides in cars together for social events rather than pairing up friends.

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being intentional

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Encouraging members to hang out with sister not in their immediate circle with bonding events

Include younger members consciously

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Being an active listener. By giving a sister the time to talk to you or rant about something and proving that you really are listening and taking in what she is saying.

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foster small group convos - switch up typical friend groups with new people

Minimize cliques in chapters

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It’s totally okay to have a smaller group that your closer with but making sure that you are approachable and making the effort to include others can make a connection grow.

Connections

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Check in with your sisters by text of in person

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During standards meeting, make it feel like we are helping them more and not having them in trouble since there is a stigma with standards meetings.

Showing you care

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Checking in on people, showing during chapter you are always a person people can talk to no matter what

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reaching out to those you don’t usually interact with

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working to make sure that chapter meeting focus on the positives and all the things that went well, then working to fix the things that need work in committee meetings

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having outlets for smaller group connection within each member class

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Reach out to girls you haven’t talked to much and hangout at the house or a park

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Have opportunities in chapter to shout girls out or start deep conversations

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Being vulnerable with your sisters

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Encouraging hanging out with members who may not be in your “friend group”!

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Create events for different member classes to hangout

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Connecting more outside of sisterhoods

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Making the effort to sit with a sister you don’t know as well during meals or sisterhood events

Love positively!

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Whether it’s checking in with girls after you know they are having a hard week or if it’s someone you don’t normally talk to, there are always ways to connect with more sisters! It’s important to foster that more personal and intimate friendships with everyone in the chapter equally and positively.

How to make my chapter feel more connected

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We are working on involving more activities at the end of recruitment including multiple member classes, this way the new members get to meet there older peers

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checking in with sisters more often

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Encourage spending more time together whenever possible- sisterhood events, study groups, meals, etc.

Positive friendships

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Place ourselves in conversations that are gossip or vent heavy and steer the conversation in a different direction.

Always seem available

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Even if life is busy and you may not be available, seeming as if you’re always open to talk to members at any time of day creates an inviting space. And if you are busy, don’t show it and create a time to meet with members that come to you.

Make everyone feel involved

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I think it’s easy for people to have a bad attitude about events when they feel like they aren’t included it in. If they were asked questions or given jobs to do it makes it more personal and creates a more positive experience.

Connections

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Holding sisterhood events that generate positivity and allow girls to be vulnerable

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Helping members get in touch with other sisters in their grade, and getting them outside of their social groups

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We allow members who have a particular hobby to lead small informal sisterhood events more frequently (hiking, painting, yoga, etc) in addition to larger events.

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communicate more frequently between eboard and our members

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emphasize doing things with your sorority family! it’s so great having girls you can go to in different pledge classes to reach out to if you’re having trouble connecting with your own class

Keep the groupchat casual

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invite girls to lunch, send texts if we’re going to be in a common space studying, etc

positivity connections

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go out of your way to talk to someone you don’t usually everyday

Exec Dinners

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A lot of our exec board is different friend groups so it would be nice for everyone to get dinner together and sit next to someone they don’t normally sit with!

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Create a standard of community/ talking to new people and everyone

positivity meetings!

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crs isn’t all about what you did wrong! it’s all about a place to grow and take responsibility which doesn’t have to bebad. showing appreciation for people who go above and beyond fosters growth. of

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communicate more one-on-one

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giving girls compliments and making sure to say hi to them even when busy

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Making sure everyone is included and feels welcome

Gamma Phi!!

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make sure to check in on them and have a comfortable environment where they can open up and be themselves 100% 🫶

Create A Safe Space

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Making someone feel loved and like they matter make the biggest difference in them opening up and becoming closer to the chapter

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I think it’s important to have someone you trust and who will support you thorough anything

have office ours for members to meet exec

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through events that aren’t necessarily mandatory but rather seen as fun for everyone to get to know each other better

Exec connections

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Make exec accessible and have everyone work on fostering relationships, especially across classes! Everyone should be seen as human!

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educating new members on chapter history, membership standards, etx

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highlight positive things sisters have done during the week

Create Sub-Groups

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Organize members by major, hobbies, outside involvement, etc! This allows for more connection outside of just member class lines

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talk to new members more at times like meals and sisterhood events so they can feel the connection!

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asking girls personally what’s one change they would like to see in their membership

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spread positivity

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Connecting with all sisters and not just those we are the closest with more regularly

FITB FRIDAY POSTS!!

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sisterhood

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Reach out and talk to sisters you may not have come into the chapter with to foster those relationships not just with some of the chapter but the chapter as a whole

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making sure no one feels like the exec board is more important than normal members

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Being approachable and considerate as exec members and helping towards the contribution of intentional relationships across the chapter

sister of the week!

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we do this every week to uplift our sisters and bring notice to how much we admire them!

Encouragement

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As a leader I can encourage others to be more present and have a more positive mindset on life. I also want to increase involvement in the house and make it a fun welcoming environment for everyone.

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Start with the simplest of ways to connect with your sisters at a personal level.

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set members up on coffee dates with each other (alpha chai dates) randomly to meet ppl who they haven’t talked to recently

Sister Dates

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Our chapter commonly divides into friend groups, so I think that by incorporating randomly selected “sister dates” people that do not generally hang out or have the chance to bond can do so.

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Finding time to reach out to the members that aren’t as involved and letting them know that they’re valued in the chapter. It’s not about forceful inclusion, but the effort to include members so that they find motivation to engage themselves💗

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always show up to events and make it a priority

Encouraging members to share ideas and feedback to tailor their experience to what they want more

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Making sisterhood events more intimate so it shows that there’s something deeper within the sisterhood of the chapter so deeper connections will be formed

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creating random seating arrangements at different events to encourage new friendships

Positivity

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As an exec member, become a very positive presence in members lives

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Remind the younger girls that they have a community of people to lean on

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Having more sisterhoods and bringing more positivity in the chapter

Inclusivity

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Use inclusive language and discussions regarding members who aren’t the majority or necessarily accepted immediately.

