CBL Supercommunicators: What you can't see in me by Allison Walker

2024-08-20 03:54:29 UTC

Hi! Something that not a lot of people know is that I am a huge nerd. I am not necessarily an introvert but I do like time by myself. I’m also a really dry texter but in person I am really animated.

What you can't see in me

2025-01-04 20:02:20 UTC

You might not guess that I am an old soul! I am a huge lover of older music; anything jazz has spiked my interest this past year. Even though I may dress like a modern 22 year old, I actually do not prefer trendy fads or today's fashion. I am also most definitely a hopeless romantic (unfortunately)

What You Can't See in Me

2025-01-05 19:43:09 UTC

What you don’t see is the Hannah Montana effect. At work, I’m an executive-level professional, leading a team of over 30 people and sitting at the table making decisions alongside colleagues who are all at least 10 years my senior. But at home, I’m a new mom with two boys, juggling marriage, grad school, and trying to squeeze in a little self-care when I can. It’s a balancing act that looks seamless on the outside but feels anything but behind the scenes. At this point, it's not the best of either world.

what you can't see in me

2025-01-05 20:15:30 UTC

What you don't see in me is a condition that I have that causes me to have many learning differences. People see me as extroverted but I really am an introvert. I love being with friends and family all the time, but do love being in my bed too! I am a really big sports fan and could just sit and watch sports all day no matter what it is!

What You Can't See in Me

2025-01-05 20:19:35 UTC

As an EMT, I may appear calm and composed, thriving under pressure, but each call comes with its own uncertainty. When the tones go off, I’m given only basic details, the number of patients, their age, gender, and symptoms; yet I never truly know the severity until I’m on the scene. Every call feels like stepping into the unknown, requiring me to balance preparation with adaptability. Whether it’s a minor injury or a life-threatening emergency, I rely on my training, instincts, and quick decision-making to stabilize patients and provide care. Behind the calm exterior, I’m constantly managing my own emotions; fear, adrenaline, and doubt, while focusing on easing the patient’s pain and offering hope. Being an EMT has taught me resilience, adaptability, and the importance of staying present, even in life’s most chaotic moments.

What You Can't See in Me

2025-01-05 21:50:34 UTC

Something that is not noticeable and is very surprising to people in my life is how much I value my alone time. On the extroversion scale I am an ambivert, meaning I can be more extroverted or more introverted depending on the situation/environment I am in. So many people think I am more extroverted because I can be very social if I'm in a social environment. However, I am also a very reflective individual, so at the end of a long day of being in the office interacting with a ton of my coworkers and doctor's offices over the phone, I cannot wait to be in my own space and be completely silent. Whatever it is, curling up with my puppy in bed, reading a book, putting a tv show on, being quiet is my favorite part of my day.

What You Can't See in Me

2025-01-05 21:57:34 UTC

I feel like people can't usually see that I have an extremely nonjudgemental character. I feel like people can see how I look, and automatically think I can be judgemental or not the nicest person. But I think the misconception is that I am not like that at all.

What you can't see in me

2025-01-05 22:55:48 UTC

Something that can't be seen on the surface is imposter syndrome. While I am proud of my accomplishments, I constantly feel as though someone else could have done even better. The smallest mistake leads me to have self doubt. Working on feeling sure and confident in my abilities is something I work on internally to benefit my life.

What You Can't See in Me

sharvey117 — 2025-01-06 05:42:44 UTC

Beneath the surface, I carry a story of resilience and strength. You see a strong athlete, but you don't see the invisible health battle that's fueled my determination. It's been a tough journey, but it's shaped my resilience and made me who I am today.

What you can't see in me

2025-01-06 14:22:55 UTC

Something about me that most people cannot see is that i am a very empathetic person as well as I can be and intro/extrovert. I love to be alone, but i do enjoy being out with others. I value communication with the ones that i am close with and communication is something that i see vitial to my personal success as a human.

what you cant see in me

2025-01-06 17:28:31 UTC

Something about me that people cannot see is that I am very much so an overthinker. Overthinking for me can be both a blessing and curse. The reason why it's a blessing is because I tend to put a lot of thought into how something or someone or a particular situation may turn out. However, where the curse comes in is that overthinking usually cause me to take a small situation and overmagnify it.

What You Can't See In Me

2025-01-06 17:32:53 UTC

When people see me in a social or academic setting, they may quickly pick up on things about me like that I'm a huge sports fanatic, I'm a Christian, I enjoy socializing, etc. Yet, in my alone time, I obsess over sports data every day and scramble to find out how I can use it to: Help a coach, make a sports bet, maximize a team's potential, etc. I'm truly a data "nerd" when it comes to sports, although I may not outwardly give off that sentiment in a social or academic setting.

