My delightful padlet by KANEDA KEOKEUTLA

1-feeling good about yourself

9609651 — 2024-09-27 16:46:59 UTC

Izzy, her friend Katie, and her boyfriend Theo are out shopping at an outlet mall, Izzy stops at a mirror and tells the both of them that her outfit looks cute and she feels good about herself.

2) honest

9525001 — 2024-09-27 16:52:06 UTC

katie agrees that her outfit is cute but she told Katie that she is getting a little fat and that she needs to go hit the gym. Izzy then started to shed tears.

3) overcome us vs them mentality

9525001 — 2024-09-27 16:56:34 UTC

Theo the way he is, he comforts Izzy saying that she looks good the way she is. he goes up to Katie, and tells her to apologize to Izzy for hurting her feelings.

4-being able to change your mind

9609651 — 2024-09-28 02:37:18 UTC

Katie goes up to Izzy and Apologizes to her saying that she was being mean and was wrong for calling Izzy fat. Katie goes on and tells Izzy that she changed her mind and thinks that izzy's body looks fine.

5-Expressing feelings

9609651 — 2024-09-28 02:46:04 UTC

Izzy looks at Katie and can tell that Katie is truly apologizing because of the way Katie looks and then, Katie starts crying. Izzy tells Katie that her friend died and she has been very depressed lately and has not been taken care of herself so she gained a couple of pounds within the last few weeks.

6) avoiding escalating tesion

9525001 — 2024-09-28 03:11:35 UTC

theo felt awkward about the situation so then he asked the girls if they wanted to go find something to eat to break the awkwardness .

7-Saying no without feeling guilty

9609651 — 2024-09-28 03:16:49 UTC

Although Izzy loves to go out and eat she says no to the offer because she has to go home soon because it is getting late and her mom will yell at her for coming home after 10 pm. Izzy felt no guilt saying no but felt happier instead.

8-recognize that all of us have biased fairness perceptions

9609651 — 2024-09-28 03:22:09 UTC

Katie thinks that Izzy doesn't want to go out to eat because maybe Izzy is still mad at her for what she said and Katie thinks that Izzy is wrong for not coming because Katie already apologized, but then she remembered that Izzy's mom did say that she wanted Izzy home before 10 pm and then Katie recognized that she is not right all of the time.

9) Separate sacred from pseudo-sacred issues

9525001 — 2024-09-28 03:28:47 UTC

Theo on the other hand does not agree with Izzy, he wants Izzy to go eat out because it is very sacred for her to go and that it is very very important. Theo also said that it was going to be his treat, he will pay for Katie and lzzy's food.

10) Asking for what you want directly

9525001 — 2024-09-30 23:18:37 UTC

while Izzy was debating whether to go or not, katie was really hungry and really wanted to go eat since Theo is paying for the food kaote just blurted out "I want to go eat, I'm soo hungry." Izzy then realized if her best friend is going then she will go so she called her mom to see if she could go and she could go.