Nhat Ho - New Rule of Dating Mind Map by Nhat Ho https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5 en-us 2025-09-23 20:32:39 UTC 2025-09-24 03:28:57 UTC hello@padlet.com Why is dating harder? nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600832660 2025-09-24 02:36:12 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600832660 How does online dating apps affect the pattern and dynamic of dating? nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600834434 2025-09-24 02:37:08 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600834434 Judgement double standard nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600843159 Dating apps have allowed people to judge potential partners quickly and ruthlessly, like swiping left based on a single photo or a few words in a bio. Meanwhile, they want to be seen as who they truly are but are scared of being ruthlessly rejected as they do to others.

]]> 2025-09-24 02:41:19 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600843159 "Ick" nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600855080 That easy-to-reject attitude, fueled by dating apps, is carried into first dates, so that even some random minute turnoffs can cause a potential relationship to end prematurely

]]> 2025-09-24 02:46:41 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600855080 "Hard balling" nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600861591 The approach to dating with strict, non-negotiable expectations. Thus, it leaves no room for organic compromise. Hence, dating becomes a checklist exercise rather than a journey of mutual discovery

]]> 2025-09-24 02:49:41 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600861591 Dating apps let people know so much about others even before dating. nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600872460 Thus, there is less room to discover organically. A lot of potential excitement and attraction toward a person can be from them sharing their stories, hobbies, passions, or ideals in person.

]]> 2025-09-24 02:54:29 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600872460 Dating apps let people know so much about others even before dating. nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600872462 Thus, there is less room to discover organically. A lot of potential excitement and attraction toward a person can be from them sharing their stories, hobbies, passions, or ideals in person.

]]> 2025-09-24 02:54:29 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600872462 Knowing so much pre-dates can also amplify insecurity and anxiety nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600878268 If an algorithm determines that we allegedly match up so well with someone, and yet there is no spark, then maybe there is really no one out there for us after all

]]> 2025-09-24 02:57:01 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600878268 "low capacity for courtship" nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600889542 Dating apps amplify fear of getting hurt, poor flirting skills, and being too picky

]]> 2025-09-24 03:02:17 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600889542 Rising rates of anxiety and depression among young adults nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600893439 Due to not being properly equipped to deal with heartbreak and rejection, retreat may feel like the best, or only, option. However, that pattern becomes a feedback loop that causes more loneliness and insecurity, which further burdens their frabile mental health

]]> 2025-09-24 03:04:00 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600893439 Low commitment nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600902146 2025-09-24 03:07:59 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600902146 situationship nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600926219 something that isn't nothing but also isn't a relationship

]]> 2025-09-24 03:20:45 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600926219 reasons to avoid a label nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600930493

  • no interest in outsiders' judgements

  • not be subject to the expectations that come with it

  • only a degree of connection but not a full-fledged relationship

  • prioritize freedom: avoid having to do more than they are willing to

    • ]]>     2025-09-24 03:23:15 UTC https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600930493     what situationships lack nmh128_1 https://padlet.com/nmh128_1/qvtblzy2nw2mehq5/wish/3600940765 They lack clarity and the promise of a future. Thus, people in situationships are more likely to feel jealous and doubtful due to the uncertain nature of situationships.

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