https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61 Made with good vibes en-us 2022-05-02 11:32:40 UTC 2022-05-30 16:04:18 UTC hello@padlet.com sshastry25 https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2166611381 Does the shift of loyalty always have to result in betrayal of the person who was held dear originally?


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- This article talks about the value of loyalty, and how a relationship needs the same from both sides to ‘make it work.’
- Loyalty to one person is not serving them, but having the faith to trust them fully.
- It states that a relationship needs a strong foundation of acknowledgment, care, trust, and respect on both sides. 
- The acknowledgement of loyalty is important as partners don’t doubt each other as their relationship develops. 

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-  The worst disloyalty possible is one in yourself, which both Winston and Julia experienced after being brainwashed. They devoted the entire purpose of their life to Big Brother. 
- Betrayal, once started, can spiral into multiple instances. Loyalty is a powerful feeling, and when one breaks another’s trust, it becomes easier to betray another close one. 
- Someone who isn’t loyal does not deserve our respect, because the hurt of betrayal can sting more than any pleasure  that temporarily being with them can bring. ]]> 2022-05-02 12:04:06 UTC https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2166639887 sshastry25 https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2166678557 - Research shows that feeling personally shaped by major events in the relationship with a partner, or being a fan of a sports team, rather than the time spent as their fan or partner, leads to a greater identity fusion with that being or team.
- Many individuals face ‘exit problems’ in an attempt to keep lifelong loyalty as they are tempted to escape their situation to go to a more tempting scenario — this is what breaks many relationships.
- Euphoric and dysphoric experiences, past investment in the relationship, and identity fusion are all important factors that lead to whether an individual is loyal with their partner or not.
- "Another key prediction originating from Whitehouse and Lanman [20, 26] is that highly dysphoric (intensely negative) group experiences can affect fusion in ways equal to and even beyond euphoric group experiences. "
- "Fusion is likely to be an especially strong predictor of this form of loyalty because for fused individuals, to be unfaithful to the group would be to betray not only the group itself (associated with the sanctity of familial ties) but also the essence of their personal self "


]]> 2022-05-02 12:38:04 UTC https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2166678557 sshastry25 https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2167592269 - Loyalty is one of the most important things in relationships. 
-In the modern day and age, it is easy to get tempted and be disloyal to someone, and exit a relationship because of exterior factors, like in Winston's case, the Party. 
- Loyalty has a wide range of things it covers, not only 'not cheating' on the person whom you are in a relationship with. 
-Hiding information is an act of betrayal in a relationship. 
- Being loyal means not only loving them because of beauty and physical characteristics, but mainly being emotionally attached to them and actually caring about their well-being.
- An act that can risk either partner's health or safety is still an act of betrayal, even if it is done out of immense love and wanting.]]> 2022-05-03 01:07:17 UTC https://padlet.com/sshastry25/r7ql8vaqvkdzwr61/wish/2167592269