https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z What surprised you? Have you seen this in your life with someone you know? Will you do anything different in dating because of one of these facts? What could be done to make sure you aren't a victim of this statistic? en-us 2021-06-02 04:43:33 UTC 2025-08-04 03:26:07 UTC hello@padlet.com https://padlet.net/icons/png/1f60d.png 1808373 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822052 I agree with this statement because money can only buy so much, but it cannot buy happiness. ]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:01 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822052 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822260 I think this is one of the reasons why couples don't want to get divorced even if they want to]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:12 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822260 1801701 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822454 i think family plays a big role in marriage too. My grandma played a huge in my parents divorce. She was a reason why they always fought.]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:22 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822454 1819331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822606 This is very interesting and it makes a lot of sense.]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:31 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822606 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822640 This surprised me, I didn't know you had to pay for a divorce]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:32 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580822640 18056116 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823030 Yes I think it will affect how long before because if you guys are still together after that period then you can say its safe to get married.]]> 2021-06-02 21:45:48 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823030 1813671 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823448 I find this statistic not surprising at all especially since people lost there job during this time which means theres less money in the marriage which is a leading cause of divorce.]]> 2021-06-02 21:46:07 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823448 1804843 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823484 2021-06-02 21:46:09 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823484 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823528 more so I feel like if you waste so much on this person and yet you both still are like on a 50-50 level then the chances would go down -Hugo, C]]> 2021-06-02 21:46:11 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823528 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823659 This is very shocking information, I was never even aware that divorces costed money. After seeing and knowing how much divorces can cost I will definitely be more cautious when it comes to choosing a husband because $17,500 is not a cheap price to pay. I do know of some couples that have been together for years and live together and have kids but haven't married, I wonder if this could be a reason.]]> 2021-06-02 21:46:16 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580823659 1809472 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824212 2021-06-02 21:46:42 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824212 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824594 Im surprised that people at 18 would even get married, I thought they would wait until they were at least be old enough to have money and be mature]]> 2021-06-02 21:46:58 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824594 1819331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824659 2021-06-02 21:47:01 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824659 18019712 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824755 2021-06-02 21:47:06 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580824755 1808373 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825432 I think that the "In Love Feeling" will affect my dating life because I thought that the longer you are in relationship, the more you are guaranteed to get married. However, my view has changed after reading this fact.]]> 2021-06-02 21:47:39 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825432 1803353 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825514 I can confirm, my aunt has went through many marriages ]]> 2021-06-02 21:47:41 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825514 1807231 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825784 I agree with this because there is a lot of divorce. Majority of people I know at school and work have divorced parents, including myself.]]> 2021-06-02 21:47:53 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580825784 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826172 I think the last topic to be brought up should be dreams and hopes, also personal goals within each spouse's personal life]]> 2021-06-02 21:48:07 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826172 1819331 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826265 2021-06-02 21:48:10 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826265 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826626 I remember my mother telling me this had happened to her friend, rip]]> 2021-06-02 21:48:28 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826626 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826667 I think 1, 2, and 5 must be considered where as 3 and 4 and a bit more easier. Hugo, C ]]> 2021-06-02 21:48:29 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580826667 1803353 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827041 I agree along with that these topics should be talked about more than once as people change their mind later on]]> 2021-06-02 21:48:47 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827041 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827704 It’s kind of scary how you have you pay nearly $20k to get out of something you don’t want to be in anymore. I had no clue you had to pay for a divorce. ]]> 2021-06-02 21:49:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827704 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827717 This is pretty surprising and it does make sense because most of the times people only care about money]]> 2021-06-02 21:49:19 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580827717 1809472 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580828833 2021-06-02 21:50:09 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580828833 1803353 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580828902 Lesson learned, get fully settled before marriage]]> 2021-06-02 21:50:13 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580828902 1804843 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580829098 Yes because going through the first huge stages in life beside that person will ultimately force you to experience and decide if you enjoy it to keep for the rest of your life.]]> 2021-06-02 21:50:22 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580829098 1808373 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580829545 I was surprised that the largest percentage of divorce is third marriages. I thought that the first marriages would end up with the largest percentage.]]> 2021-06-02 21:50:42 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580829545 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830056 I believe that its a great thing to have a specific quality with that one special person and a good conversation because it shows you that hey this person and I both can go on and on about anything and you feel that connection that can't be bought. Hugo, C.]]> 2021-06-02 21:51:05 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830056 1807231 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830443 I agree because a lot of couple were busy with work and other things before the pandemic and when lock down happen everyone saw each others true colors and realized they didn't want to be with that person.]]> 2021-06-02 21:51:23 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830443 1811215 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830566 I agree with this statement because money can't buy happiness and having quality time with your loved ones is key to be happy in life.]]> 2021-06-02 21:51:26 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580830566 1794241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580831124 I'm not surprise about this fact because people are not fully mature at the age of 18 when it comes to marriage.]]> 2021-06-02 21:51:45 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580831124 1804843 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580833712 I personally agree and put those things at priority ]]> 2021-06-02 21:53:48 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580833712 1807231 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836138 I believe this statement especially because you can't buy happiness.]]> 2021-06-02 21:55:44 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836138 1813671 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836556 I agree with this because younger people tend to not think things all the way threw than an older person that is fully developed and knows the repercusson of things like marriage.]]> 2021-06-02 21:56:03 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836556 1794241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836618 I agree with these 5 topics because they are important. However, I think that another topic that should also be discussed is political views because it can have a huge impact on a marriage.]]> 2021-06-02 21:56:07 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580836618 1813671 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580842235 I can see this being true money can go so far but in marriage communication is a big factor to a good relationship or marriage and materialistic things dont last forever. ]]> 2021-06-02 22:00:33 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580842235 1794241 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580843890 This fact does not affect how long I will date before I get married because I always planned to wait a few years before getting married.]]> 2021-06-02 22:01:46 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580843890 1809472 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580850444 2021-06-02 22:07:05 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580850444 18152315 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580856306 I don't find these statistics surprising because growing up I always noticed that there was more kids with parents who were divorced than parents who were married]]> 2021-06-02 22:11:38 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580856306 18152315 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580862250 I always knew that if I were to get married I would like to date my person for over a year because even if you get married statistically most marriages don't last 7 years.]]> 2021-06-02 22:16:33 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580862250 18152315 https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580865606 I always knew that divorce was expensive but I did not think it was that expensive and the fact that this an average cost shocks me]]> 2021-06-02 22:19:06 UTC https://padlet.com/oxnardunion/r4eyxj8ytja03u1z/wish/1580865606