I would get angry. I would be the first to act aggressively and want to go and ask the person who did this to account. Asking a teacher for guidance is the best decision, but I don't think I would be able to react immediately and think correctly when I first heard it.

Unfortunately, I can now stay calm because I was verbally bullied before. I would definitely talk to the guidance counselor and ask for intervention. I have learned that worse things can happen when anger is felt in such situations. I would definitely get help from an adult.

I would get very angry if someone spoke badly about me. I would think I didn't deserve it. I would take it out on people around me or on others. But after thinking a little and calming down, I would realize that it would be right to get help from an adult. I think it's a little difficult to be calm and think calmly at our age. We need to learn what we can.

This situation made me angry. It made them angry and I learned why they did this.

I would wonder what the facts were in such a situation. I would think about it for a while and then take action. I would ask my teachers and family what I should do to deal with cyberbullying. I think it is very important to inform adults in this situation. I would be very upset if I saw someone close to me make a bad comment to me, and if I saw someone else being bullied, I would support the victim.

In such a situation, I wonder what is actually happening. I feel very sad, I don't react immediately, if I react immediately it may be misunderstood. I think about it for a while and tell my family or my guidance counselor. If I try to solve it on my own, the situation may get longer, so I need to get help. When I see negative comments, I don't care, if my friends encounter such a situation, I help them.

If it were me, I would go to those who talk about me and ask them why they talk about me. If they say anything bad to you, I would report it to my mom or the principal.

I would feel really sad and bad. When I heard what my friend said, I would be really surprised and hurt. After checking the messages, I would try to understand the situation, but I would still feel upset. At that moment, I would probably feel alone and left out.

First, I'd feel really sad.

1. I'd tell my mom/dad or a teacher I really trust.

2. Instead of angrily texting back, I'd say, "What you’re doing really hurts my feelings.

3. The ones making fun of me are actually making themselves look silly! Real friends don’t act like that.

4. I’d remember: Their words don’t define me.

Important: If they keep doing it, I’d definitely talk to the school counselor.

First, I'd feel really hurt and might even want to cry. But then here's what I'd do:

I'd take a deep breath before texting anything back. I'd immediately go tell my mom/dad - or maybe even my teacher because grown-ups can really help with stuff like this.

The next day, if that group came near me , I'd calmly say "I saw what you wrote - that wasn't cool at all.

I'd remember that people who try to hurt others are usually unhappy themselves. Meanwhile, I'd keep having fun with my real friends!

Siber zorbalıkla baş etmenin en sağlıklı yolları şunlardır:

Güvenilir yetişkinlere başvurabiliriz.

Zorbalığa maruz kalmamak için sosyal medya hesaplarımızı özel tutabiliriz.

Siber zorbalığa karşı kanıtlar toplayıp ve yetkililere bildirebiliriz.

Zorbalık yapan kişileri engelleyip ve raporlayabiliriz.

Olumsuz bir yorum veya mesaj gördüğümde mağdur olan kişiye destek çıkarım.

Başka birinin zorbalığa uğradığını gördüğümde Zorbalığa uğrayan arkadaşıma destek olur, onu yalnız bırakmam ve yetkililere durumu bildiririm. Zorbalığı yapan kişiye, davranışlarının zararlarını ve empati kurmanın önemini anlatırım.

Tabii ki benim için cevap vermeden önce biraz düşünmek daha iyi olacaktır.

Siber zorbalıkla baş etmenin en iyi ve sağlıklı yolu sosyal mecralardan uzak durmak, hobilere yönelmek, meditasyon yapmak vb. şeyler yapılabilir.

Böyle bir durumda kesinlikle büyüklerden yardım almak gerekir. Bu süreci en acısız ve en kolay şekilde geçirmek için psikolojik danışman veya aile okul danışmanından yardım alınabilir.

Olumsuz bir yorum karşısında kesinlikle biraz sinirlenirim ayrıca başka birisinin zorbalığa uğradığını gördüğüm zaman mağdur olan kişiyi savunurum

Siber Zorbalıkla baş edebilmenin yolu yetkili birine bildirmek.

Evet önemli çünkü bazı olası olumsuz sonuçlar doğurabilecek birçok durum ortaya çıkabilir.

Tepkimi karşımdaki insana sakince verirdim eğer anlayamayacak bir konumdaysa uğraşmazdım.

Başka birini zorbalığa uğrarken görürsem psikolojik destek vermeye çalışırdım çünkü kendini kötü hissetme olasılığı yüksek elimden geldiğince yardımcı olurdum.

Elif / ÇANAKKALE ŞEHİTLERİ ORTAOKULU

In this situation I would feel sad. Then, I go to talk with my friends to try to fix it. If they don’t stop, I go to talk with my parents and they solve the problem. 

If I see a negative comment to someone, I say to he what are they saying

Çok üzülürdüm.Bu durum beni mutsuz ederdi.Bunu anneme anlatırdım

Arkadaşlarımın benim hakkımda konuşması beni üzerdi..Bana baklmaları beni rahatsız ederdi.Onlara kırılırdım

Çok ağlardım.Anneme ve öğretmenime söylerdim.