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Facilitating meaningful conversations

Smile at someone and compliment them on their outfit, their hair aything

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Being more open to reaching out to sisters who you don’t know as well! And making sure you don’t alien anyone.

Comprehensive projects

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We could do projects as a sisterhood that make us feel like we are a part of that “greater than us” whether that be community service or projects that make the house better

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Foster a community in which people feel they can be vulnerable without being judged.

Enforce positive conversation

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Direct your chapter toward optimism in every conversation, flip perspectives

Promote interaction

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Especially with those members that are not super involved in chapter attendance or activities. Reaching out to let them know that they are still valued within the chapter

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Make new members feel more welcome and meet older members in chapter other than people who wanna pick up. - axo UCR

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find the little things in common that are special to each relationship 🤍

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Create spaces where girls are encouraged to meet and be in community with other sisters they aren’t as familiar with!

More genuine conversations

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Having events that foster a supportive environment dedicated to creating lasting friendships

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Share a sunshine ☀️ with her to lift her spirits or celebrate her

Building connections

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Arranging for sisters with similarities to hang out to foster more connections

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have more sisterhood events and events throughout the week (like hanging out at the house)

Coffee Dates!

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Have dates with different girls every week someone who isnt in your friend group

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listening with love and reminding ppl it’s okay to be themselves by being open and authentically yourself as well.

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have more events that involve all grades

Supporting sisters passions

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Go see their performances in other campus clubs and or sports!!!!!! :))))

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Open discussions on how the chapter would want to connect with eachother along with having activities where groups change so nothing is clicky.

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Invite them to events and make sure they are loving alpha chi.

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Sit with someone new at a meal and ask how their day was! ❤️💚

Connecting with Sisters

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Make sure people feel seen/heard when in conversation.

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being inclusive and work on not having cliques within the chapter

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I want to bring back sister of the week in my chapter which is when i call on a random girl in the chapter and she has to say something she was proud her other sister did that week

schedule check ins with mcs

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CRS AFTER DARK

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Opening up my home as VP CRS one night a week for girls to come in off the record and just get everything they have bottled up out. Also, doing this will help foster more helpful conversations because some girls are too scared to open up to the whole board.

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being intentional with our words and our actions and making sure they align with what we sell new members on during recruitment

Choosing Joy

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Begin to encourage conversations that are more optimistic. Often times people begin convos with “I’m tired” or “I’m stressed” then it comes to a collective negative agreement. I think instead, trying to gear the convos to look at the work we do in a more positive light will make a minor but important difference

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Give girl’s opportunity’s to get to know each other more with different activities whether it is after a chapter meeting or during recruitment workshops.

Philanthropy

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Encourage girls to attend philanthropy events by making them required or worth extra points

Doing team sisterhood events and mixing people up

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Attempt to branch out and talk to more people than just your close circle.

try new things

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Different ideas and events that not everyone suggests but that some girls feel interested in. It’s important to pay attention to all members interests and wants

Stop Complaining

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We do a good job of lifting each other up, but I would like if members stopped complaining about rules or everyday stuff, especially to new members

transparency

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encouraging transparent, real conversations between exec and other members of the chapter. making sure we don’t dissuade them from coming to us or make them feel out of the loop

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Random more casual sisterhood events

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Sister sister dates, plan activities that separate by similarities

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If someone mentions something about something important coming up in life like a big test or something they’re nervous about, follow up and check in on them about that. Remembering what people tell you even in a short conversation can help make them feel more seen

Snap Cup

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We have a container in our house where siblings have the opportunity to write a compliment to another sibling and put it into our snap cup. Our president picks a few to read for the chapter during every informal meeting and spread love and encouragement to our siblings

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communicate more openly about things; not just chapter/axo businesses

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Note & Check on girls you haven’t seen in a while

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Making sure that girls not on exec are always kept involved in things so there’s no feelings of exclusion.

Forming More Relationships

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Create more opportunities for people to interact with people they normally maybe wouldn’t — events/sisterhoods like freshmen senior dinner

Fostering Connections

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I can reach out to my sisters who I haven’t seen that week to check in on how they’re doing, where they’ve been, and make sure they feel a sense of belonging.

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Go to events!!

Excitement

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Speaking with enthusiasm about events and values to show others that their presence is wanted

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member shoutouts at chapter!

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Do partner sisterhood events and pair people who you think would connect well!!

Being loved is being considered!

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Remembering important dates, dislikes and like and act on those!

More events that are low stress to encourage more members to show up when they can

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Lead with kindness

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Showing the chapter that we as an exec board, that we are leading our chapter as those who want the best for them, not a power trip. Inspiring others to do the same

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facilitate more events that bring girls out of their comfort zone and they might have to talk to people that they have never talked to before-creates more variety of bonds in chapter

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Celebrate success together!

Asking a mood rating

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Asking at chapter and events how everyone is feeling to set the expectations for the day

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have more events at the house for out of house women to partake in!

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encourage involvement and let them know they will have always have a friend in me at the event

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make an effort to see sisters outside of our mandatory events to show that are connections are intentional and genuine

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fines can be alienating, so sending personal reminders to people when they’re in danger of being fined

Foster light weight conversations!

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It’s easy to feel like every conversation you have with girls must be “deep” or you must “really learn who they are”, but in reality, creating light, fun, conversation conveys a sense of belonging and joy.

Barrier between exec and members

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Hosting “meet an exec member night” to breakdown the barrier between exec members and chapter members that is common in bigger chapters. This may help girls feel more comfortable approaching exec with issues, concerns and ideas for the chapter.

Promoting average days

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Allowing sisters to be not fine

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Facilitate conversations about connection, and have the chapter help brainstorm ways theyd like to connect to one another

consistent positivity

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hold weekly sisterhood bonding events at different times and places to make forming friendships accessible for everyone

Regular sister dates!

