1. What evidence and what events do students use to conclude that their teacher knows and values them?

2. How do students decide if a teacher is fair? Give specific instances of events students use to make this decision.

3. In a similar manner to the question above, describe the events and situations which convince students that they are treated with respect by a teacher?

4. What role does "realness" play in building relationships between teachers and students?

5. What are the three parts of an "I" message?

6. What is the connection between "I" messages and "realness?"