我新式的的流形padlet by Wanru Xu https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky 伴随着智慧的风暴 en-us 2018-05-23 02:24:15 UTC 2026-03-14 12:28:35 UTC hello@padlet.com Sexual Assauly xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262892862 - “Me Too”
- One out of every six women has been subject to an attempted or completed rape during her lifetime. Countless more endure other forms of assault, abuse or harassment.
- Prompted by the recent revelations that Hollywood mogul Harvey Weinstein performed such acts on dozens of women over the past four decades, the phrase "me too," posted as a hashtag or Facebook status, did the usual digital-activism work of intensely personalizing a social and political issue that many could otherwise dismiss as "not my problem."   




]]> 2018-05-23 02:34:38 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262892862 Song: Me And A Gun xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262898809 “5 am
Friday morning
Thursday night
Far from sleep
I'm still up and driving
Can't go home
Obviously
So I'll just change direction
Cause they'll soon know where I live
And I wanna live

Got a full tank and some chips
It was me and a gun
And a man on my back
And I sang "holy holy" as he buttoned down his pants
You can laugh
It's kind of funny things you think
At times like these
Like I haven't seen Barbados
So I must get out of this

Yes I wore a slinky red thing
Does that mean I should spread
For you, your friends, your father, Mr. Ed” 

This stark, semi-autobiographical monologue, which Amos wrote to be performed a capella, takes the listener within the mind of a woman being raped – and is based on details of the singer-songwriter's own assault after a show when she was 21. The emotional centerpiece of her solo debut album Little Earthquakes, it remains one of pop's most intimate and forthright accounts of how women experience sexual violence.

]]> 2018-05-23 03:10:35 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262898809 Poem: Bone by Yrsa Daley-Ward xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262913165 From One
who says, “Don’t cry.
You’ll like it after a while.”

and Two who tells you thank-you
after the fact and can’t look at your face.

To Three who pays for your breakfast
and a cab home
and your mother’s rent.

To Four
who says,
“But you felt so good
I didn’t know how to stop.”

To Five who says giving your body
is tough
but something you do very well.

To Six
Who smells of tobacco
and says “Come on, I can feel that
you love this.”

To those who feel bad in the morning yes,
some feel bad in the morning

and sometimes they tell you
you want it
and sometimes you think that you do.

Thank heavens you’re resetting
ever
setting and
Resetting

How else do you sew up the tears?
How else can the body survive?

The result is a poem that speaks plainly of sexual abuse through a series of numbered but unnamed aggressors who get away with what they do in different ways: “From One / who says, ‘Don’t cry. You’ll like it after a while,’” she writes. “And Two who tells you thank you / after the fact and can’t look at your face.”
“It’s sexism, it’s misogyny, it’s violence. But it’s beautiful things also, it’s pleasure, it’s sex, it’s falling in love,” she said. “And these issues affect everyone as well.”



]]> 2018-05-23 05:04:07 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262913165 Short story xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262976863 The girl is 15
Getting drunk on homemade apple wine
With her friend Tom in his room
Tom is 17 and overweight

He pushes her down on the floor
And sits on her
Pulls up her shirt
She pulls it back down
Struggles to escape

He’s heavy and big
Sits firm on her body
Holds down her arms with his knees
He plays with her breasts
She struggles
“What do you care” he says

She doesn’t understand
She’s so ashamed of her exposed sexuality
How did she get here?
Stupid, stupid girl

So confused
So ashamed
Doesn’t understand what happened

He finally stops
She pulls her shirt down and goes home
She doesn’t tell a soul

]]> 2018-05-23 10:49:51 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262976863 Article: It’ll Never Be the Right Time for Famous Sexual Predators to Make Their Comebacks xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262978143
Just about any human being has the ability to change, which is why our justice system sometimes claims to offer a chance at rehabilitation after retribution. But what about those who never face legal consequences? What about the ones who, instead, are tried in the court of public opinion?

Nearly all of the famous men felled by actions brought to light by the #MeToo movement face lesser consequences than the men who have served out prison sentences for what are in some cases similar accusations. Not being able to host a TV show, run a restaurant or embark on a comedy tour is not the same as being kept from getting even minimum-wage work, renting a home or voting. At worst, powerful men have lost their absurdly high-paying jobs and watched their social status take a hit. None, save for Bill Cosby, are facing any criminal penalties. None have truly been deprived of their freedom–and some are already hoping for a comeback.

It may seem unlikely that the public–and women in particular–will re-embrace men like Harvey Weinstein, Charlie Rose or Matt Lauer, or New York Attorney General Eric Schneiderman, who resigned on May 7 after four women accused him of physical abuse (which he denies). But Mike Tyson, who was convicted of raping an 18-year-old girl, has become comic relief in movies. Chris Brown beat up his girlfriend; he now has a hit song in which he casually mentions his “controversial past.” Over a dozen women have publicly accused Donald Trump of violating them; he is the President.

