What is your Love Notes question? by Yaser Birjas https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes Q & A en-us 2022-10-08 03:04:41 UTC 2023-01-16 00:22:22 UTC hello@padlet.com Religiosity is your business, not spouse's business https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444786447 But as a husband/father, am I not responsible for shepherding my family towards ibadah in order to save them from Jahannam?]]> 2023-01-15 15:27:47 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444786447 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444788497 How to help your spouse come out of depression? ]]> 2023-01-15 15:32:30 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444788497 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444848955 If I’m a person who doesn’t show love and my wife is too clingy and loving. How do we satisfy each other? Any middle ground? ]]> 2023-01-15 17:18:11 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444848955 Intimacy https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444855591 Many people tell us we are an “ideal” couple - looks, attitude, etc. the reason i mention this is because it stings that we have issues becoming intimate. my wife struggles to enjoy intimacy and that causes a negative loop because i really enjoy/need it. i try my best to be understanding and work with her but it is hard, every single thing besides that in my life is perfect. we do little things for each other, and have healthy communication and conversations. what’s your advice? ]]> 2023-01-15 17:29:56 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444855591 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444856360 how important is sexual compatibility? i know its not #1 priority but can it really harm a relationship beyond repair? ]]> 2023-01-15 17:31:11 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444856360 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444857716 i’m financially, mentally and emotionally capable and can convince my wife to be on-board to marry a second wife. what is your experience with men that successfully have multiple or second wives? ]]> 2023-01-15 17:33:46 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444857716 Interfaith in-laws https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444857891 Any suggestions for working with Christian in-laws? (From a Revert wife)]]> 2023-01-15 17:34:06 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444857891 What is the divine/ suggested gender role/ custom. https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444870481 Does traditional = divine roles ? ]]> 2023-01-15 17:59:30 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444870481 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444872092 How do you balance the right of intimacy, with doing ghusal? Sometimes both people want intimacy but can’t shower daily.]]> 2023-01-15 18:03:02 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444872092 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444877598 What defines the home expectations not being met? For example what if a wife is working and she is still cooking and cleaning, but it is not up to the standards of her husband. She’s making quick food, instead of biryani. Do the expectations have to match the husbands, or is bare minimum okay?]]> 2023-01-15 18:15:23 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444877598 In mixed marriages, sometimes spouses try to use religion as means of reference point but it is often confused with culture as well. How can we get the clear information on the Islamic expectations to use as our reference point within our respective marriage styles. Can we go over some of those clear cut Islamic expectations https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444891803 2023-01-15 18:45:18 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444891803 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444908323 In today Society, Isn’t it hard to provide for the family on one income due to increase in the cost of living. If the wife is a stay at home mom and doesn’t work how would we be able to afford to live on my income solely? ]]> 2023-01-15 19:23:39 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444908323 Recordings and exam https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444914508 Will there be an exam for this course?
Will there be recordings made available of the sessions?
I missed Friday night, would it be possible to review a recording?]]> 2023-01-15 19:37:33 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444914508 What is the Islamic guidance on public affection between spouse https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444917489 2023-01-15 19:44:25 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444917489 If husband wife same profession & husband fultime & wife is 50% work( part time) ; Can they be transitional lifestyle? https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444927407 2023-01-15 20:07:33 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444927407 Family dynamics & FILs https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444936587 When it comes to parents interfering, some of the uncles love throwing around the story of Ibrahim AS ordering Ismail AS to change the gate of his house and using that as an excuse to interfere in things they shouldn’t or to try and override their son’s decisions when it comes to the son’s family life when the father isn’t Ibrahim AS. How should sons respond to some of the elders expecting absolute control and using that story as “Islamic evidence” when the son doesn’t think it’s appropriate with respect to marital affairs.]]> 2023-01-15 20:30:33 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444936587 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444952408 I have significant stressful work situation which keeps me subconsciously anxious and I feel I go through emotional stress. How to explain my situation to my wife?]]> 2023-01-15 21:11:13 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444952408 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444955547 In our culture it’s normal for the son to give money to his parents regularly regardless of need and if they’re well-off. How to do recommend talking about how much money your comfortable with him giving when you two are just starting to establish yourself financially? ]]> 2023-01-15 21:19:32 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444955547 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444968368 Should I feel guilty playing video games as a way to connect with my cousins and keep in touch with my friends. How would you suggest balancing that and your wife ]]> 2023-01-15 22:00:35 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2444968368 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445001359 What if you feel like your spouse is slowing you down on your growth and not feeling you're in the same wavelength?]]> 2023-01-15 22:44:43 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445001359 Islamic home schooling https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445002174 Are there any online Islamic home schools? If so, any names?]]> 2023-01-15 22:47:29 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445002174 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445017473 Can you talk about bringing up the past? My husband brings up my past sins and mistake and it hurts ]]> 2023-01-15 23:36:51 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445017473 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445020203 How do you forgive your spouse with the same “sin” in repeated and the level escalates each time?]]> 2023-01-15 23:45:53 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445020203 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445033009 Is it okay to forgive without the other person acknowledging or knowing they have wronged you?]]> 2023-01-16 00:20:10 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445033009 https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445033938 How to get my husband to open up emotionally and come to me more ]]> 2023-01-16 00:22:22 UTC https://padlet.com/VRIC/LoveNotes/wish/2445033938