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Never stop meeting new sisters!!!!

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Put an emphasis on sisterhood and really trying to get members to participate in these types of events. Encouraging connections between various member classes, and small everyday “hello”s etc

Helping our members be vulnerable

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As a CRS and exec board we can make members feel comfortable sharing their hardships and keep it confidential to build their trust and encourage vulnerability.

Promoting average days

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Allowing sisters to be not fine

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Member class events!!

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Create a positive environment for everyone.

Make them feel seen

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Example- Why AXO Wednesday posts

Creating environments to tear down cliques

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Create environments for sisters to be able to open up and be vulnerable with sisters that you wouldn’t usually connect with! Continue to be INTENTIONAL with all conversations that you have.

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Learn names!

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emphasize the importance of helping and supporting new members in times where they contemplate their membership

increasing connections

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as leaders, our words have the power to inspire our siblings, so we should try to make as many people feel seen as we can.

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saltburn watch party

Complete Transparency

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Being on Exec doesn’t make us any more superior to our sisters, so sharing ideas and important decisions with all of the members is a healthy way to build trust and make our sisters happy

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exec should hype up each others’ events

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Alpha chi and omega sis’ throughout the year and not just in a new member period

Mental health check ins

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as risk i made a mental health survey and check in on girls who seem to be a bit more at risk or we as eboard are worried about

Be Transparent whenever possible

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Ensure a trusting and genuine relationship between the rest of the chapter and the executive board to create less of a divide

Consistent Informal Events

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I think it would really beneficial if our house could have 1 informal event a week on a consistent basis so there something fun and positive to always look forward too

Experience / create something together

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I think it’s important to have something to bond over and remember when we look back to it

Reaching out more to other in different member classes.

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Including non eboard members

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When it comes to themes, shirt ideas, dates, or anything else, it is nice to include everyones opinions!

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planning more sisterhoods!!

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If you notice a sister isn't seeming like herself, check in with her just in case and see how she's doing

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more interconnected events with our member classes, allowing for upperclassmen and new members to meet and spend time with each other!!

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Fireside but with smaller groups so girls feel more comfortable (randomized groups so girls can make new friends within the chapter)

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take the time to talk to others you may not usually talk to!

Mindfulness

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Choose to find what you love about sisters who are different from you

Connections

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Making conversations personal and allowing members feel heard, that their opinions, feelings, thoughts matter.

Advisor Says YES

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As an advisor, offer more yes. Support and encourage and hype with yes. Less “you can’t”. Less “you shouldn’t”

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Book club. Compliment intentionally, daily look for multiple opportunities.

Affinity Groups

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Figure out different interests of members and allow women to join different affinity groups like movie lovers, Pilates, foodies, and sports etc.

It begins with ourselves

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In order to see change and connection within the chapter we must recognize it within ourselves first. We should value relationships and the since of community. But that can only happen if we want it to.

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Write anonymous letters to sisters

Positive Person

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Pick someone who pulls their weight in the chapter and write them a cute note.

open my home

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working on checking on individual girls by opening my house to hangout with girls who are just bored and are lacking connections

Checking in

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Check in and support girls who seem like they are struggling.

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weekly challenge! (example: text a sister that you don’t know very well a genuine complement that isn’t about her looks! (not hair or makeup or outfit)

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Show up for other sisters (watch their intramural games, go to their concerts)

vulnerability and judgement

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We feel as though that it is easy to have a lot of judgement when a group of girls come together. We think that when we are more vulnerable with each other, the judgement subsides. Firesides are a good way to be vulnerable

Walk a day in her shoes

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Facilitating an informal event where sisters answer a questionnaire about life experiences. The form will stay anonymous but they will get passed around and people will step forward if “they” have experienced that. This is an easy way for the girls to be vulnerable and understand that there are other women in the chapter who have experienced similar things as them!

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More small groups

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Invite them to things

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Reach out and involve others

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Be real and invite and include everyone

be ferda

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Smile at and compliment someone you don’t know!

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always include people! make them feel welcome

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Invite them to hangout after class

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add new girls to group chats

INCLUDE!!!!!!

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text them to check up on them!

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being nice and welcoming

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Make sure everyone is included

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Smile! It goes a long way

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check up on people you see struggling maybe

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reach out to new people!

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if you see girls sitting alone ask them if they want to sit with us

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Commenting on people’s post even if you don’t talk all the time

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Daily affirmations

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Sit with girls you see sitting alone at chapter and meals

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Chat with them if you see them out somewhere even if you dont know them too well

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Don’t judge them, show them you are empathetic.

2025-09-09 00:09:17 UTC

Invite them to Bible study

Be kind always even if you aren’t interested in someone being your “best friend”

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If you see someone alone invite them to join you

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be kind to one another and not single other girls out

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Simple check ins randomly! Even if it’s just a hey what’s up!

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sit by someone sitting alone at chapter

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just saying hello when you see them wearing letters on campus off campus

Connect connections

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Introduce your friends to each other!

invite girls to sit with you when they are looking lost not knowing where to sit

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put their comfort above yours!

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Sit by someone new at lunch or chapter!!

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try and talk to as many girls as you can when u go to chapter/events

Walk up to girls that look like they are alone/don't have anyone and be there someone

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Talk to someone new each day

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introduce yourself to one new person per day

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Reoccurring blind dates throughout the year

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Be more inviting when I see people alone/not with a big group of people

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Be there for them and let them know you are always willing to talk

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Being nice to everyone - see someone that is sitting alone and invite them to sit with you!!

Do the little things

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Smile at someone when you pass by, hold open a door, say hello!

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Give random compliments to people to brighten their day and start conversations!!

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Check in texts especially during big testing times

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Complements are keyyyy

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i can listen to the girl who gets interrupted in a group convo

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If in a group and someone is being ignored LOCK IN ON THEM!!! show them SOMEONE is listening

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Reach out when you know they are going through something or making someone’s birthday really special

Reach out to them!

