Self Mind Map by Isaiah Taufa

Isaiah Kealohanui Taufa

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-24 18:14:53 UTC

Culture

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Family

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Fashion

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Morals/Beliefs

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Personality

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Love/Hatred

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Music

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Japanese

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Hawaiian

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Tongan

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The romanticization of my kindness. (Hate)

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Treat everyone with kindness, until there's a reason not to, but even then, have human decency.

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Giving honest compliments (Love)

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Empathetic

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Hoodies

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Women/people in general should have full control of their bodies.

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Rumors (Hate)

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Songs that point out world problems

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I am only somewhat connected to this part of my culture. I am connected through food and my great granny, but I don't know too much about the Japanese side of my family, or much about Japanese culture. I wish my Mom taught me how to speak more Japanese growing up.

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-24 18:57:17 UTC

I am mostly Tongan, and know a lot of my Tongan cousins, but barely know anything about Tongan culture, compared to my knowledge of Hawaiian culture.

Empathy (both)

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Analytic

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isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-28 03:17:57 UTC

I have been left by or left previous friends for apparently leading them on, or just because they assume my kindness is me showing romantic affection, which makes me insecure about how I am, in that way.

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-28 03:22:01 UTC

I love that I'm able to care about everyone, and have an empathy for people in general, but at the same time, I hate that I still care for someone or people who no longer deserve my thoughts and empathy.

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-28 03:31:14 UTC

Over time, from experience, I've learned that rumors can haunt a person, to the point of having trust issues. I've had so many rumors spread about me, that I've eventually also learned, that a change in perspective of how the rumors are viewed, can completely change the effect it has. Though, it isn't easy to reach that point.

Putting on a good outfit can make me feel confident

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I have an extremely analytic mind. It's a complicated trait to have. I love and enjoy analyzing art, music, and deeper meanings. It can be stressful sometimes though, because it can make me start to overthink, and analyze situations with people.

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-28 19:24:36 UTC

I have an empathy for everyone I meet, and there are pros and cons.

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Whether I feel depressed or insecure, putting on an outfit can change or embrace that mood.

Toxic Masculinity and the Patriarchy (Hate)

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isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-29 18:33:32 UTC

I hate the misinformation that gets passed down and believed through generations of men. There is a form of brainwashing that happens when toxic beliefs and standards of men, held by and practiced by usually men, are taught to their children. These problematic beliefs include, not expressing emotion, not respecting women as equal beings, believing that only men can and should be the source of money in a household, etc..

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2023-08-31 01:19:21 UTC

I can appreciate and find beauty in simple things, in those situations. For example, a hard-working someone who has daily trouble with all of their paperwork makes a mess all the time, and someone buys them a binder to separate their papers. This makes their life easier now, and they have this simple item that makes their life easier.

I love that simple things can change or better everyday life.

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You never know what someone is going through. As cliche as it is, it's probably because of how true it is.

I think the home and the beliefs taught, growing up, help determine the outcome of every human.

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2024-09-03 19:23:16 UTC

isaiahdataufakid17 — 2024-09-03 19:29:03 UTC

Generational trauma is a real thing that is passed down way too frequently, and I believe that depending on the severity of the toxic beliefs being taught in each household and the way it's dealt with depends on the personality of the child growing up.

The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints

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Manipulation of the Mind

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isaiahdataufakid17 — 2024-09-03 19:57:08 UTC

I think manipulation of the mind is sometimes necessary and beneficial, but could also be detrimental or negative: affirmations, faked confidence, gaslighting, "fake it til' you make it," etc.

Life Complications

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isaiahdataufakid17 — 2024-09-05 18:01:31 UTC

I don't think life has to be as complicated as it can be when you make it. Not taking everything personally, besides disrespect, and loving life for simple things, can make life a lot easier, and avoid a lot of stress and social problems that really could just be avoided.