What You Can't See in Me

lbechtol1 — 2025-01-06 17:59:59 UTC

Something about me that people cannot see is that I have a huge heart. When I say I have a huge heart, I mean that I have a heightened sense of emotional awareness, which motivates me to act in ways that improve the lives of those I meet or see everyday. As cheesy as it might sound, you truly never know what someone else is going through or what their story is. Another thing that people cannot see is that I love a good book. I love reading so much that I set a personal goal to read a total of 50 books this year. I tend to always choose the kind of cheesy romance books where you know the two main characters will end up together, but sometimes I find myself reaching for a good mystery/thriller read.

What people can’t see in me

2025-01-06 18:58:36 UTC

Something that people can’t see in me is how small actions affect how I feel about a situation. I am an emotional person and have deep feelings for all situations not just big. I think sometimes it may seem to others like I am not affected by certain actions or situations but in reality I am. I often think back on interactions I have had and dwell on it when others probably did not even think twice about it. It is hard because often times people do not understand how deeply I feel emotions. This often leads to people pleasing as well which can be lead me to forget about myself and my needs.

what you can't see in me

2025-01-06 19:20:47 UTC

Something about me that people cannot see is that I am a very nice and caring person but people see me as a tall and big person and assume I am mean and not nice. I love sports and can talk sports all day but at the same time I love being around my friends and family and hanging out and having a good time.

What You Can't See in Me

2025-01-07 00:10:12 UTC

Something about myself that people can't see on the surface is that I am a very genuine, real person to everyone I meet. I have been told that I come across as someone who is a stereotypical mean or shallow girl based on my outward appearance, even though I am quite the opposite. Some people have also told me that they thought I would be rude or a fake friend when they met me, but that cannot be further from the truth. I love meeting new people, I love hearing about people's various backgrounds, and I love welcoming new people into my life. I am a deep empath and I care about everyone I meet probably a little too much! I am definitely an extrovert (which people are correct in assuming), but I like to think of myself as unique in the way that I love and care for others.

What You Can't See In Me

2025-01-07 00:24:40 UTC

I think a lot of people can't see how considerate I am of others. I feel like I put so many things before myself out of love, and it gets overlooked.

What You Can't See In Me

2025-01-07 01:23:04 UTC

Something about me that people can't see is how difficult it is to express my thoughts, and it takes me a little longer to process my assignments. I try very hard to understand my feelings and I'm learning to be more open around those that I care about. I have a big heart, but I am afraid sometimes to let people in and I worry about what comes next for my future. I'm more of an introvert, but I'm hoping that each day I can explore new possibilities.

What you can't see in me

2025-01-07 01:26:27 UTC

Most people see me as a bubbly girl who's always happy. What you can't see is the girl inside who overthinks everything and rarely can relax. It causes a lot of unnecessary anxiety and many mental battles.

What you can’t see in me

2025-01-07 03:24:43 UTC

What you don’t see in me is a lot of guilt and self-resentment. I have done and said horrible things to people I love and care about because I was in a bad and dark place mentally around 5-6 years ago. I have bipolar disorder and did not know it for a long time, but when I figured it out, the damage was already done. I have done a lot of work to help myself, rebuild those bridges and show people I am not the monster that I once was. Most people acknowledge and see that, but some are harder to crack... and I can’t blame them. The worst part about it is that most of the things I did, I don’t remember because my manic episodes I would black out. I know in my heart I did horrible things and the guilt of knowing that I did those things but not knowing what I did eats me alive every day.

What you can't see in me

2025-01-08 12:17:07 UTC

What you can’t see in me is a lot of anxiety and overthinking. Even though I was diagnosed with anxiety, adhd, and other learning disabilities over seven years ago, I still struggle to fully manage it. I’m the only one in my family who experiences these and was often labeled as lazy or unmotivated prior to my diagnosis—when, in reality, it’s extremely difficult and honestly super annoying to live with on a daily basis. I’m always way too hard on myself, even when I know I shouldn’t be, and all of these cause a lot more overthinking than I’d ever admit to someone. I often invalidate what I feel because it’s my responsibility to just figure things out. Obviously, I’d never let anyone see these things at surface level. I have gotten better over time, so I’m truly hoping that one day I have figured out ways to best manage my performance anxiety to live a life with a lot less stress.

what you cant see in me

2025-01-10 03:01:06 UTC

Something about me that people can't see is that I have anxiety and depression. My job can be super overstimulating and stressful. As crazy as it sounds, I know it's the best career path for me . I love working with special needs kids and in particular kids with ASD . It weighs on me every day that my hands hold their future. I strive my hardest to make sure every child is treated like my own

What you can't see in me is someone who is empathetic to everyone, even when they do not treat me well. I am someone who tries forgiveness until everyone else starts to think I am crazy. This is something that I have been working on, even though I dont lnow when it is too much and whern I give to little empathy to someone. I think that it will take time, but I will find a perfect balance.

2025-04-24 18:41:42 UTC

2025-04-24 23:48:18 UTC

What you don’t see is the face of a stressed out man who has a lot of work with a little ample time. The face of a man who is on the line with his job and does not have a backup option.