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Reach out to someone you have been thinking about talking to a lot and ask them a question about something that you have in common.

say hi and compliment them at the house even if you don’t know them well

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something as easy as complimenting an outfit can make someone feel supported

Reach out to the girls sitting alone in the dining halls or in chapter.

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be present and responsive

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I can’t sit at the emptier tables at lunch or with people who are sitting alone and chat with them and get to know them.

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Invite them to go to lunch at the house, do a study date, go to a campus event, or a sports event like a basketball game on campus too

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Sit by someone at lunch

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invite people to go to the house for meals with you

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Create more opportunities to get to know what each girl is passionate about

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follow up with close and not super close people i am with so they feel I care and i can connect with

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Reach out to someone new and ask them to go do something with you

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Ask people you aren’t close with to hang out and get to know them

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talk to new people at meals

Give people all the resources to grow! Help is necessary not a hindrance

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Comment on random alpha chis post and compliment them !

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Ask to hangout throughout the week with new people.

text in a big gc asking if anyone wants to go to lunch

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someone is more than likely to respond

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Invite to pregame

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Don’t be closed off when having a conversation with someone new, continue to be open to new relationships.

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invite girls that ik don’t have plans to our pre parties before our social events

LOVE ON THEM

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Send out texts and show that you’re supporting them unconditionally!!! Just a smile whenever you see them!!

Invite someone who looks lonely to sit with you

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Talk to the quiet girl

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Talk to the quiet girl because she most likely would love to have someone to talk to.

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Telling someone that something reminds you of them

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Make sure that when you see someone who might not always be included or feel super at home make sure to go out of your way to invite her to something or introduce her to new girls.

Encouragement

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Send a weekly text of checking in or telling your friends that you are thinking of them and you hope their week is good.

making others feel seen and valued.

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Watch out for people who often sit alone

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Join a club and invite other people to go with!

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Complimenting them or reaching out separately and talking to them and inviting them to events with you

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do something that they like to do with them

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Always compliment the girls, and smile and maybe say hey as you see them walking around campus, town, etc.

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Give a compliment

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Always sit with someone that’s alone at lunch

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Be intentional in what you do and how you maintain the relationships and friendships by reaching out periodically

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random check ups

Start a conversation

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Make and effort no matter if it’s just inviting someone to eat with you or no making an effort to start a conversation is important and makes people feel seen.

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compliment her personality

Open yourself up to being friends with more than just your member class

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be friends with seniors! be friends with juniors! trying to explore all relationships and not just the girls in your year or class

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Instead of saying “do you want to come with me” say “I would love for you to come with me!”

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if you see a sister sitting alone ask them to join

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invite them to dinner!!

Ask genuine questions and care about the answers.

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After hearing things from a sister, ask her about it again later and show that you were listening and genuinely care.

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More small group bonding with different girls

Text them

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Randomly text other girls about their days and how class had been etc

Tailgating & football!

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Invite someone to join you at a football game, the more the merrier!

Sister date party

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Girls night out with your sisters

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Invite people who you may normally not talk with to hang out. Sometimes you find friendships with people you would’ve never expected

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if you have a compliment in your mind. don’t keep it in, say it to that person. brighten their day. and introduce yourself as you do it

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Invite people to come sit with you at lunch if they’re sitting by themselves.

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Go up to the quiet people in the corner and talk to them!

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sounds crazy but comment on random girls insta posts that you may not know but yall are connected through sisterhood

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let them know that ur not judging them and ur taking in their differences an making them feel comfortable about it even if it’s something you disagree with

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if you see someone standing or sitting alone, go over to them introduce yourself and invite them to stay with you.

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Be the first girl to go up to someone when they are looking a little alone/distant in a group setting.

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be kind to everyone and stop acting like your better because we’re all in the same chapter

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Invite them to do things with sisters you may be closer with

Saying hi and having a conversation when you see them out

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check up on them or ask them about what’s going on in their life and maybe go on walk with them

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Invite someone new or reach out to someone knew in your already established group to avoid cliches

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reach out to people who look lonely and give a smile to everyone you see. maybe even strike up a conversation with someone you recognize

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Invite girls to sit with you at the house during lunch or go get coffee with some of you’re new sisters

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Go up and talk to someone if they’re sitting alone and start having a conversation about literally anything at all

Reach out to other girls in other sororities

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When making even 1 friends in another sorority that opens a whole new door to a larger group of people for you and yourself

Send a hey just thinking about you how are you text

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compliement sisters!

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Reaching out to girls that are tend to be my themselves

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introduce a girl i just met to my group of friends, especially if she reminds me of someone specifically

Connect girls that are struggling with being extroverts or making friends

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Invite them to things and keep them involved

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Reach out to people even if you don’t know them that well and that can open new friendships

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connect struggling members

invite girls who are struggling,to events that will have a smaller amount of girls, so they can make better connections

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Sit with someone you don’t know at lunch or dinner one day. You might make a new friend!

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Ask them on a deeper level how they are really feeeling.

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try to make them laugh and always include everyone

smile when you see a sister even if you don’t know them

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Have casual events that everyone can come to! Casual=less pressure which can be helpful when we're all so busy!

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Talk to other girls who aren’t very connected with others members and become a friendly face to them

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If you see a new member looking lonely invite her to sit with you.

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Don’t be afraid to sit with someone in their sadness or loneliness or anxiousness. It can make a huge difference and foster more meaningful friendships.

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Invite girls who are alone to sit with me and my friends at chapter

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share an intimate moment when they share one, so they feel like they arent over sharing

2025-09-09 00:10:03 UTC

go out of your way to speak to new girls and invite new girls to sit with them/be a part of their group for chapter activities

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Just ask them how their day is going. A little conversation starter goes along way in people’s lives.