Losing one’s liberty–going to jail, being on probation or spending one’s entire life on a sex-offender registry–is a serious penalty, and so the requirements to warrant it are high: a legal finding that one is guilty beyond a reasonable doubt, and a presumption of innocence until and unless that finding is made. But for the powerful, criminal convictions are rare, in part because these people have better tools to work the justice system and rarely fit the stereotype of a convict. So the court of public opinion ends up being where accusations–and just as often, accusers–are tried.

]]> 2018-05-23 10:56:39 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262978143 Recommended Books about Child Sexual xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262978714 Recommended Books about Child Sexual AbuseBooks for children about prevention
  • Some Parts are Not for Sharing – Julie K. Federico (ages 6 months+)
  • Your Body Belongs to You – Cornelia Spelman (ages 3-6)
  • The Trouble with Secrets – Karen Johnsen (ages 3-8)
  • My Body Belongs to Me – Jill Starishevsky (ages 3-8)
  • A Secret Safe to Tell – Naomi Hunter (ages 3-8)
  • Those are MY Private Parts – Diane Hansen (3-8)
  • Some Secrets Should Never Be Kept – Jayneen Sanders (ages 3-8)
  • I Said No: A Kid-to-kid Guide to Keeping Private Parts Private  – Kimberly King (ages 3-8)
  • Body Safety – Jayneen Sanders (ages 3-12)
  • The Swimsuit Lesson – Jon Holsten (ages 6-12)

Books about sexual development and safety

  • The Parent’s Guide to Talking about Sex – Janet Rosenzweig
  • Birds + Bees + Your Kids – Amy Lang
  • Off Limits: A parent’s guide to keeping kids safe from sexual abuse – S. Wuertele & F. Berkower
  • Teaching Children with Down Syndrome about Their Bodies, Boundaries and Sexuality – Couwenhoven
  • Understanding Your Child’s Sexual Behavior – Toni Cavanaugh Johnson
  • Childhood Sexuality: A guide for parents – Gail Ryan and Joanne Blum
  • From Diapers to Dating: A parent’s guide to raising sexually healthy children – Haffner

Books for children on healing and recovery

  • Something Happened and I’m Scared to Tell – Patricia Kehoe, Ph.D. (ages 3-7)
  • Something Is Wrong at My House – Diane Davis (ages 3-12)
  • I Can’t Talk About It – Doris Sanford (ages 4-8)
  • A Very Touching Book for Little People and for Big People – J. Hindman & T. Novak (ages 6-12)
  • Sarah’s Waterfall: A healing story about sexual abuse – Ellery Akers (ages 7-12)
]]> 2018-05-23 10:59:51 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262978714 TED Talk: Why women stay silent after sexual assault xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262979536
Why do women who experience sexual assault rarely speak up about it? "Because they fear they won't be believed," says Inés Hercovich. "Because when a woman tells what happened to her, she tells us things we can't imagine, things that disturb us, things we don't expect to hear, things that shock us." things we don't expect to hear, things that shock us." In this moving talk, she takes us inside an encounter with sexual assault to give us a clearer idea of what these situations really look like -- and the difficult choices women make to survive. (In Spanish with English subtitles)
http://www.ted.com/
]]> 2018-05-23 11:05:05 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262979536 Laws xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262981440 Sexual Assault: Definition

Specific laws vary by state, but sexual assault generally refers to any crime in which the offender subjects the victim to sexual touching that is unwanted and offensive. These crimes can range from sexual groping or assault/battery, to attempted rape. All states prohibit sexual assault, but the exact definitions of the crimes that fall within the category of sexual assault differ from state to state. The laws share some basic elements, but the structures, wording and scope of sexual assault offenses vary considerably, so always check your local statutes for specific questions.

Ohio has defined five crimes that are used to prosecute sexual assault and related crimes within the state. Statutory laws can be used to prosecute offences that are related to the victim being below the Ohio Age of Consent, while non-statutory rape laws are often used to prosecute offences in which force or coercion was used by the assailant.

Choose any law for further information on the legal definition, charge severities (felony, misdemeanor, etc) and punishments associated with the criminal charge.

Gross sexual imposition
Ohio state law § 2907.05 , Felony of the fourth degree; Felony of the third degree
Rape
Ohio state law § 2907.02, Felony of the first degree
Sexual battery
Ohio state law § 2907.03, Felony of the second degree; Felony of the third degree
Sexual imposition
Ohio state law § 2907.06, Misdemeanor of the first degree; Misdemeanor of the third degree
Unlawful sexual conduct with minor
Ohio state law § 2907.04, Felony of the fourth degree; Felony of the second 




]]> 2018-05-23 11:16:22 UTC https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262981440 Movies xu_1 https://padlet.com/xu_1/rlqz4nqsxnky/wish/262982870
  • Disconnect 
  • The Ward
  • Bedeviled 
  • Gothika
  • The skin I live in
  • Bol
  • Eden
  • A Serbian Film
  • The Virgin Suicides
  • Children of War
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