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Invite people even if you don’t think they can or want to go

Show them opportunities that they may not be aware of. Show them they aren’t alone/ everyone goes through good times & bad times.

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make sure to reach out to them even if its as simple as asking how their day is going!

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Reach out and talk to girls you may not normally talk to

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involve others around us when eating lunch or doing group activities or just checking up on people

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if you see a girl with her tag out of her dress you can fix it for her without saying anything to make her feel embarrassed

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If you see a sister sitting alone or being more quiet then usual, text her or go up to her after chapter and ask if she would want to go on a coffee date or a walk and catch up

Sit by someone you don’t know at lunch every so often!

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have movie night with some sisters your not as close to.

2025-09-09 00:10:10 UTC

Look around and branch out. Text them every week. If all time is taken I can text to reach out and make sure they know that they are still on my mind. Make plans if available. But atleast text them.

2025-09-09 00:10:12 UTC

Give a compliment to a new girl everyday or if you are having lunch at the house and you see someone sitting alone you should join them

2025-09-09 00:10:13 UTC

Reach out to her and have a standing weekly hangout. Like grabbing Starbucks at the library in between a class.

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if you see them in the square and something is coming up you can say like oh let’s connect about this and talk about what we’re doing for the event or what we’re wearing

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sit with a girl who is sitting alone

Get sendy

2025-09-09 00:10:15 UTC

Reach out maybe once or twice a month and maybe even suggest a hang out!

2025-09-09 00:10:15 UTC

really engage with what they have to say and really be involved in their conversation with you. reply with more then just “yes” or “no” when they ask you questions and really listen to what they are saying!!

2025-09-09 00:10:16 UTC

Ask to sit next to a girl who is sitting alone. Spend time with them (during meals, chapter, etc.) and explore a connection

2025-09-09 00:10:16 UTC

Involved them in the things you are doing, sitting and eating at the house, walk to the house together, ride to events together, something u would do with the house, but not normally those people.

2025-09-09 00:10:17 UTC

Be kind to people, go out of your way to compliment!!

2025-09-09 00:10:23 UTC

remember their due dates/important meetings and text them the day of wishing them luck/words of encouragement!

Smileeee

2025-09-09 00:10:23 UTC

Smile at everyone and wave and say hi to people you recognize/ talked to before. Look super excited to see them

Hold more house events so girls feel open to coming and connecting without feeling forced

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Be open to hearing about other people’s struggles even if you don’t relate

2025-09-09 00:10:25 UTC

invite your friends to hangout with your other friends (combine friends to help build connections)

2025-09-09 00:10:26 UTC

whenever you meet someone new immediately create another time to see them

invite to pre

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make them feel wanted

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it’s one thing to invite someone in, but it’s important to maintain the same feeling they felt when they got invited. so during the event/activity make sure you’re engaged with them and even following up afterwards and continue making an effort to make them feel seen by you

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legit just reach out like if you see them in public say hi how are you

2025-09-09 00:10:34 UTC

offer them a ride!

2025-09-09 00:10:35 UTC

commenting on a sisters instagram post

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Be the inviter!

2025-09-09 00:10:37 UTC

Invite people to sit with me when they are alone

Listening

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wear name tags at chapter so that people learn others’ names and therefore feel more included

Say hi and remember there name

2025-09-09 00:10:39 UTC

Be an includer

2025-09-09 00:10:40 UTC

If there’s anyone who seems even a little like they feel lonely, include them in a conversation or start a conversation with them.

2025-09-09 00:10:40 UTC

If a girl is eating by themselves in the house ask them if they want to come sit with you

Reach out to someone new

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Giving someone a hug

2025-09-09 00:10:43 UTC

Remember the little things about our sisters! And share that, show that you remember

2025-09-09 00:10:45 UTC

Sit with someone new at lunch or something and ask them about their day.

2025-09-09 00:10:48 UTC

have more sisterhood events that connect girls that you might not usually connect with!!

2025-09-09 00:10:50 UTC

chocolate dubi 24 kart Labubu

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Be welcoming!! Always try to do simple things to include people you may not know

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Set up lunches or dinners together

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Checking in on friends every once in a while especially if they are going through or dealing with something

2025-09-09 00:11:05 UTC

invite them to activities or clubs that you are in

Remembering small details

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Remembering something small tells the other person that you were actually listening to what they had to say. If we bring that detail up again in a later conversation it can make your connection stronger and more meaningful.

Comment on posts

2025-09-09 00:11:20 UTC

Comment on the posts of people you don’t seem super close with, you will stand out to them as a kind person.

when you see someone wearing axo letters outside of sorority events talk to them!

2025-09-09 00:11:32 UTC

Taco Tuesday at casa

2025-09-09 00:12:23 UTC

Connecting as an introvert…

2025-09-09 00:15:38 UTC

When you’re a more anxious/introverted person, it can be difficult to gain the courage to insert yourself in group settings. I like finding people that remind me of myself (they might be alone, looking anxious, or be the quiet one in a group). Go up to that person and ask them how they’re doing or give them a compliment! Just one kind remark that shows you care opens up a channel that you can connect with her through.

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ask genuine questions

invite them out!

2025-09-09 01:13:19 UTC

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Invite someone I’ve never met to go do something

2025-09-09 01:13:23 UTC

Reach out to new friends

2025-09-09 01:13:24 UTC

if you see someone sitting alone invite them over

2025-09-09 01:13:24 UTC

Talk to more people and get to be the first to know them

2025-09-09 01:13:26 UTC

Offer to take a night drive to let go of stress!

Sit with them at chapter!

2025-09-09 01:13:28 UTC

Invite people to do things with you, even if you already have a group of people.

2025-09-09 01:13:28 UTC

Try to talk to new sisters anytime you see them on campus, not just the friends you already have

2025-09-09 01:13:30 UTC

invite people in instead of them having to ask

2025-09-09 01:13:30 UTC

sit with someone who’s sitting alone!

2025-09-09 01:13:33 UTC

talk to a new face

2025-09-09 01:13:34 UTC

Always be nice and invite someone to sit with you

2025-09-09 01:13:34 UTC

invite them somewhere

2025-09-09 01:13:35 UTC

Always go start conversations with people when I go up to the house for food

2025-09-09 01:13:35 UTC

Start being more inclusive

2025-09-09 01:13:36 UTC

knock on their door!

2025-09-09 01:13:36 UTC

Start talking to girl I don’t know in the house or in class

2025-09-09 01:13:37 UTC

Invite them to dinner! To sit by them at chapter dinner!

Talk to new people everytime you go out

2025-09-09 01:13:37 UTC

You could tell someone you like the outfits they have been wearing

2025-09-09 01:13:38 UTC

Invite everyone!!!!!

2025-09-09 01:13:38 UTC

Invite them to go out

2025-09-09 01:13:38 UTC

Be nice and invite them even if you don’t know them. Thank yew

2025-09-09 01:13:39 UTC

Put yourself out there and be there for them. talk to them first

Be outgoing

2025-09-09 01:13:40 UTC

Invite someone who’s alone

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Make it a priority to show up to the house!

2025-09-09 01:13:40 UTC

invite someone out and make sure they feel included

2025-09-09 01:13:41 UTC

Go to yayas

Give compliments

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Always check in with people even if you may not know them very well.

Complimenting them

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i would say that you should say yes to everything or inviting them to everything that you can or you think that they would like

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hang out together one by one

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ask them to lunch or dinner at the house text them just chat with them

2025-09-09 01:13:42 UTC

being an open person anyone can come to if they feel they need a friend or anything!!!

Be a thoughtful listener

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go up to them and Have a conversation with them

SMILE😎

2025-09-09 01:13:46 UTC

I can invite someone to plans that I already have with other people if I see them alone.

a quick compliment!

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Reach out to new girls when seeing them at the house and ask them if they want to sit with me and introduce them to other people I know

2025-09-09 01:13:47 UTC

instead of keeping to myself i can invite people who are alone to sit with me at the house!

2025-09-09 01:13:48 UTC

Make a effort to invite people to the activities I do and go to the house more often.

2025-09-09 01:13:48 UTC

Ask to sit next to someone in class that is sitting alone

getting to know someone new

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talk to someone within the chapter that you haven’t talked to yet

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Compliment someone random

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I can reach out to others and be there to support them and just showing up for them no matter what

2025-09-09 01:13:50 UTC

If I see a girl being left out/alone i could go up to her and talk to her

2025-09-09 01:13:50 UTC

help them out whenever they are in need whether it’s diving a girl with no car to the grocery store

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Be outgoing

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be consistent with checking in

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Give them a compliment

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Reach out first during class and see how they’re doing being away from home

Lunch Talk

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Sit next to a girl at the house who’s eating lunch and talk to her make a new friend

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Hey, i really liked your outfit in class today!

Show up

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Show up for your friends and being a helping hand to others. Invite someone you see alone to get lunch or even just smile and say hi to new people.

2025-09-09 01:13:52 UTC

If you notice them sitting alone while other people are talking, invite them over with you

2025-09-09 01:13:52 UTC

Invite one of my sisters to hang out with me this Saturday if I see that they don't have anyone to hang out with at the game!!

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Ask them if they want to play pickleball if they are free.

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Come up and talk to people, especially if you see that they’re alone.

2025-09-09 01:13:54 UTC

go up to girls and start conversations and make them feel welcome and seen

2025-09-09 01:13:54 UTC

Talk to an unfamiliar face!

2025-09-09 01:13:54 UTC

At lunch, if you see someone at the house sitting alone, i bite them to sit with you and possibly make a new friend!

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Let someone rant if they need too and just be there for them and listen to them

ask to sit together in class

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I can engage in the group chat and compliment pictures or answer questions my sisters have

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At one of the events or just at the house ask about classes or anything that is relatable so you can start an easy conversation.

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Invite a new person to take a picture with you on gameday!!

Compliment someone

2025-09-09 01:13:57 UTC

Say hi to as many AXO girls u can at the game this weekend

2025-09-09 01:13:58 UTC

If I see someone sitting alone at dinner or lunch I can offer to sit with them.

2025-09-09 01:13:59 UTC

Compliment a random sister, even something simple like her sweatshirt is cute!

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Spread kind comments on an instagram post or even reach out to grab a bite of food

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Text someone to see if they’re available to do something

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Go to the house more and try to talk to and meet new people!!

Be an open ear and get to know people beyond surface level

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Be kind

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Being kind and inclusive!

include them in things! invite them out!

2025-09-09 01:14:02 UTC

meet with someone who understands your situation

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Ask someone how their day was

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just sitting with someone who is sitting alone at lunch or dinner

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Always always be inclusive

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Compliment them or invite them out to something.

Invite them over!

2025-09-09 01:14:05 UTC

I can invite a girl to come over and get ready and we can go out together or get dinner or watch a movie.

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invite girls in who are left out while eating alone

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Talk to someone who seems to be alone, or maybe getting ignored and making them feel seen

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Being an open ear and listen

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There are 600 girls in our sorority if you think there isn’t a group of people in alpha chi for you you’re wrong! A little trial and error isn’t a bad thing

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Be there when they need someone the most. Example: bringing someone flowers or food when they’re sad.

2025-09-09 01:14:07 UTC

Try and talk and smile to anyone I see

Be kind!

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Always be as kind as possible! Even if it is just a small smile!

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sit with a girl who’s by herself!

Ask someone if you can eat with them if they are eating by themself in the union.

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Ask if you can sit with someone during lunch or dinner at the house who is sitting alone

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go out

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Be Kind!! Always invite people!

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Invite them to things

2025-09-09 01:14:10 UTC

Sit with someone at the house who’s eating alone

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Reaching out to anyone who needs help getting to places

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sit with new members at the house during meal times

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Invite them to hangout with you, or your friend group if you notice they’re alone

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Reaching out to people who I haven’t talked to before and asking if they want to do something like grab food.

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Talk to everyone not just the people who you’ve been around.

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Inviting girls who are by themselves o come out to eat/ hang out

Go to the gym

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Comment on their Instagram or tik tok

2025-09-09 01:14:13 UTC

walk up to someone if you see them sitting alone or not talking much

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sit with someone at lunch or dinner who is sitting alone. introduce myself and exchange numbers!

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Always be kind, be that person that is approachable and not intimidating

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Reach out and make them feel heard

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Introduce them to your sisters and friends that you are already close with

2025-09-09 01:14:15 UTC

Be the first to talk to girls and reach out to them

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Invite her to sit with you during chapter or a football game

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Literally just reaching out and showing that you want to make time for them

2025-09-09 01:14:17 UTC

blind coffee dates with sisters who feel invisible!

Send a happy birthday text

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If I notice someone who is struggling to connect or is shutting down because they can’t I could talk to them or introduce them to people who would talk to them.

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Sit with someone who is by themselves at dinner or lunch.

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Ask someone if they wanna join the group of people your going out with

New members!

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I can invite some new members to go to the pool at my neighborhood to get some sun and time away from the dorms !

2025-09-09 01:14:26 UTC

Start conversations with people who are standing alone

2025-09-09 01:14:26 UTC

Invite someone to sit with my friends at dinner!

2025-09-09 01:14:28 UTC

be biggies w each other

2025-09-09 01:14:29 UTC

Get ice cream with a girl you haven’t talked to before after chapter

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You at at the house and see a girl by herself and sit with her and talk about her weekend plans

Be nice to everyone!

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talking to somebody new every chapter and getting to know your sisters more

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if someone is sitting alone invite them to come wherever you are you don’t need to only have a few friends you should be open to anyone

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Doing what makes you happy!

Smile and give them a compliment

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Check up on my sisters!

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Be nice and welcome people in. Invite people to different events.

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Inviting girls I don’t know to go out for food!

Invite them to the little things!❤️

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Invite someone to take pics before the game on Saturday!

always smile and be bubbly

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Talk to girls who might be by themselves at a social event or even at a meal

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make people feel like their presence is known when they’re by themselves

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invite to the game

2025-09-09 01:15:19 UTC

Being happy and not letting negativity effect meeting new people

2025-09-09 01:15:24 UTC

Literally just be honest, if you’re scared to talk to this certain person don’t be. Go up to them and be honest and yourself and if it dosent work then at least you tried.

2025-09-09 01:15:30 UTC

just being a nice person and if you see a girl eating alone invite her to sit with me

2025-09-09 01:15:31 UTC

Put yourself out there you belong! And everyone is in the same shoes and involving yourself in conversation and just go to the house

2025-09-09 01:15:36 UTC

Invite new friends to sit together at dinner

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I can reach out to sisters about meeting to do something productive whether that’s going shopping together or working on homework at the same time! Through these, I can introduce them to someone else in the chapter

2025-09-09 01:15:52 UTC

I always make sure to compliment someone (on literally anything) i see while walking to class, and it always puts a smile on their face. Because you never know what someone is going through or has gone through that day. I know personally whenever someone compliments me, i think about it for the rest of the day.

Respond in the Snapchat or Flare group to a message that is open-ended and can be shared w others- ie casa

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telling a girl happy birthday if I see it on flare, even if I don’t know her

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Looking for opportunities to be there for girls everyday

2025-10-06 00:10:59 UTC

Be an open ear

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If you see a girl feeling left out invite her in your group or to be with you

compliment her

2025-10-06 00:11:06 UTC

give a small compliment!!

Invite girls to events!

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tell them they beautiful

2025-10-06 00:11:09 UTC

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offering to grab water for the girls sitting at your dinner table or take their dirty plates

Saying a positive when a negative is being talked about

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Be someone to talk to

share something personal so she feels safe doing the same

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Invite people to walk to class together! Hey girl, I know we both have bio and live in the same dorm, do you want to walk to class together this week??

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Study groups for girls in the same classes!!

2025-10-06 00:11:19 UTC

Give them compliments and brighten their day ☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️☀️🌇🌅🌄🌞🌇🌞🌄🌇☀️

text them how their test/day went if they mentioned being stressed

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Showing that you’re there for them no matter what.

2025-10-06 00:11:22 UTC

go on a walk and talk about life at least once a week and give each other a safe space

2025-10-06 00:11:23 UTC

talk about classes and workload and support each other by working together

2025-10-06 00:11:25 UTC

Always be an

2025-10-06 00:11:26 UTC

sit with someone at meals who may be alone

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Give her a little note of encouragement before a test

invite a girl i know is a christian to my church and get icecream after

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Helping a girl with her outfit for the swap

2025-10-06 00:11:32 UTC

I can tell someone I love their shoes and have the same ones.

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getting to know people you haven’t met yet

Letting that person know that if they ever need anything that I’m always there and reaching out to them

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Invite them to things!! Seems so simple but bring it up in conversation and then follow up afterwards too

2025-10-06 00:11:35 UTC

I can sit with her, share personal thoughts with her, and express my feelings

Invite someone to an event when they are feeling left out.

2025-10-06 00:11:36 UTC

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compliment people i’m not super close with

Complement her so she feels welcome

2025-10-06 00:11:38 UTC

Be positive and have a smile on your face at all times!

being in tune with others needs

2025-10-06 00:11:40 UTC

Me favorite thing is if someone in a conversation is being cut off or talked over i’ll personally engage what they’re saying and try to weave them into the main conversation

2025-10-06 00:11:40 UTC

Check back in on a girl who has shared something she’s struggling with.

2025-10-06 00:11:40 UTC

Reach out to those who seem lonely

2025-10-06 00:11:40 UTC

This week has been so hard with school and sorority life how are you handling everything

2025-10-06 00:11:41 UTC

Take her to coffee and let her be vulnerable and I'd give it back so we can build that bond

Commenting on insta

2025-10-06 00:11:41 UTC

giving uplifting comments on insta posts

2025-10-06 00:11:42 UTC

Always be an open ear for someone to talk and really pour into listening and making them feel heard.

2025-10-06 00:11:42 UTC

be kind to all even if u don’t know someone very well

Run errands together, offer to help her study

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talk to her about a certain situation that has made me upset or uncomfortable. show her that i feel safe with her and that she can reciprocate the same energy if she feels like she needs to

I will be intentional with checking up on girls and asking about things we talked about earlier in the week

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helping a girl with her outfit for game day!

2025-10-06 00:11:51 UTC

try to sit with someone new at dinner or start a conversation and ask how they are doing

if an important event is coming up support them and maybe shoot them a text to make them feel special

2025-10-06 00:11:52 UTC

I will try to be there for any friend who needs me. I will check in with them.

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giving someone a compliment

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Walking together to class or to the house from your dorm and getting that opportunity to talk and get to know each other

2025-10-06 00:11:54 UTC

symmetry: wait you like sweet treats me too! Let’s go get one!

Daily text checking up on them, encouraging them through their week, ask if they need to talk about anything and let them know you are there to listen instead of gossip and tell their business

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i can invite her to do something we both share in common and while we are there talk about why we like to do that activity and what it means to us

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offer them a hug

Being a strong and trusted support system for my friends.

2025-10-06 00:12:01 UTC

Symmetry: talk about classes you might have together

Secrecy: talk about boyfriend drama

Connecting

2025-10-06 00:12:01 UTC

Something I can do for another woman as a small gesture this week is offering to make someone a coffee for a pick me up

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Go to the gym together

Run🏃

Motivate one another 👯 🔥

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Being willing to just listen without commenting

2025-10-06 00:12:04 UTC

i can make sure she knows i truly care about everything she has to say and that she always has my full attention when talking

Follow up, check in on them, keep communication and contact

2025-10-06 00:12:05 UTC

If my friend is having a rough week I can go buy her a coffee

Reach out and ask how they’re doing, go on a coffee and walk date, listen to what they have to say, be willing to take that time just to be all ears

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Symmetry- You love ______ too! You’re literally me!

Solidarity- hey if you ever need help with biology I’ve got you!

Secrecy- don’t worry I will not tell anybody about this!

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Connect over little conversations like at dinner and ask about how someones day has been to create a deeper connection

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Hype my friend up about her grades

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I think off the bat just being vulnerable with how you feel about your own friendship journey. I’ve done this and have found that I’m not the only one who feels a certain way. That then leads to a deeper conversation.

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If someone had a test ask them how it went!

be encouraging to others throughout the week

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Offer to take someone’s plate at lunch when theyre done!

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Open up about difficulties with class in conversation.

3 Affinities of Female Friendship

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Have a sleepover with a friend!

Making study groups with people in my major

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maybe find someone who feels homesick and fill their time and offer your support and talk to them about it and relate and do something with then

Inclusion

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Be as inclusive as possible.

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reach out in anyway that seems like it could help another girl out

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Be more understanding of our older girls feedback and our exec!

Check in on them if you haven’t heard from them in a while and let them know that you’re thinking about them

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Invite someone who is sitting by themselves to come sit with you or your friends.

If I notice someone looks off/sad ask if they would like help

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Sit with someone new at lunch and ask them how their week has gone

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If my friends bf cheated on her I’ll buy her flowers

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if someone is hurt I would offer support, bandaids, and anything else they may need. I will tell them that it’s happened to be before and it’s not something to be embarrassed about. I will tell them it’s our secret and no one has to know.

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Don’t automatically feel outcasted and shy away from speaking to girls. Be yourself no matter what and make those invites and ask genuine questions about themselves!

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Being with them in a slow, normal moment of life, not a party or social event, a daily life activity.

Share something vulnerable that will make them feel open and safe.

Complementing different girls

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Figure out what they want to get involved in on campus and go together!!

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Find something you have in common, share your feelings about whatever it is and relate to them/ show that you care to listen about whatever it is.

Reach out to someone to either celebrate them, thank them, or check in on them to show you see them and you care to know them.

Sending POTB(pat on the back call out) Or small wins when I hear someone accomplished something. Sending happy bday texts!

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Symmetry:

While hanging out, find things we have in common.

Solidarity:

If they need a favor or help, lend them a hand. Offer your help.

Secrecy:

Keep our topics we talk about inside our circle.

Making conversation with girls I see often about popular interests to see if they have the same interests

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Sit down with someone new at dinner and have a deep convo with them.

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Be more of a listener than a talker.

Girls who want friends

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Go out and make cupcakes

supp

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giving them advice when they ask

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sit with a girl I recognize but may not be quite close with for meals and begin conversation about their day or school. Do small things like putting her plate away or asking if she wants to grab a drink or snack with me.

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Talk about your major or classes if they’re the same or similar

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Complement them and talk with anyone alone

Studying

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If I notice a girl in my class isn’t doing as well, I can offer to help study with her or answer questions about the subject! Hopefully this can make her feel like she isn’t completely alone in the class and more confident about the class

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When I see another girl seems like she’s having a down day, go offer her something that would cheer her up without an explanation for why you’re doing it. When building trust, being a listener is super important and telling them you hear them is super important to making them feel like their feelings are cared for.

Girls

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Invite them to riddle with you to chapter

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Connect with a friend over similar classes/major
Offering help to fix a to-go plate for a friend who can’t make it to dinner
Sharing something specific with a friend in a moment of closeness

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GET COFFEE W THEM!